The sweet confusion of the first-night meet

Talking about sex is not an easy matter for most Indians. If we look at it from a different perspective, this will make sense. 8% of India's marriages are 'arranged'. That is, weddings are arranged by the elders. Love here has no access. Only two families exchange conversations. The customs are discussed. And they 'talk'.

So what's the scene on the first night of the wedding? Imagine trying it out. Two totally unknown people are sitting face-to-face on a bed full of ritual flowers, and their other family members are standing outside, knocking at the door. So the tension in the room inside the door is constantly increasing. The groom may be the young man who has been thirsty for sex for the last decade, in whose society sex can only be enjoyed after marriage. And now when it finally comes to fruition, it is only natural to be a little confused as it has all the legal and moral permissions. Because of this situation, the average bride is in a strange, embarrassed or frightened state, having very different reactions to the first night.

In a recently released condom advertisement, instead of emphasizing sex on the first night, a depiction of Indian society is being called 'today only bateen'. Naturally, the first night's sex should be avoided if the arranged marriage does not involve awkwardness and both partners experience sexual matters. Both physically and emotionally, one should postpone 'Suhag Rat' until fully agreed. It only causes one to know and understand the boundary between passion and a lifetime of love and respect.

However, even in the urban and educated, the conversation about the first night is not very public. But if newlyweds want to enjoy this night, they must find out more about the subject by discussing it publicly.

How the husband and wife approach each other on the first night depends on how active the two were before marriage. Even if they remain active, the stress of the wedding and the exhaustion of the whole day loses the brightness of the first night of the wedding. So there are some things to keep in mind to make the first night memorable.

The first night of a perfect wedding can be seen in the movies or in the pages of the novel. The facts are a little different in real life. Rarely can one be so tired of giving each other satisfying love. Instead of putting pressure on the wedding night after all-day running, we should learn to talk and relate to each other and to be with each other. One should be eager to awaken feelings of love among each other. Once that feeling begins to arise, sexual pleasure becomes an integral part of your marriage.

Many of us prepare for the smallest details, from what to wear or not to wear on the day of the wedding, but no one learns to take care of the wedding night. Something strange can be planned to remove the strangeness of the unknowns of both and increase the amount of pleasure. Thus, it is fair to say that the two partners spent some time discussing what to do this night and planning what to do to make each other happy. It is important to learn to respect each other's desires, imaginations, and boundaries. The distance between the two can be greatly reduced if these words come out of each other's mind before the wedding night.

Don't waste time planning to buy designer ghagra choli only. Also, try to make them look good and dissolve excess fat. If so, start visiting the gymnasium so that your excess fat dissipates at the wedding. Your body will be toned and the skin will also shine, which is very important for your partner. It will also increase your self-confidence.

No matter how shy you are, never be fooled into exposing yourself to a tent-like nightclub at night. Buy a special night dress for this night, which will make you look beautiful and sexy. Do whatever it takes to make your spouse happy. Nowadays, there are several types of night dresses available in the market, ranging from sexy bras and close-ups to beautiful boxers. One of them will surely be found for you too.

Pack your night bags very carefully. In addition to catchy nightwear and underwear, the music of some romantic music CDs will also get you in the mood for relaxing love. So scented candles will make the atmosphere colorful, so include them in your list. A refreshing massage oil or bubble bath can also be planned. If baby does not want to be in the near future, be sure to keep your luggage for birth control!