Confusion.

- I love a boy of a different caste from our caste, who is considered educated and does a job at a good post.

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I am an 18-year-old BA student, three years ago a teacher came to teach me at home. In age he was like my father. When I passed the high school exam, he asked my mother for my hand in marriage. My mother said yes. My father is abroad now, so it's been a while since I've talked. I love a boy from a different caste than ours, who is considered educated and does a job at a good post. That is to say, I told my mother that I did not want to marry that teacher, but I do not dare to say so. People in my house would not be happy for an interracial marriage. What do I do to make the family believe?

- A student (Surat)

* You did not explain why your mother agreed to marry you to a middle-aged man. You will not marry them under any circumstances. Let your mother know clearly that you love another young man and want to marry him. Interracial marriages have become commonplace these days. If you stick to your decision, after a while your household will be considered. If they are not satisfied with this in any way, you can courtmarriage.

I am a mother of two 21 year old children, I have got married. After the marriage, Diar and Nand were a little strong, but I got a lot of love from my mother-in-law. After my mother-in-law died, my sister-in-law moved in with us. Jethani confesses all her things to my husband and dear. He raises them against me, so that there is a commotion in the daytime. My husband loves me so much, but because he has raw ears, he fights with me over and over again. I have raised my hand 1-2 times. My children are terrified too. I don't understand what to do.

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Let me also clarify one more thing that my sister-in-law's marriage was first discussed for my husband, but my husband refused the relationship because of me. My sister-in-law is more beautiful and sociable than me.

- A Woman (Rajkot)

* Your problem is not as serious as you made it out to be. A peek inside you will show that you are jealous of Jethani's looks and qualities. Get rid of jealousy and respect them. The root of the quarrel will not remain. Your husband loved you so much and still loves you that is why he married you. Trust the husband. Don't bother them. Give a lot of love and learn to tolerate other members of her family to win their love. The atmosphere at home will become loving, so the children will thrive too.

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I am a healthy young man of 18 years, my problem is that when ejaculation occurs, the upper skin does not go completely backwards. However, skin problems do not occur when the penis is not aroused. Do I have phimosis? I tried to pull the skin, but to no avail. It is better to suggest a remedy other than removing the skin. I have also heard about the use of topical steroids in such distress.

- A young woman (Ahmedabad)

* You do not suffer from phimosis. You may not need to have any kind of surgery as your upper skin can go back completely when the penis is soft. However, you should try to apply it on the skin using an oil or soap when you are not bathing.

The use of topical steroids is not necessary. If you have to consult a doctor, you should go to the urology department of a correctional or government hospital.

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I am 3 years young. During erection my penis turns upwards and I cannot urinate properly until it relaxes. Will this turn out to be a barrier to my sexuality after marriage?

- A young man (Jamnagar)

* No, a slight curve is quite natural. It has no effect on intercourse or ejaculation.

- Anita