"Don't make the mistake of being as bold as I am."

- Discussion of Nina Gupta's autobiographical book 'Sach Kahun To' in the metro world

- Nina Gupta's advice to young women

- Vividha-Bhaven Kutchi

- Nina Gupta decides to be the mother of Vivian Richards' children without marriage and a unique journey of struggle begins

- Nina Gupta's 32-year-old daughter Masaba is considered a well-known fashion designer in the country

The image of Vivian Richards, the legendary batsman of cricket history in the West Indies, was like that of Casanova. Chewing gum in the mouth, batting and using the least footwork at the crease, the bowler hits the glass mercilessly as if it were eating raw. Body Sauv like Black Stone and genius like Black Diamond. His magnificent personality was such that he had zero connectivity with the world and the stress of the world.

One Night Stand

When Richards came to India in 18, Pakistan's Imran Khan was surrounded by Bollywood heroines, models and young women from the corporate world in Mumbai and Delhi. Richards had a similar craze. It was well known that such players as Playboy, like One Night Stand, built relationships from the desire of glamorous girls to the bedroom. Not only in India, but also in Britain, Australia and the West Indies, they wore jerseys donated by Kerry Packer, the father of night cricket, which read 'Big Players Always Play at Night'.

When Richards came to India to play the Nehru Cup on a cricket tour in 19, he got acquainted with film actress Nina Gupta at a night party. The two consciously had sex. For Richards this was nothing. He didn't even bother to remember the girl's name, maybe he forgot his face when he met her after two or four days. Richards reached the Windies after the tournament.

Nina Gupta became pregnant

Nina Gupta became pregnant at this point. Her sister explained to her that she could have an abortion but Nina Gupta loved Richards. It also happened to her that the baby taking shape in her womb is a sign of her love. What's wrong with baby Such questions also arose. When the belly did not seem to be pregnant from the outside, her special sister also warned her in such a way that 'this child will be black like West Indian and you think how challenging it will be for you to raise him in a country like India. Even if you imagine how it will go on the child's mind, I will be scared. Whose name will I give your child in the birth certificate? '

Offer for Satish Kaushik's wedding

Nina Gupta says ‘I was mentally broken. Thinking about the present and the future, it seemed dark to the extent that Tammar climbed. I cried all day. Yes, she was determined to have a baby. When I came, I did not see any grief from Satish Kaushik, who has been maintaining an exemplary friendship since the time of NSD (National School of Drama). He showed readiness to marry me by showing the essence of friendship. Satish Kaushik said that the child will look like mine. My name will be behind it. Nina Gupta turned down the offer. Nina Gupta decided that I would become the single mother of the child and also prepare the child to develop strong morale and self-confidence by telling all the clear things as he grows up.

Conditional proposal for gay marriage

Nina Gupta also informed her special friend Sujoy Mitra that she was pregnant. Even Sujoy did not see Nina's depression. Sujoy shows him plans to arrange a unique wedding. Sujoy was introduced to a man who lived in Bandra, Mumbai and was gay. He was forced to marry from his home but he had no female attraction. He wanted to marry a young woman who is ready to be his wife in the eyes of society but in no other way can he have happy children. He was also ready to name his future offspring Nina. Nina felt she was cheating on herself. She was already of independent mind but to this extent no woman has become a seagull mother in India. Today, in 2021, women empowerment and independence are accepted to this extent and women do not feel free in a free and bold relationship and leave in is also considered natural, even if one does not marry a man after one or two sexual relations and decides to become a mother. Courage is not seen. While Nina Gupta's story is as old as 12 years.

Richards was not to blame

Richards was the father of two children at the time. He divorced his wife. The question of Nina marrying Richards did not arise. The sexual relationship between the two was part of free sex. Richards has established such relationships in the country and abroad that he does not remember. Besides, where is the point of building a house with that girl? Richards cannot be considered a moral offender if he does not marry Nina or neglect his children. It was Nina who decided to be the mother of Richards' children. However, Richards came to visit Nina and her daughter Masaba a few years later. Richards came to India shortly after retiring in 181 and saw two-year-old Masaba for the first time. Richards spent a few days outside India with Nina and Masaba. The following year was a year of great mental anguish for Nina Gupta.

School entry and sensation

Masaba was admitted to Jamnabai Narsi School in Mumbai but this was the first time for the management that the child had no legal father. With the help of friends in her birth certificate, she managed to name Richards as her father's name in the registration office It wasn't until she was three that Nina officially announced that Masaba was Richards' child. Two or four of his friends knew him, but the world of film and TV was new. Yes, Masaba's curly hair and African black skin made it clear that the girl's father was from a non-Indian black country. At that time, there was a lot of competition between the film and other magazines to find out who Masaba's father was. Illustrated Weekly editor Pritish Nandy managed to find the source from Masaba's school records, creating a story as if it were a scoop and created a sensation. However the periodical discretion failed. The coverage identified Masaba as an 'illegal West Indian'. It all sounds exciting right now but you can imagine how mentally painful it will be for Nina Gupta and Masaba then and the years to come.

Richards did not come for five years

Coincidentally, at the same time, Richards was preparing for a vacation abroad with Nina and Masaba. Nina also said yes on the phone feeling happy. But the process for Masaba's admission to the school was going on at the date of the tour days.

There was a line to explain the rights of single mother to the school administrators. Nina tells Richards what stage she is going through. How important it is for Masaba to be admitted to the school for her future cannot come to spend a vacation in the present circumstances. Richards did not find Masaba's school admission so serious. His mood was such that he could return from vacation and go to school. He had no idea what kind of social problem India's education system or Masaba could face. According to Nina Gupta, Richards felt at the time that I deliberately wanted to distance myself from him now. He stopped taking Nina's phone. For five years Richards never approached Nina. Masaba turned three to eight years old and kept asking about her father. She kept crying.

Nina and 'Casting Couch'

Nina also had a crowd of money. Meanwhile, a producer offered him a film. Nina was happy that she would earn some money. But the producer called him to his hotel room and said to Nafftai, "If you stay with me tonight, I will tell you the story of the film and we will make an agreement tomorrow." Nina says that I was frozen when I heard such a thing. I got up with no excuse and immediately opened the door and ran towards the lobby with a bang. Becoming a mother through free sex with Nina Richards means that the lustful elements believed that it was a bad thing to go with her. While some were financially challenged to make new offers. Fortunately, Nina's father gave her warmth and courage during this difficult time. He also raised masaba. Nina says that if my father had not accepted me as a friend, the idea of ​​what would have happened to us would have been shattered. Richards' misunderstanding disappeared when Masaba was nine years old. Masaba spent four vacations with her father, Richards, between the ages of eight and fifteen. Nina also accompanied.

The satire of 'illegitimate offspring'

It was initially a mental breakdown for Masaba to look down on all the 'illegitimate offspring', but as he got older and developed a dialogue with Nina, his self-confidence grew. Masaba is proud of both mom Nina Gupta and Richards. She does not blame either of them but respects her moral courage. He once slammed those who ridiculed him as an 'illegal West Indian' in a social media post saying, 'My grandfather is from Benaras. My grandmother was from Lahore. My mother is from Old Delhi and my father is from the Caribbean. But I am not a child of any place but of this earth. The ultimate goal should be for the person to make a name for themselves in addition to the parents. I have created my own identity by going beyond the name of my mother or father. Both my mother and father are proud of it. Masaba is a well known fashion designer. Richards came specially to see her first fashion show.

Nina found a partner

In 2006, Nina Gupta was introduced to Vivek Mehra, a chartered accountant, during a flight which turned into a friendship and then a love affair for the next six years. The couple got married in 2006. The couple's marital life has been strained for 15 years. Masaba does not have any practical problems going forward, so Vivek has been officially recorded as a father. Masaba loves father Vivek and Richards both with great respect. Masaba is now 3 years old.

Greetings to today's young women

What advice would you give to today's young women? Repent of any decision in your life? Answering such a question, Nina Gupta warns today's girls that they would never dare to become a single mother like me by coming in the fashion of female power and free mood. Whether it is 21st century or 9th century, a woman has to accept that she has some narrow vision. As a woman, I have felt that money is needed to stay strong and quality. A woman should do economic activities for the rest of her life. Today, I am also looking for a job for 3 years. If you live in a comfort zone, you have to endure. Nina Gupta also says that nowadays women go ahead with their plans to get married by having an affair with a married man and a rift in her life. There is no such thing as a cunning move. Do not accompany such men under any circumstances. First, the man will get a divorce and proceed only after checking whether there is a clear legal settlement regarding his property and children. The rest will happen that his status will be married and he will continue to love you and he will be satisfied with you till the legal issue of his divorce is resolved. It is possible to avoid the idea of ​​divorce and keep wandering

Didn't Nina Gupta's life prove to be like the title 'Shubh Mangal Zyada Sawdhan'?

(Nina Gupta's autobiographical book 'Sach Kahun To' was released by Kareena Kapoor last month. The events of the article are based on this book.