Husband-wife aur wo is the worm of doubt

- Never let this third person, who has caused a rift in your marriage, come near you.

- No matter how hard I try, I have never been able to communicate, eat or drink with a parki woman or do anything beyond normal touch. Let's assume for a moment that a married man or woman wants to have sex with another woman or man, but just think that it is possible in our society, right? Not possible ....

Liver and fame are a couple of our friend families. Nothing about his house is unknown to me. One day when they suddenly went to his house, they were arguing inside. As soon as they saw me, both of them took each other's mouths and went to the kitchen under the pretext of taking water.

For a while, there was talk of why you are, why not, but then I didn't stay, so after drinking tea, I asked the reason for the quarrel between them. Jigar seemed to be waiting for me to ask, pointing to fame, "John, man, this is my suspicion. There is a horizontal relationship with Indu. Because of this, whenever I am at home, it starts quarreling. Now you say, does this really happen? "

Before I could give an opinion, fame began to say in an angry voice, "Look Bhaskarbhai, don't take his wrong side. Listen to me first. Ever since A. M.'s P.A. He has not felt like eating my hand at home since. Every once in a while he will say that Indu's cooking is the rest. Its etiquette, its manner of speaking is something that every woman has to learn. In short, not a day goes by that he does not praise Indu. "

"But that doesn't mean the liver has a horizontal relationship with Indu."

I argued to dispel the suspicion of fame, "Working in the same office means taking tea, water or lunch and maybe if any of his dishes are good, come home and praise him." Why do you need to get it wrong? ”

My words probably gave Jigar courage. He explained to me, "You ask Bhaskar if I have ever gone out alone except at the office. That's right, many friends say on holidays, but I don't go out of the house. Then when am I going to meet another woman? "

Seeing that fame also agreed with this and calmed down, he laughed a little and said, "I will put the whole salary in his hand with the slip. I ask for money for tea or water or petrol for scooters every day. Do you think that sometimes I can give a gift to Indu even if I want to?

The atmosphere became so good and mild. Fame also kept going to the kitchen with smiling eyes.

The quarrel between liver and fame will take place in many families, the main cause of which will be another woman and sometimes another man. TV and movies have a big contribution in this. Because in almost every TV series and movie, the love triangle is not formed and it does not become interesting until another woman or another man is added.

If we think with a cold mind, it is so easy to build and maintain such an extramarital affair, right? In fact, the reality is quite the opposite of what such a relationship is all about.

I talked to my friend Sanjay, who works in a government office. His wife also works in a bank. Sanjay said, "Hey man, what's wrong with the waiter? Find one and get a thousand. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. "

His fissure made me a little stiff. I took it off and said, "Don't be too wise now. Honestly, so far you have been able to get more leeway with any woman other than Manjubhabhi, right? ”

Sanjay's mouth fell open. He admitted that no matter how hard he tried, he had never been able to communicate, eat or drink with a Parki woman. Let's assume for a moment that a married man or woman wants to have sex with another woman or man, but just think that it is possible in our society, right? This is not possible in the office because of job policies and the movement of people.

Now if a woman is married it is natural that it is almost impossible for her to go out alone at any time except office while taking care of household chores. Such allegations are often leveled at working women, but the fact is that almost all married women are notorious for arriving late to the office and running away from the office early in the home, husband and boy quarrels. Riding two horses at home and in the office makes her breathless. Where does she get to hang out with other men now?

Also, no matter how seriously a woman works, her husband, in-laws, or anyone else's children keep calling the office. Then how is it possible to escape from there? Also, no matter how weak a man is, hardly any man will let his wife go out for financial gain or any other benefit. So what woman would risk her marriage to have an extramarital affair?

Such is the case only with the woman in charge of the house. Will there be someone in the house after her husband goes out for work? So it is not possible to call her lover home or go out without any excuse. If there is a little doubt about it, the whole house will be shocked. One might argue that in the cities the flat culture no longer belongs to anyone, but why do we forget that the watchmen sitting under each flat keep track of who comes and goes. So it is a mistake to assume that such an immoral relationship would be a sham.

This is the condition of a woman. Now think of a man. He also wants his wife to have children. In this case, if the wife hears anything about it, she will take over the whole house and if the children have grown up, it will add to the father's troubles. How does a man get the opportunity to have such an extramarital affair?

Someone asks what if a woman is single or divorced and lives alone? But in our society such women living alone are not looked upon favorably and do not easily get a rented house. Even in any affluent and modern society, people keep an eye on such a woman. That is to say, if a little laughing, talking or hanging out with someone will increase, then people will make his life difficult by talking about it. In this, it is not possible for him to develop an immoral physical relationship with anyone!

The example of the unmarried Dakshabahen, who is almost forty years old, is worth quoting here. They laugh freely in the office, but when you look at the house, they are completely silent. They often say that one can laugh at anything outside, while at home one has to live like a prisoner. But what happens is that the marriage is not done so all this has to be endured. In short, such a relationship is not possible in the office or at home. Suppose that even if a loving couple spends such time, they can compete with each other, sit and talk or exchange love by holding each other's hand. Nothing special is possible.

Suppose on a holiday, even if you go to a distant garden or a hotel with an excuse, nothing special can happen in public by kissing or brushing your hair. Apart from that, the torture of the garden guard is different.

Readers with skeptical eyes may wonder why such a spectacle can be persuaded by booking a room in a good hotel in a nearby city, as shown on TV and in movies. But it is so easy to stay out of the house for one or two nights by showing the wrong excuse to the householder, right?

Speaking of callgirls or prostitutes, what percentage of men can afford to find such a business woman and her place of business, spend a large amount of money for her or take her to a hotel?

In a country of one billion people, what would be the number of men who could spend thousands of rupees for the pleasure of two or four hours of cohabitation with a foreign woman other than his wife?

Yes, the notorious area of ​​prostitutes can be found in almost all the big cities, where a man can satisfy his physical hunger for hundreds of rupees, but even there, there is no danger of a police raid or contracting the deadly disease AIDS. Therefore, a lover of a woman other than his wife also avoids visiting such an area. If we assume for a moment that men and women who want to have such fun will find an opportunity. But how long to stay under such a roof?

Not for long. One day it will be difficult for one of you to explode and from that day onwards it will be difficult for both of them to show their face in the society. Moreover, we often read in the press about the serious and dangerous consequences of such immoral relationships. There are many cases like the murder of a lover by the brother or father of the lover, the murder of the lover by the son if the woman is married, the murder of the lover by the brother or father of the wife or wife if the man is married.

The biggest thing is that such men and women suffer from the guilt of being immoral in their relationship. As a result, he is constantly disturbed by the fact that he is doing wrong, and as a result, his peace of mind is disturbed. What sensible person thinks of himself to suffer like this?

In short, there is as much friction between husband and wife as there is between a third. In fact the situation is not so bad. Immoral relationships are not easy to build and maintain. Moreover, such a relationship is neither practical nor reasonable.