Robots like modern hearing will selflessly serve the elders

- Variety: Bhaven Kutchi

- Loneliness of elders and change like 'Chal Ud Ja Re Panchi': Elders from the country and elders from abroad

- In India too, now that the same social system is taking shape as in foreign countries, for the elders, both the generations must have open dialogue and self-reflection.

In Ja Pan, a robot named 'Paro' is very dear to the elders. Even in India, its arrival is visible in a few years. In India, 'Paro' robot will be known as modern hearing. Mercury does not need any blessing or it serves the elders for salvation. Japan has the highest percentage of elderly people in the world at 9%. 'Mercury' has become a family member without a green card even in American homes and day care centers, which have a 12% increase.

Around the world, 6% of single or married elderly people feel lonely, neglected or burdened by the family. Gone to live together. Going forward, it doesn't matter if the child stays five kilometers away or the parents or the child abroad for five hundred kilometers. Going to see his parents, taking care of him whether he is well or not, he has no worries like 'Look how I left my parents alone'. It does not mean that the children abroad hate their parents. That is the culture there. Just as the children do not feel any guilt, the parents also do not get the idea that 'they saw and raised the children by tying bandages on their stomachs and now the wings have flown away.' When they became adults in their time, they were separated from their parents and started a different world. Yes, family and friends get together if possible on occasions like birthdays or Father's Day.

Both son and daughter-in-law are working abroad. If the children mostly stay in hostels, they will come home late after studying, playing sports and other activities. The newborn should be kept in the house till the age of seven years. If there is no idea that grandparents or grandparents live in the same city or state, then ask them to stay together. Grandparents or grandparents have no idea why their children ignore them to this extent.

Surprisingly, even if the children and daughter-in-law have a bungalow with a backyard in their way, they will not be living with their parents. Both the father and the widow or the widower refuse to live together. There is a wonderful culture. Love, respect, celebration is everything. The splendor of the photos of the children's family and their children in a nice fun frame at home is Vadlo but his Teta and Tatiyo make their grandchildren Vadlo live near or far. Near even if not close together. , No expectation or feeling of neglect.

Yes, over the last few years it has been observed that these foreign children come without the warmth, love and culture of the elders or are brought up by a care taker kept at home or even in school, coaching and feel a kind of rebellion due to their use. When the parents are out of the house all day, it is too late for the brother or nanny who is taking care of the child to be caught with drugs, sex or other companionship or mental disorder. Despite such fears, mothers and fathers do not even think of inviting their children to stay with their grandparents. However, this is a fear that the care takers in 5% of the cases provided by the agency are coming from a good background. Now even educated women from good homes do such jobs. The basic premise is that the elders prefer to be alone or in their own way.

Indian children living in the US and abroad still insist that their children grow up with the warmth of grandparents, stories, poems and language and culture of Ramayana and Mahabharata. That is why the elders continue to come and go on visitor visas. However, now a new generation of Indian couples living abroad are also being painted in foreign colors. Even living abroad is a very expensive life, adding to other expenses. Both husband and wife have to work. They too, like a foreign couple, begin to like the independent world after a few years alone and without the social life of having to take care of relatives in India. They have also begun to cultivate a self-centered and self-centered mentality, even as their children are raised abroad.

The elders who have been going up and down for the upbringing of their children abroad, realizing the responsibility, felt that it would be better to live happily in our country and homeland than to spend the previous age in this way.

Various social surveys of elders in the last few years have revealed that elders are confused that we are now warmly welcomed by their children and daughters-in-law who are flying and stepping into their world, really longing for love so that we do not feel bad. Says to stay together. They need us and we are supporting them or they will use us.

"The son is in Britain, but we both need to be involved in his children's homework, school, coaching, sports," he said. That in Ahmedabad, despite the wishes of my wife and I, we go there for the cultured upbringing of grandchildren. The care taker brother has to pay a huge amount of money even if he comes abroad. This amount is also saved for the children. In this way, mommy and daddy come in the form of unforgettable memories. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person. The number of elders living alone in India is increasing. Most of the time they send their children home or abroad for a few months.

In India too, social and domestic life is becoming like in foreign countries. In previous years, study or job, business, business was done in or near the hometown. Now it is becoming compulsory for the child to go to another city and then to another state or abroad, especially after 12th standard.

Jobs, occupations or businesses also thrive in other big cities or abroad. Saying goodbye to daughters after marriage does not shake the parents as much as the daughter has also left home a few years ago to stay in a hostel for study and job.

Suppose that even in India, if the house is living with the son and daughter-in-law, both are doing work or business. The children gather at home in the evening. When all the words like 'privacy' and 'space' are spoken, these dosa-dosi softly ask each other 'what do these boys speak in English'. Even if there is family love and respect, if there is loneliness and humiliation, if you behave in a way that makes you feel burdened, then loneliness has to be swallowed with extreme mental pain. Thus now the parents of both those living with the children and those living away from the children have to suffer the same loneliness due to the busyness and mentality of the members of the household just like abroad.

Elders who take care of their grandchildren and great-grandchildren are happy to have children again, but in the end, they are tired of the pleasant journey and the hassle. Even the elders, after five or six decades of marathons, now want to enjoy life as spectators and spectators. Also, thanks to the love and sportsmanship of the elders of India.

Between the ages of 20 and 5, time passes well, but the challenges increase over the years. Especially for those who have not been able to maintain fitness. If a disease has taken hold of them or they have become widows or widowers, a new front is being challenged, how can the elders spend time. They have to sit quietly at home and watch a movie in the home theater, take a trip to see nature and monuments, while cataracts have appeared in their eyes. The teeth are moving in the restaurant and when the mood and time of 'Mast Baharo Ka Mein Aashiq' is found, the doctor has given an appointment for knee surgery only tomorrow. If there is a member of the household, take it to the doctor once. Sometimes there is no time from job, business and occupation. Even if you are admitted to the hospital, where does anyone get leave every day? Abroad, everything is handed over to the system. Not allowed even if the relative wants to go to the hospital. Sometimes it seems as good as abroad, even in metro cities, the days are numbered when an old man at home has to go to the office and be put in a day care center with other peers, who will take care of their food, water, natural necessities or other care at home. . Many get up and walk for a while and then get dizzy. Children with cancer, kidney or other major illnesses may be taken to the hospital from time to time. In the previous decades, the son's grief meant that he was on the same footing in the last years, but now even if the child is cultured, it is another city, if it is abroad, it is his limit, the daughter's world is also. Who can support full time. Family and social system has changed.

The elders of India also have to cultivate the same mentality as the foreign parents and the state and central government, trusts and corporate level have to set up fitness centers, activity centers, meeting points, parks, day care and hospitals separately for the elders. Having children have their own world. We have to live our way. To enjoy life If health does not support us, we will have a happy life in a care center or in a colony of peers. No one's love is less but we have to understand compulsion and changed lifestyle. We have to forget the old adage like 'Saga sau swarthna'. 'Change is the only rule'.

As such a world is being built, as the years go by, the priority is given to health as the years go by. Being social, doing fun activities, hanging out with friends in the garden. The first thing to forget is whether you were a judge before retirement or a collector or a khan of your area. Read an inspirational and biopic as long as it can be read, which gives you the power to move on. Now there are many funds, games and clubs to keep the brain and limbs fresh in old age. Cultivate a hobby. The elders have to cultivate the belief that age is just a number on the mind.

Elders need to change their thinking. Let's become a few local elders and a few foreign elders. Elders living together in the family often showed that the son and daughter-in-law could live alone and the son and daughter-in-law showed the same maturity and the elders also had to cultivate the vision of relieving them from their daily duties or responsibilities from time to time. Some elders camp all day in the main room of the house. They should have such discretion that there is no need to stay in the front for long. Just like Amitabh Bachchan also understands and plays a character role, we have to equip the children to play the role in their own way. Most of the time a person does not have any negativity in his mind but he does not think of how to do something good or he is a replica of the way the elders have brought him up and the way he has seen the elders till adolescence. If someone gives me what I like, in return I will give the same happiness to the giver. Just this spirit is enough.

Now back to the ‘Mercury’ robot at the beginning of the article. The robot is found in day care centers and old age homes abroad. It sprays its elderly partner. Have a bathroom, talk to her, listen to catchy music and jokes, arrange tea, water and a tray of food near the elder's mouth. Two or four times a day, he turns his hand on his shoulder and lovingly asks, 'Are you happy, friend, if you need any help, tell me.' Even in the middle of the night he has an eye on his old friend's blood pressure and diabetes. Like 'OK Google' or 'Alexa', the elder says softly, 'OK, mercury .. a cup of juice is gone', in a few minutes, giving a glass of mercury juice, he says 'have it .. enjoy my friend' Then we should think with stigma that we have not really become a robot working in a factory.

Let's bring down the suicide rate of elders. Let's build a home and a society where elders do not want to die but want a long innings of life.