Mars-Venus coach Dr. Neeru Kumar

- Distance- Raksha Shukla

Your eyes, your tears,

Where is the monsoon?

Couldn't get a look, Leo,

Far away

In the in-laws of the senses,

Mother-in-law of very naughty words.

Breaks Madhuri's silence,

Charepa Bipasa Basu.

Everywhere your CCTV,

Where do I escape from?

-Hardwar Goswami

Known as the 'Mars-Venus Coach', Dr. Neeru Kumar is a national icon of India, a psychiatrist, the founder of Ask Insights, a life coach, a gender consultant, a medical doctor, an executive coach, a hypnosis practitioner and a board member of the Election Commission of India. Dr. Neeru Kumar was honored with the Padma Shri on the eve of Republic Day 2021 for his tireless work in the field of social work and as a consultant in the field of diversity and inclusion. Due to his excellent expertise in many of the above fields, he has been influencing many great leaders and organizations and transforming them mentally. A: The consulting firm is owned by Neeru Kumar. Who has exchanged and shared ideas with some of the world's leading and skilled leaders and thinkers in the field. The art of healing without medicine is called 'healing'. Dr. Neeru Kumar first counsels the sick for this energy healing. After completing his medical studies and degrees, he provided medical services for 3 years. But later realized that allopathy is not a complete cure. It only provides immediate relief to the patient's physical pain which is temporary. There is a limit to allopathy. That's why when a person is not satisfied with it, he runs to other doctors for a second or third opinion, he runs to Google. Confused, confused. And the doctor does not have enough time to know the patient's background, understand and diagnose his disease from the perspective of his family or social situation.

After thinking so much, Dr. Neeru Kumar left the medical field to study Reiki and Hypnotism Therapy. In his opinion, complementary or alternative treatment is very important in many serious diseases like cancer. In case of kidney or liver problems, it is very important to check the connection between the body and the mind. Man's emotions play a very important role in these diseases and in its treatment. There is also a mentality among people that when there is no cure for allopathy, they go to a psychologist or when a person behaves or thinks a little strange or insane. He also ignores the issue of mental problems. Which leads to serious illness. But Dr. Neeru Kumar wanted to penetrate into the unconscious mind of the patient. By studying the subconscious mind, they sought to heal patients who went deep into energy healing therapies such as hypnotism and Reiki. His thirst for deep study in this regard continued to intensify. Hypnotism and Reiki are considered by Neetu Kumar as complementary medicine for holistic health. He studied where the disease originated. Where does it start? Because all our sensations, big or small, are constantly affecting every part of our body. It also has a profound effect that man is unaware of.

He not only did Reiki etc. courses but also started teaching about it. After gaining an understanding of alternative treatment, many patients are persuaded by Neeru Kumar to take that treatment. He did not have a degree before. But when he started counseling patients after taking a degree in psychiatry and a life coaching class, he learned that the most important issue after bread, clothing and housing is the relationship-human relationship. The ups and downs of a relationship make a man feel the most stress. It's not just about husband and wife. Stress in relationships applies to parents, children, friends, coworkers or office bosses. If any issue arises in this relationship then any disease like blood pressure, diabetes or acidity can apply. In the meanwhile he realized that behind this is a huge contribution of our unconscious mind-subconscious mind. Our conscious mind is only 15% active. When the subconscious mind is holding on to 90% of the part and some of the invisible and incomprehensible uma is gathered in the form of our sensations, behaviors and responses. Handles out our information. Man has no means or means by which he can enter the unconscious mind and restrain all these activities. It is beyond his control. The man says, 'That's all I can do.' "All forms of self-defeating behavior are unseen and unconscious, which is why their existence is denied," says American spiritual guru, philosopher and author Vernon Howard. Thinking about this issue, Dr. Neeru Kumar became interested in hypnotism therapy. They wanted to understand the subconscious mind of man. He found this journey very interesting. Which is never completed. It is endless, infinite and varies from person to person. Neeru Kumar loves his study.

Nirukumar says the time has come when experts in the treatment of any other ailment should also adopt Reiki and hypnotism as alternative therapies. Although allopathic medicine cannot be given up completely, Neeru Kumar feels that taking both the treatments together gives a very good result. Because this combination is very effective. Our body has a power that makes the body self-healing. It aims and moves to heal itself. Complementary healing awakens and boosts the A power of the body. Carries high. The effects of Reiki and hypnotism become very deep, very profound when man prepares himself for this healing with his mind, decides, serves the intention and serves those thoughts. In this treatment, if you do Reiki yourself and your well-wishers also do Reiki for you, its effect will be combined and it will have beautiful positive effects and the patient will recover faster. Which is highly effective and successful in diseases like bloodpressure, diabetes, anxiety and depression. Earlier, these problems used to occur after the age of 40, but in today's age of running, now even 40-year-olds fall victim to this.

Dr. Neeru Kumar is also a Gender Diversity Consultant. He is known as the ‘Mars Venus Coach’. It also counsels couples personally. He studied the relationship between husband and wife and found that the hormones of both males and females work differently. It also causes a lot of turmoil in these hormones when one has to perform the same tasks and responsibilities as a man with a housewife. An imbalance arises. But if the person has awareness then complementary healing makes a big difference and many conflicts and diseases can be avoided. We should talk about gender intelligence instead of gender equality. The creation of both man and woman is different according to the need of nature. Nature did not do this by accident. Nail wiring was required for both. Therefore, everyone should accept the difference with heart and respect. Complementary should create new surprises. Neeru Kumar also educates people about this. There was no research on this subject 10 years ago. But now that this has come to the fore, it should be basic education. This education should be imparted in school-colleges. So that gender issues do not arise. American Relationship Counselor John Gray's 'Mars-Venus Science' greatly influences Neeru Kumar in terms of gender equality. They do excellent work in Behavioral Science. Even years ago, she could only think about male-female relationships and trends. There was also silence. Was enduring. Now it's loud. So it also feels like a label to be a feminist. However, millions of women are still not financially viable and have no identity of their own. There are still incidents of dowry, female genocide and misdemeanors. For all these matters, Dr. Neeru Kumar considers counseling very necessary.

Talking about the theme of 'Equal But Different', Neeru Kumar says that men and women are different, but equal, their roles complement each other in life. A lot will change. No matter how much society moves forward, its mindset has not changed and its place is still considered in the kitchen. She needs someone in all matters who recognizes her thoughts, beliefs, attitudes or decisions. Because he has lived among the Mail Dominant society for years. There is a great need for female validation in the family and society. If society accepts and understands its potential, it has many benefits. Dr. Neeru Kumar runs several diversity camps. He has organized more than 60,000 training camps. Neeru Kumar says that it will take time but someone has to start from somewhere!