Husband and wife have equal status

- Discrimination between high and low produces bitterness in relationships

- Even the husbands who consider themselves modern in modern times have relatively more love and trust with their wives, but they do not adopt the attitude of equality. They treat their wives as if they were less intelligent, impractical, and immature, as if they were dealing with an employee working under their own hands.

In earlier times, it was believed that "a woman is weak after all. She needs the support of a father in childhood, a husband in youth and a son in old age. Other than that, his life journey is not complete. "But today, the situation has changed completely. With the passage of time, the position of woman has also changed. Today it does not need anyone's support. On the contrary, he supports his father, husband and son when he needs them.

Now even a well-educated, modern and generous young man wants to get a wife who has a job so that he can get double benefit. There should be no shortage of money in the house and also avoid hearing the complaint of the wife, 'I get bored alone in the house'. Even if the wife arrives home late, it can be tolerated. He also adopts his 'will' attitude towards his home. Helps with household chores and childcare. But when the wife is considered more successful or better than that, it cannot be tolerated.

When there is a son, the parents also consider the help and existence of the daughter as secondary. Husbands who consider themselves to be modern in modern times also tend to have a greater love and trust with their wives, yet they do not adopt the attitude of equality. They treat their wives as if they were less intelligent, impractical, and immature, as if they were dealing with an employee working under their own hands. We have the exact example of film actress Rakhi in this regard. Rakhi had the same complaint against her famous director and writer-poet husband Gulzar that Rakhi considered her inferior and insignificant. The two parted ways for the same reason.

However, men believe that it is not the man's fault but the fault of other women in his household, i.e. mother-sisters etc. Boys are inculcated in their minds from an early age that they are going to become 'sahibs' by studying. His wife and servants will do all his other work.

It is generally believed that a woman without a man is quite helpless and lonely, yet any single woman, unmarried, widowed, or abandoned, can be reunited with her relatives, children, or family in such a way that her time passes easily. Goes and does not feel lonely.

Even if a man is unmarried, widowed or divorced, he becomes very lonely and sad, because he can never walk in front of women and share in the happiness and sorrows of others. As a result, he spends most of his youth in Yankee. But it becomes difficult for her to go through old age without the support of any woman.

Women who claim that they are in no way inferior to men. She wakes up her husband at night with a slight knock. They expect classmates in school or college or coworkers in the office to protect them in difficult situations. Thus, men and women inevitably need each other at any time, yet in this way their relationship has become a point of contention, isn't that a kind of irony?

Another case should be. Manaharbhai's daughter was suitable for Ramabahen's son in every way. Yet Ramabah refused to enter into this relationship for a trivial reason. In fact, Manaharbhai was very fond of cooking. When the opportunity arose, he would make something new. Ramabahen argued, "If that girl can't make my son like her father, then she will definitely make her son a cook." Brother, we don't like men cooking. "

Later, when the same Ramabah decided to marry his son to another girl, the bride told him not to choose to have dinner at a five star hotel. That's because the wedding diner and other arrangements were overseen by a female officer. This time Ramabahen's argument was, "This is the arrangement of the wedding ceremony. If you make a small mistake like that, the water will turn on everyone again. "

You see, the women in the hotel object to the cooking. Everyone is reluctant to sew clothes, but when men do the same thing at home, women are the first to object. Well, why such a double standard?

Vijay and Bella need an example. Vijay built a bungalow, used all his savings in it, but also took a loan. Bella wanted to destroy the marble tiles in the bungalow, but Vijay no longer had any savings. So he asked Bella to take a loan from his office. It is true that Bella took a loan, but she kept crying from time to time that she could not leave her job until the loan was repaid. Although everyone knows that Bella will never quit her job voluntarily, Bella believes that the responsibility of building a house belongs to the man, i.e. the husband, so the house arrangement had to be done by Vijay.

Have you ever heard a man say how much he gave his wife, children expensive gifts or how much money he spent on a car or a house? While women do not get tired of announcing what they have done for whom from their income.

It is surprising to see such a double standard in women. Should a man protect a woman, thank her for her income and give her equal status from above? Wow! Needless to say!

Don't women ever want to know what they really want?

Walking hand in hand with her husband has the same status. But is it fair to pamper a son and expect his wife to serve him as a slave for life? Why such a double standard between oneself and one's son-in-law?

In fact, at the root of all this is the idea that women are responsible for proving themselves to be male equals, according to Yanken, and that men have been misled by women for centuries that they are superior to women. Now these beliefs, assumptions are slowly changing. There will come a time when this assumption will also change. Until then, it is imperative for women to change their standards rather than men. They have to decide for themselves what they want.