Who is responsible if you are not happy despite everything ?!

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- The one who feels fear in his mind that something will happen to him while traveling, to be deprived of the thrill or pleasure of the most enjoyable journey in the world, his mind is always on the embarrassment of finding a place to travel and reach a place where he feels safe.

Let's have tea. Let's start our conversation with a joke. A Ben was shopping for a mirror on a lorry in the Diwali crowd. After seeing ten or fifteen mirrors, he started walking without buying. Lariwalabhai didn't like it instinctively so he shouted at Ben, "Why didn't you like any of them ?!"

Ben had gone ahead but her husband's ear had a question about Lariwala and he also curiously asked his wife 'Did you like the mirror ?!'

'No Ray, the mouth didn't look good in AK', both grimaced. The husband muttered reflexively, "Doesn't it look like a mouth in the mirror ?!"

Women's ears and attention are both very sharp. Ben heard her husband's murmur even amidst the crowd and noise. 'Let's go home and show you your mouth in the mirror'

Tell me now what did your husband say wrong in this ?! That's normal, isn't it ?! Often when the general thing is not understood, individuals take it personally. We are largely responsible for the reflection in the mirror, aren't we ?! It is our inherent weakness that we take pride in success but hold others responsible for our failures or difficulties! If someone tells us to be the cause of this matter, we should immediately start defending or justifying it or retaliate with unknowing arguments. People who keep thinking about what is hurting us in the background of thoughts can never easily think or accept that they are hurting themselves.

At the root of most of the pains of our lives lies our thinking about it and in its solution we have to change this thinking. Thoughts begin to solve changing questions. If we think a little deeper in this direction, we will understand that our thinking has a great contribution in being happy. Our happiness depends on ourselves, our thoughts and our attitude. Everyone who wants to be happy has to make sure that they do not stand in the way of their happiness .! To get the right answer to this question, you have to analyze your thoughts, actions and attitudes very objectively and honestly.

If certain things are at the forefront of your thinking then your mind is sitting in the path of your happiness becoming a big obstacle. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. People who believe that if happiness is in their destiny, it will drip on their heads are hindering their happiness. It is relatively easy for people to live a happy life with a specific goal and purpose. Who doesn’t know that expectations cause many obstacles in life ?! Your mind cannot experience happiness when unrealistic expectations are fluttering in your thinking. In these circumstances, it is your thoughts that bother you and you complain that I am not happy in spite of everything.

We all live with different kinds of fears in life, of course the amount can be individual. This fear always deprives you of fun. Fear of something happening to me while traveling, being deprived of the thrill or pleasure of the most enjoyable journey in the world, his mind is always on the embarrassment of finding a place to travel and reach a place where he feels safe. Fear is central to the thinking of individuals who are themselves the biggest obstacle to happiness. Not only sound education but his alertness and dedication too are most required. People who accept these feelings tend to run away from being happy with themselves. In fact, in order to get rid of all these emotions, one has to cultivate morale in the right direction, through the right effort. It has to be addressed immediately and constructively.

One thing is for sure, you are the most important person who can keep you happy. Your thoughts are the source of your happiness, everything else is just an excuse. Only those who understand this will realize that we have a responsibility to make ourselves happy and to keep ourselves happy. If this is understood then expectations automatically begin to dissolve.

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The idea of ​​being happy - I can't control all things, situations or individuals. But I can have a definite control over my own. When anything is going out of my control I have to control my attitude and response, nothing else!