World's most exhilarating and frenetic youth energy: Stressbuster sex!

- Spectrometer-Jay Vasavada

- The teeth of hypocrites who cannot see sexy photos at home, are eager to watch a sexy movie outside, taking off the collar of prestige!

M Nisha Koirala once said: 'I love children and I love the process of making them!'

There is inspiration for sex artists. There is emotion for a woman. There is a motion for the male. But both men and women are puppets of nature when it comes to sex! Nature has only one purpose – evolution. That's what this energy cycle game is all about. Energy should be a combination of negative and positive. Proton and Electron, Shiva and Shakti... Fire and Water... Male and Female.

The attraction between all these is manifested in the work. Without attraction there are no feelings. Love at first sight is actually sex at first sight. Nature can be known through conversation or contact - one likes someone just by looking at him, whatever his secret name is, he ends up trapped in the locker of sex. Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha are the four Purusharthas, the real 'Purushaartha' is 'Kam'! The word work has many meanings. But the 'meaning' of the English word sex gives the feeling of the salvation of only one religion: Anandadharma! Sex is a western term. Its Chotduk Gujarati is not possible. In the West, the three letters of God God do not have an influence on people's lives, as much as the three letters of SEX do. This is the reality in the East as well. But the difference is that we, who are masters of hiding the doni while going to get buttermilk, wrap the chocolate of sex in a wrapper of hypocrisy and chew it!

Sex is the driving force. Our tragedy (comedy in the eyes of the world) is that we want to have sex, but don't actually admit it. A master teaching the lessons of limitation and shame strips off the clothes of a girl who has come to work to exploit at the sight of Pantuji, yet is considered 'sacred'. A lover kissing Precious in the park is considered 'unholy'! An employee who keeps eight-ten photos of Gods on the office table and takes a bribe with a prasad plate is considered 'holy', but a Mahalati girl in a swimming costume on the beach is considered 'holy'! A man and a woman who engage in consensual physical relations due to natural attraction or impulses are still considered characterless by the conservative society. Character is measured by just a few inches below the belly like a dialogue in an RK film!

Again, our objection is not against 'sex'. Otherwise, how can India's population grow by leaps and bounds? How to search Mia Khalifa or Sofia Ansari online? How do addicts get millions of followers on Instagram with just flirty photo-videos? Only his public performance is criticized! In our blood, the crude prescriptions for limiting the original, borrowed from the ancient Christian-Islamic tradition. Like, 'marriage is the union of two souls', the definition of which has become like marble! Good man, today there are letters, there are messages, there are emails, there are mobiles to maintain the sacred bond of souls. Then why stay together under one roof or meet face to face? The point is that marriage is the official union of two souls. A boy or a girl is supposed to 'see'....not hear or read! Mangalsutra is license for Kamasutra!

When it comes to sex, even the sexologists have a habit of invariably citing the date-palm sex sculptures and Vatsyayana's 'Kamasutra' as ancient. But India is the starting point of the work. A copy of the Taliban's intransigence, the moral policing morals, perceiving the greatness of Sanat, have marketed only 'worldly Indian religiosity' under the label of 'Indian culture'. That is why Varathevar suggests to them to create tapovan and gurukula in the name of 'revival of culture'. Vasanti parks or works!

Beauty is an integral part of our culture. Indeed, if the ancient heritage of India is to be revived, a storm of work should blow here that would put America to shame! Nude sculptures are found in ninety-nine percent of India's ancient temples, not just palm trees. Our culture has celebrated the union of Shiva and Shakti, which is the acceptance and celebration of Kama energy. In India, work is a god, not a demon. In the Jayanad Gita, being himself Ekandarpa, Shri Krishna also keeps the rape of Dushas away. Shivlinga and its bowl are symbols of linga and yoni. A symbol of union between man and nature!

Not only Vatsayana, many sages and great men of India have meditated with an open mind. The Upanishads and the Vedas have open discussions and similes in every sense of it! Apart from the Kamasutra, a number of Indian Sanskrit texts describe work and sports as breaking the Gujarati love-baby ideals. People do not read texts like Ramayana, Mahabharata or Bhagavata in their original form. For centuries only its 'edited version' has been known to people.

From Gautama Rishi, Chandra and Ahalya to Yama-Yami or Suryaputri Tapati, Brahma and Yayati to Vishwamitra-Maneka, the stories of 'Pivat Kamaras, I Khuvari!' are scattered in the Indian mythology. From Jaidev's 'Geetgovind' to Narasimha Mehta's 'Rasana Pado', rich sex oozes from every turn of words. 'Kumarasambhava' is an homage to Kamadeva. After being consumed by Shiva's third eye, Anang Ya, the blessed Ratipati Kamadeva, is invisible....and even sages like Vishwamitra can't hold back when he strikes!

Sex is a journey that is not centuries but ages old. Human beings who have reached the point of writing or reading articles are ultimately the heirs of an ancestor who was blessed with the pleasure of sex. Sex is always attractive because through it our existence manifests on earth. So there is no confrontation with the force! Sex, of course, is like an electric switch. A person who has turned on and off a switch thousands of times does not necessarily know the process of electrons in electricity. Similarly, the 'practice' of human sex is millions of years old, but the 'knowledge' is new!

Yet the medical understanding of the orgasm or the clitoris or contraceptives came in the twentieth century in medical science and psychology. In the name of sex, there are camel drivers who make the society into a mess, except the worldly recluses keep falling out, yet a new 'branch' of the hooliganism of hypocrites is bursting! Then those who serve sex education start presenting sex entertainment. A man knows how to catch a cold, but he does not know about the 'work' to which he is born, to which he owes his existence! Most youngthings don't know as much about sex organs as they do about bike mechanics!

Instead of addressing their ignorance, glossy magazines and pornographic sites jump in to take advantage of it. Dhutara should not starve where there is greed. The takladi marjadi definition of celibacy has given a big boost to this market. Suppressors of sex never have such brightness in their faces, their assuageors are longed by ooze like Khushvantsinghs or Elizabeth Taylor! Those who blow the gulbangs of becoming strong from unceasing celibacy will be experts of religion, not of work! The number of condoms used during the Olympics is directly related to the number of medals won!

Actually, more libido means more creativity! Know about Einstein or Stephen Hawking's highly publicized affairs? Be it a painter like Pablo Picasso or a writer like Victor Hugo. Be it a sportsperson like Tiger Woods or a singer like Elvis Presley. Be it a billionaire like Elon Musk or a politician like Kennedy. This is such an absolute truth that the book of the names of the proofs will become!

Our folly is that we get all the sex policies, codes of conduct, definitions and certificates of good and bad from the uninitiated! Child celibacy priests are taking back our sex lives! They create stories of extra-marital or sexual relations of romantic or active young men who find safety in walking around with the girl or boy shown by their father (without the experience of a woman's touch or sight)! The creators and leaders who sit around having three or three marriages and one or two flings can criticize the sexuality of the youth by throwing back the veil! Aho Arshcharyam!

Actually, sex is directly related to youth. Nature is most interested in one thing in this world; That is reproduction.

Breeding leading to better genes. Look around, from the colorful feathers of birds to the iridescent colors of flowers, the whole game is on sex. Therefore, the best and unbeatable magical pleasure sensations have been placed in the human race in relation to sex! At a young age, the sex drive and ability to enjoy it is highest. With advancing age, the limbs become loose. There is difficulty in conceiving a child. Interest in sex is called the strength of youth! For the sake of it, there is a craze for gym or dance. Stay ahead of mating signals.

Also, mankind has two gifts. There is immense joy in intercourse even without the happiness of a child. Science cannot explain why humans do not have specific seasons for sex like other animals. I mean, the cowherd of having sex just to produce children is humbug. It is a game of nature that happiness can be enjoyed even for fun. Second, man can be stimulated through imagination. A parrot does not get hungry by looking at a picture of chillies. But just looking at the body curves of Nora Fattehi or Chris Evans can make human beings salivate.

So it is not true to say that sex is not a matter of talk, but of experience (Rashlesh Abhipret... oops, pun intended!). But people like to read about sex. Mastram's books are sold? I like to talk sexy while paying international call charges! When it comes to sex, salute Rajneesh with your left hand and Sigmund Freud with your right hand. The glory of these two geniuses made the people of India and the world, respectively, open-minded (and slow) about sex.

In the sexual world, they also weaved weapons from bullets to missiles, knives to spears with sex! However, it doesn't matter to those who enjoy sex. Even in the confined Arabic culture, works like 'Arabian Nights' or 'Perfumed Garden' were created which took a humorous turn. Queen Cleopatra of Egypt was the first woman to use a 'vibrator'! He made a 'natural vibrator' by filling bees in a cylindrical container with a thin surface! Italy's Casanova invented the leather condom!

Times have changed. But the influence of the work has not faded. What was behind the door comes out of the bedroom. A VCD cutter was used to cut scenes from films and store them in the computer. Now the video is forwarded. This is the energy that one never gets tired of! No more squealing at Madhubala's gently gliding palaves or Marilyn's flying skirts. Sofia and Sunny flaunt their toned curves in bikinis. Samantha Prabhu and Disha Pattani also show accessories like Kadalistambha (banana trunk). Shah Rukh Khan or Milind Soman or Hrithik Roshan or Tiger Shroff or Salman Khan looks more charming when he takes off his shirt! Limbs are shapely for display, so it is revealed that there was no display of limbs, so the body remains sloppy - that is a puzzle.

Not only in urban mobiles. While in the village, sex calls more than collegiate teenagers. Who would listen to Ramesh Mehta's vulgar dialogues from a Gujarati film and keep the end of the saddle under his mouth? Who buys cassettes with double meaning jokes? Dhoti or Chaniyacholi are suitable clothes. That's why, sex sales are what everyone says. But why? No one says that. The answer is not difficult at all. Bikoz....sex appeals!

yes yes Sex appeals. Sex attracts. Likes sex. If it is considered a defect, then it is a manufacturing defect. If it is considered an effect, then yes it is a manufacturing effect! Sex is instinct. A primitive instinct given by nature. The renegades try to run away from it. But those who fall into it in a negative way, those who criticize sex by jumping up and down, remember it! Remember going to the medical store when you're not sick? no Because you don't consciously notice it! The greater the hatred of sex, the greater the attraction of sex!

Sex is fun. Absolute Ultimate Fun. Kamananda is sheer ecstasy. It lasts only a few moments. Then the tantramarga philosophy of transforming kama energy into consciousness energy through the extreme forms of samadhi is very important. If you keep eating ice cream for an hour, the ice cream will taste like bitter gourd juice. Always a momentary feeling of joy is memorable. One instrument is constantly playing noise. If it stops and starts again, it is music. Sex also involves finger music played on body instruments and dance. There is taste and also acting. Its incompleteness is its longing. His momentary orgasm is his frenzy.

Sex seems mysterious and confusing to humans. Because after being naked in bed, a man becomes a beast in action. He has to break through all the layers of civilization and culture to make an original exit. Having said that, sex is a wild instinct. The wild animal in man is revealed in sex. Many are afraid of facing it or getting to know it. This is the root of half of sex problems. 'આ લે લે... આવી રૂડીરૂપાળી છોડી આવા મુફલિસ મવાલી સાથે કેમ ભાગી ગઈ?'વાળી અરેરાટી જન્માવતી અડધોઅડધ લવસ્ટોરીઝનું કૂળ પણ આ જ છે!

બિચ્ચારા ભારતીય ટીનેજર્સ. એમના થનગનતી યુવાનીના અડધોઅડધ વર્ષો કામાનંદ મેળવવાના પ્રયત્નોમાં ખર્ચાઈ જાય છે. બાકીના અડધા આ સહજ લાગણીથી દૂર કેમ રહેવું એની મનોવ્યથામાં પૂરા થઈ જાય છે. આપણે સેક્સના મામલે વસંત આવતી જ નથી. પ્રેમ જીંદગીના પ્રર્શ્નોના જવાબો આપતો હશે, પણ એ મેળવતા પહેલાં સેક્સ કેટલાક કોયડારૂપ સવાલો આગળ ધરી દે છે....હૃદયના ઉંડાણથી ચાહવાની વાતો ભલે થાય, હૃદય તો બિચારું હૂંફાળા લોહીનું પમ્પીંગ કર્યા કરે છે. નિખાલસ પણે કોઈ કબૂલે નહિ, પણ ઘણા ખરા પુરૂષો એ હૃદય ઉપર રચાયેલા વક્ષઃસ્થળના ક્લીવેજ ઉપર મરતા હોય છે. સેક્સની પુરૂષ અને સ્ત્રીની અનુભૂતિ એકસરખી આનંદદાયક છે. પણ બંનેની વ્યાખ્યાઓ જુદી છે અને રહેવાની છે! ભારતમાં તો ખાસ!

સ્ત્રીને સેક્સમાં જોડાવા માટે ગળે ઉતરે એવું કારણ તલાશ કરે છે, જ્યારે પુરૂષ કોઈને ખબર ન પડે એની સલામત જગ્યા જ શોધે છે! મનુષ્ય પ્રકૃતિએ 'પોલિગોમસ' છે. યાને એકથી વધુ સેક્સ પાર્ટનર્સ ધરાવનાર. પણ સંસ્કૃતિ એને 'મોનોગોમસ' બનાવી એક જ સાથીદાર સાથે બાંધે છે. એમાં લગ્ન આવ્યા. ફિઝીકલી પાંચસો અલગ વ્યક્તિઓ સાથે સહશયન કરો કે પાંચસો વખત એક વ્યક્તિ સાથે - કોઈ ફરક નથી પડતો. પણ સોશ્યલી અને મેન્ટલી પડે છે. એરેન્જડ મેરેજમાં બીજાની ચોઈસ મુજબ ને લવ મેરેજમાં પોતાની ચોઈસ મુજબ પણ લગ્નજીવનનો ભોગવટો સેક્સ છે અને વફાદારી કે વિશ્વાસ તૂટવાનું મુખ્ય કારણ પણ.

માટે જ રૂપાળી સ્ત્રી કે સોહામણો પુરૂષ જીવનમાં નહિ તો સપનામાં આવે જ છે. નરે માદાને જીતવાની છે. અને માદાએ નરને આકર્ષવાનો છે. લેટિન શબ્દ 'વર્જીન' (કૌમાર્ય) એટલે જે 'વર' (પુરૂષ) માટેની 'જીન' (જાળ)! સેક્સ શબ્દોનો નહિ, સ્પર્શનો વિષય છે! આફટરઓલ, પ્રેમનો ધબકાર ઝીલવા માટે પૃથ્વીલોક પર માણસ જોઈશે.... અને સેક્સ વિના માણસ આવશે કઈ રીતે?

એ જો લેબોરેટરીમાંથી આવશે તો ય એને આનંદ જોઈશે અને એ આનંદ પણ એને સેક્સ તરફ ખેંચી જશે. સેક્સ એક ચૂંબક છે, અને ઈન્સાની ખૂનમાં પોલાદ મૌજૂદ છે! જીંદગી પ્રેમ કરવા જેવી છે. કારણ કે એમાં કસાયેલા બાયસેપ્સ છે, ફરફરતી સાડી નીચેની ડોકિયાં કરતી નાભિ છે, ચાલની લચક છે, ટેરવાની કુમાશ છે, ચૂંબનની મીઠાશ છે અને આંખના ઈશારા છે.... સેક્સ આપણા દિમાગની રગે રગમાં શ્વસે છે.

આખી વાતને કાલિદાસે (હુ એલ્સ?) એક જ લીટીમાં 'મેઘદૂત'માં મૂકી દીધી છે. 'શાતાસ્વાદોવિવૃતજઘના કો વિહાતુ સમર્થ?' યાને જો જંઘા (સાથળ) ખુલ્લા કરીને સ્ત્રી આમંત્રણ આપતી હોય, એવી અનુકુળ પરિસ્થિતિમાં એકવાર જેણે કામરસનો સ્વાદ ચાખ્યો છે એવો ક્યો સમર્થ પુરૂષ ઝાલ્યો રહી શકે? વેલ સેઈડ ટ્રુથ.

કોઈ બળજબરી, શોષણ કે છેતરપિંડી વિના સેક્સ મનચાહા પાર્ટનર સાથે સરસ સેક્સ માણવો એટલે એની ઊર્જા પણ દિવાળીની સિરીઝની જેમ બત્રીસ કોઠે દીવા પ્રગટાવી દેશે! આ અંધારામાં અજવાળાની અનુભૂતિ છે! વિજ્ઞાને પુરવાર કર્યું છે કે રેગ્યુલર હેલ્ધી સેક્સલાઈફ હોય એમને ઊંઘ સારી આવે, કેન્સર જેવા રોગો ઓછા થાય અને માનસિક તણાવ ઓછો રહે. તો આ પણ છે ને દિવાળીની ફેસ્ટિવલ વિશિઝમાં મૂકી શકાય એવી નેચરલ શુભ'કામ'ના!

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