Soften the words.

Here is what the President, popular President APJ Abu Kalam himself said:

'I was a child then. Amma had a lot of work to do. There were a lot of men in the house. Mother did everything with a smile on her face.

But this is what happens to Amma while cooking. Baking so many loaves of bread! Back to all sitting together for a meal. Believers had to hurry. There was a lot of bread. '

When we sat down to eat, we saw that a loaf of bread had been burnt. Came true. It was a little black. Amma does not serve it to anyone.

It finally happened to me when the same hard bread remained. Only Amma will eat it. But both Amma and Abba started fighting for the bread.

The bread came to Abba's side.

They began to eat with love. Ate. Swallowing with vegetables, eating with such sweetness is like eating sweets.

Amma apologized. He says: 'Now I will make sure that the bread does not burn. If it burns, I will not bring it in the food. '

Abba said: 'Don't be sorry Amma!' Abba also used to call our mother 'Amma'.

Amma became the Amma of all, not of our entire family.

Abba goes on to say: 'Sometimes it happens in a lot of work. We pray. '

Don't stay with me I asked Abba: 'Abba! Didn't you find the bread bitter and hard? '

Abba says: 'No, it didn't feel bitter. When your mother touches it, all the cooking becomes sweet! There is magic in your mother's hand and what does it feel like? Nature has made these teeth only for hard things. The words must be soft, even if the bread is hard. Soft words soften every difficulty. '

Growing up, Abul followed this teaching for the rest of his life. Keeping words soft, rather than hard work.

What a real example of success!

- Harish Nayak