What are the six things that cause separation in a relationship?

- A single de chingari-shashin

- Everything in life may become stale, but if the mind and heart remain fresh, a man can gain the strength to rise through any trial.

A grandfather, father, son and mother reached a temple for Devdarshanarth to celebrate Vrat. They were praying to the gods and goddesses by taking a seat at a very convenient place. All the attention was focused on the statue of Lakshmiji.

The grandson saw that grandfather was praying, "Lakshmi Maiya, by your grace I have billions of rupees, but because of that, seven generations cannot be settled." Give me a hundred billion."

Then the son heard the words of the father's prayer: he prayed to Lakshmi Devi and said: "I have earned crores of rupees." If I get billions, my son-family will never have to face poverty.

Then the son heard the mother's prayer and the mother was saying: "Goddess, let my son get a bride from a rich family who will come to our house with inexhaustible wealth as dowry."

A little far away from all of them, a rag man was praying: "Lakshmidevi, please give me bread for one time, but give me bread for two times." Remove our poverty.” The boy grew up in unfailing support. The word poverty did not come to his ears. He said to his father: "Dad, where can I see what is called poverty?"

Dad said: "We will go on a field trip to the village. The boy agreed.

According to the 'Motivating Gems of Life', he reached the khorde of a poor family in his farm. All the men in the family used to work in the field and ate together in the afternoon. They were drinking spring water and resting under the shade of a tree.

After two days father and son returned from the farm. Father asked son: "Son, how was the journey?"

"Very good father" replied the son.

"You have seen how poor people are. They do not get hot food or cold water. Not even a rug to lay on. Resting under the tree." What did you learn by seeing all that? asked the father.

The son said: "I saw that we have only one dog at home, but the people had four dogs. We had a hundred meter long pool, while they have a long flowing Lach spring. We have imported lamps in our garden, while those people have countless shining stars. Our Agassi reaches the front yard. When they have all the horizons. When the boy finished talking, his father became speechless. "The son finished talking and said: "Dad, thank you very much. For showing how poor we are.”

That grandfather, father and mother of the son were poor in heart despite having a lot of money. Among them there were immense aspirations for wealth.

If a child is to be truly molded, he needs to be told the stories of a mere prince who had a king and a prince who grew up in companionship. Instead of making him travel by plane, make him travel by horse cart or bullock cart once. Instead of making him see God, make him see the country. Allow for steep mountain climbing. Parents aka today's moms and dads unknowingly teach ego in the child. Seeing him playing with the servant's child, he scolded him and said: "The boys of our rich house should not play with such poor people. Explain to him the importance of Lakshmi along with the importance of Saraswati. Explain the importance of high graph of character in life instead of high percentage i.e. coefficient. Even though the poor farmer's family was financially poor, it was rich even among the rich because of their contentment, love, emotion, natural life. A decline in the number of big-minded humans is a cultural decline, money can create civilization, not culture. A country that has a large number of virtuous citizens is truly rich. If this Limbe is right, I don't want to see how much power and wealth someone else has, just enough for my family, my security and self-respect. I want to get out of this vicious cycle now. I will strive to develop a mature understanding of success, one that will lead me to true growth and true achievement and keep me away from the lust of false, fake, vainly embellished and flattering acquisitions.”

The greatest defeat of man today is his purely materialistic outlook. There is a bright life. An insistence that ornaments appear more precious than the mind becomes golden in character is a sign of a hypocritical life. A sister arrived at a gold shop. He said to Soni: "I have no gold ornaments but fake gold ornaments. You should give me such a beautiful display of these ornaments that even real gold ornaments will pale in front of them: Soni was surprised to see the madness of the sister."

The fact is that educated idiots are becoming more terrifying than uneducated idiots.

Today everyone talks about happiness and peace in the country, but forgets the fact that happiness and peace will not manifest unless there is equal distribution of wealth. Poet Dinkar is right

Said that

"If not peace, then opportunity

Jab Tak Janaka Bhaggahey

not even,

Not too many

be more

Don't scream

Hum Ho.''

Today's man wants to be elevated, but not enlightened. Jnana means not mere degrees, titles, high positions or power, but self-understanding, exalted vision, inner contentment and contentment with what one has. Contentment is a bitter tree but its fruits are sweet. If the mind of a dry bread eater is cool, he can be happy and satisfied than the one who orders food by looking at the menu card of expensive dishes. Mahakavi Tulsidasji says.

“O Tat, without natural satisfaction

No one gets happiness.

As in spite of doing crores of remedies

"A boat cannot sail without water."

P.O. Mota, drawing a picture of the life of today's man, says: "There are many kinds of gaps in life, the gap of understanding, the gap of intelligence, the gap of practical skills, the gap of power, the gap of wisdom, the gap of luxury, thus there are different types of gaps. All such loopholes should be eradicated from our life. Ego plays a big part in all such slots. Hence, when the ego is struck, the sadhaka jiva feels great joy.

A person should understand that the more austerity increases in life and the more the tendency to consumption and addiction decreases, the more the mind can remain calm. So don't run behind the mind and if the mind runs to catch us, don't succumb to its deceiving plans. It is as necessary for a man not to be proud that he is rich, as it is not to hate him when he is poor.

Enter through the narrow gate as Jesus Christ said because broad is the way that leads to destruction, large is the gate and many are the ones who go in, but narrow is the way that leads to life. Its gate is small and few find it. Even if everything in life becomes stale, but if the mind and heart remain fresh, a person can gain the strength to rise from any test.

A new year is about giving up old visions and becoming a new man. Humans know how to separate but not how to become one. In 'Zarukhe Diwa', what are the six things that create separation in relationships and destroy them?

1. All severe criticism

2. A sense of haughty superiority

3. Cruel opinions

4. Totally invisible

5. I am the right one

Such arrogance

6. All kinds of hateful things

If you offer the best you have on each day of the new year, the day will be auspicious.