Shared Review - Nayana

I love a girl in my neighborhood. He loves me too. But the girl's family is not happy with our relationship.

I had good relationships with my father when I was young. But since I started working, they have started treating me strangely. I am the only child of my parents. This is why I grew up pampered. But now if any of my female friends or female co-workers get a call they look at me with suspicion.

Even when I go on a tour, they are worried and don't like it. Although he and my line are different, he advises me in my work. If I do not listen to them, they become very nervous. I don't understand what to do. Request guidance.

A young man (Mumbai)

* It's hard to explain why a new generation is taking its place. Your father's problem is psychological. Your father loves you very much. Now the situation is changing. And they seem to understand that you're about to take their place. They are trying to hold on to your childhood. They still have to keep their pressure on you. You are now grown up and you need freedom and openness.

They are also not mentally ready to understand that you can make your own decisions. So now you need to reduce the distance between the two. Give them your time. Go hang out with them. Talk man to man. Father and son relationships are very valuable. Men cannot express their feelings. This is why you need to make an effort to change your relationship to adulthood.

I have a relationship with a guy who works with me. I quit my job as we were planning to get married. But now we have differences. I want to make a career and it is against this. So we decided to get married. But the physical relationship between us continues. He did not like any girl shown by his family.

Now she wants to marry me. And now I have to decide. He told me. But the next day he called me and told me to forget about all this and to continue the relationship as friends only. I love him very much and reproach myself for this situation. Now let me know what to do.
- A young woman (Mumbai)

* Your generous and loving nature has given this man a lot of ground. He is exploiting you. What was the need to continue the relationship with her once she got married? Therefore, it is now advisable to put a pause on this relationship. He does not want to marry you. Just want to enjoy you. So find a man who understands you and does not want to be hindered in your career and let this so-called lover get his way. In this is your bright future.

I am 3 years old. I have a good job. I love a girl in my neighborhood. He loves me too. But the girl's family is not happy with our relationship. What steps should I take now? This girl is obediently written for the sake of knowing.
- A youth (Ahmedabad)

* Your letter indicates that you are not ready to do any wrong to a girl who marries another girl as your parents wish. So it is not right to make a hasty decision. Keep thinking of marrying another girl until you can forget your girlfriend. If possible explain to the girl's family. Give them the time they need to embrace this. If after one year your feelings have not changed then withdraw the subject.

Until then know this girl's mind. Even if the situation doesn't improve, you have no choice but to forget the girl. The task of forgetting is difficult but not impossible. Time will help you a lot in this work. Consider marrying another girl only after your feelings are clear. Ask this girl to explain to her family too. If the girl is strong, it is possible to risk her family.