Every master has to be a servant!

The rack man wants my son to shine my name! We don't mind accepting this as a father's right or as a father's desire. But sometimes the desires of the parents begin to overwhelm the son. The mentality of the son, who is carrying the burden of the father's desire, has to be tested step by step. It also happens that I should shine my father's name. This idea raises questions in his mind. Would Dad like it if I did this? If I do this, my father's name will not be tarnished? How can a young person who is stuck in such questions move forward? In the guise of what the father likes or dislikes, he cannot afford to dislike the works he likes!

Father's interest and son's interest do not match! The father goes around in the society saying that my son is a Kahyagaro, do as I say! This means that the son has to stop where the father has come and stopped! This situation is very expensive for the son even though he is the father of the father. Tamanna can be said to be right until my son will shine my name. But the stubbornness of such a father to do as much as I say, creates a quarrel between the father and the son, and the father, realizing that the son is not in my word, wanders alone from within.

Some endure this trauma and some cannot. Wise people prefer to remain silent. The father does not like the animosity between the son and the son to ignore and insult him again. Not all who think so are willing to bow down to their son. It is not acceptable for a father to surrender to his son in a battle of differences. It will immediately release the ordinance without thinking back and forth. 'Get out of my house now'!

Before tapping the back of Tamanna that my son will brighten my name, one should think how much did you brighten your father's name? If you could not brighten your own name, then where were you going to brighten your father's name? Why do you put a burden on your son's mind that will make your name shine? How many of our sons have glorified their father's name? Gandhiji's name was used to brighten his only son? Where did Pandit Jawaharlal Nehru have a son? Although he was enlightened, his father's name was Motilal Nehru, very few people know.

Even a well-known and powerful man like Dhirubhai Ambani could not shine his father's name. The whole world knows Dhirubhai Ambani but his father's name is not even known to his staff man. Everyone knows that Mukesh Ambani is Dhirubhai's son. But no one knows whose son Dhirubhai is. The father's fame is consumed by the son, but the son's fame is never consumed by the father! This understanding should be accepted by every man. It is not right to have a knot in the mind that my son will brighten my name, not even Tamanna, it is just craziness!

The father is subtly enjoying ownership by insisting that his son obey me. I own this house and everyone should listen to me! If you want to be a master, you have to be prepared to be a servant! The moment you become the owner of any living or non-living thing, you are becoming its servant! Then the servant proves to be better than the master. You say that this house is mine, I am the owner of this house, that is physically true. Morally, the house becomes your owner. As soon as you become the owner of the house, your responsibility to take care of it starts.

If anything is broken, it is your responsibility to repair it. You have to do makeup for its beauty. Its roof is covered with P.O.P. Create a stylist by Shine its floor with granite! Have to keep painting! Decorating the house, you wake up the lamp, but your lamp does not affect the beauty of the roof or wall of the house. The walls of the house do not hurt if your hands and feet are broken. But a crack in the wall of the house tears your heart out! Walls are not responsible for dressing your wounds. But you have to work to repair the cracks on the wall. Who is the right master and who is the servant in this situation? In this tradition no one has ever realized the distinction between master and servant!

Horse owners rarely have to go out of town. The rest of the day the horse owner had to work the horse. The fodder had to be fed four or five times a day. Silver had to be fed in the morning and water had to be drunk twice a day! The body of a horse has to be rotated once or twice a week like brushing on shoes! From this point of view, is the owner of the horse considered the owner of the horse or the servant of the horse?

In politics, the opposite is true. In ordinary life the master becomes the servant. While in politics, people salute by becoming Sevak Saheb. When he comes to vote, he becomes a servant and promises to serve you. Immediately after being elected, he becomes a master from the servant and the voters have to play the role of the servant of the master!

The brick and cement work does not become a house once it is finished. It only becomes a version. A house is built only when a person lives in it. There is no denying that you own that home. But your ownership is limited to the walls of the house. You are not the owner of the family members living in the house. You are the main member of the family and that is why the family members respect you. So you are a member of the whole family.

You should be proud that other members respect you. Such pride is not in everyone's destiny! That's enough to make you lucky! The failed father, who is not known in the society or who does not produce anything in the society, becomes tired of life and expects his son for a pinch of fame. Some have even seen sons who are jealous of their father's fame. There are also emotional attempts to tarnish that reputation.