Why has the feeling of shrink-fear increased in women?

'I used to learn bicycling at an early age, so to speak. Somewhere along the steep path, there is always a sense of satisfaction when cycling along a dirt road that, yes, Dad is holding a bicycle later. He said, 'You ride a bicycle without panic.

I'm behind. ' I went cycling. Gradually, the speed of the bicycle also increased. Then all of a sudden I looked back to make sure my dad was there, but there was no daddy behind me, meaning I was riding a bicycle alone. The result ... my bicycle hit a tree and hit a tree. "

“Life began in a similar way. Time passed quickly with the belief that Dad was there and that his consolation was 'I am with him', but as time went on, one day Dad left me too. I was alone, all alone. "

"Now I'm quite alone. I am pedaling my life cycle under the fear that there is no one behind me or with me, but there is also a fear in my mind that there will be no accident at some point in my life. These words are Anita.

Thus Anita is a successful lawyer. Logic does not matter, but in the corner of his mind there is always a fear that if anything happens, somewhere? What if something goes wrong?

This is the kind of fear most women today experience. To a lesser extent, the physical structure of women only weakens them. Also, what if something happens somewhere in the house? Fear also affects their functioning mentally.

The upbringing is the main reason for the fear that women are brought up in since childhood, and this is the environment they have been enjoying for a lifetime. Why do we give children so much security that they are crippled all their lives?

Border husbands often work outdoors at work. In his absence, the boundary befriended a young man living in his neighborhood. This friendship slowly went on and on one day, the young man bounded the boundary in his arms and exacerbated it in a way that even the boundary could not control. Then there was no wall of shame between the two. Now Bhima fears that if this relationship is reported to her husband and he leaves her? If the husband leaves, will that young man accept it?

In the same way, the future of many other women becomes dark with such fear. This fear that often irritates the female mind is deadly. Often, because of such fear, the woman's livelihood is like a dead family.

She couldn't compete without a buggy since the line of 7-year-old became polio in childhood, so how could she work? Although it was no fault of his own, parents and siblings in the house pressed on him, "Why not work, enemy grain", why would this lame work? " Passed away

He hoped that in-laws might find some happiness, but there was a worse situation than Pierre. As a result, she became irritable and at the same time, her confidence began to diminish. Today, the situation is such that she is tired of life and is dying.

How independent women are
What is our irony that on the one hand, women are proving their talent in every field and playing 'feminine liberation' on all sides, there are many women on the other side who are living under the guise of fear. Now the question is, can women really be independent? Are they still safe today in this masculine society? Will they still be able to stand on their feet today because of their ability?

It also begs the question, what is the reason behind this growing insecurity among women? Why are women so timid today? If this issue is to be considered seriously, the main reason for doing so is the way parents nurture their offspring, especially girls, and the kind of safe environment they provide. Interfere with children's small things. When there is a fight in the children, you know that even if the wank is your child's side, you should support him and give him an oth.

You have to decide on their decision, do their little things, and not just self-reliance, but they develop an attitude of self-reliance. Then as the child grows older, his or her confidence deficits become greater. He feels himself paralyzed and becomes dependent on his parents for everything and every decision. This dependency only comes in the form of fear or disillusionment at a young age, and gradually the sense of insecurity grows.

Let me make one point especially clear that the purpose of this article is not to insult the parents' pity and pampering and also to prove their guidance wrong. Needless to say, parents need to love their children, not only do their little things in their infancy, but also gradually irrigate their self-reliance. Try to make them successful enough that they can cope with any problems in life without panic. One of the saddest truths in life is that one's parents do not live their whole lives and siblings do not live with anyone.

One has to deal with all the problems of life itself. So strengthen your sons and daughters with all your mind and body, but not lame. Encourage them to make their own decisions. Remember that everything inherited from children can be destroyed, shared, but the sacraments and teachings given to them cannot be destroyed and cannot be taken away; If so, then parents have to pay special attention.