Politeness: Modesty.

- Shabda Samhita-Paresh Vyas

- The aim of politeness is not to do anything to offend anyone. Make people around you feel comfortable

Being modest, one never complained in life,

While staying, I came to know that the punishment for not speaking has been received.

- Manoj Khanderia

A lawyer defends punishment and saves from punishment. A lawyer has to speak. Must read and write. Becoming a lawyer is easy. Being a good lawyer is hard. In the convocation ceremony of future lawyers, Supreme Court Justice M. R. Shah Sahib initiated. 'Deeksha' means chanting, preaching, teaching. If he becomes a lawyer, he should remember the four 'P's'. The first 'P' stands for Prepare. A lawyer should prepare properly. So don't keep M or PTD. What is PTD? It will be given as it is! If the lawyer does not prepare enough, the client will be given away! The second 'P' stands for perfection, meaning flawlessness or excellence. Check everything. Even reality and what does the law say? The third 'P' stands for Presentation. presentation. Effective presentation. Even if the lawyer has prepared, there is no mistake, but if the presentation is weak, all the hard work will be wasted. It is the share of Ghayal Sahib that... the compulsion remains in the mind, like a ghazal dies without presentation. The soul resides in the presentation. There are two words in the presentation. Present+Att. According to Bhagavadgomandal 'at' means soul. Presentation is important. And the last 'P' means Politeness. Modesty, discretion, civility. Beautiful, civilized, decent, polite are also other meanings of the word politeness. So this fourth quality required for a lawyer is not discussed specifically, lawyer and humble?! Is it something like that? But Justice M. R. If Shah Sahib said, then it must be true. huh?

The original Latin word 'politus'. Politus literally means to police. rub and shine Exonerating mail from blame. to purify to purify Graceful, beautiful or even beautiful... that's what it means. But then the meaning of politeness changed. In the seventeenth century, a polite person was someone who was good in speech, behavior or manners. Speaks politely to others - A Polite. The goal of politeness is not to do anything to offend anyone. Make people around you feel comfortable. Everyone likes you because you are nice and well behaved. A synonym of politeness is the English word: Civility. But modesty reaches a higher level when the word politeness is spoken. Politeness is the key to success.

Have you seen 'Lage Raho Munnabhai'? R. J. When Munnabhai goes to the radio station for the first time to meet Jhanvi, he is tensed but the circuit convinces him to be polite. To salute with folded hands. Munnabhai's modesty, however, is on a different level. In a way, the journey of the word 'Gandhigiri' from Mohan to Munna teaches us all kinds of politeness lessons. A lesson in behavior is of course like a buffet. He who loves, that person heals. Now in the modern age 'politeness' is considered a demeaning, demeaning, even derogatory behavior. We all like it - that's how M. R. Shah Sahib may say but naman namanmen fer hai, bahut namane nadan.. and nowadays who is keeping politeness? Nowadays, if we keep too much politeness, we seem to be flirting. There will definitely be a reason. He must have been so modest. This politeness seems like a pattering dog asking Bhare Bhadar to pat the dog. So, future lawyers, we must keep politeness like Munnabhai. Apun tereko phool vinram ke saath request karta hai.. just joking!

Anthropologists Brown and Lewison say that politeness can be both positive and negative. In the negative, I start the sentence with 'if you don't mind...' or 'if you don't mind...' and then say whatever I want to say. I mean, 'you're an ass'- I wouldn't say it directly but...'I think how about rethinking this?!' Sometimes I show my politeness by remaining silent. So sometimes I sing 'Mile Soor Mera Tumhara' wrongly so that I don't feel right but the other person doesn't feel bad. Instead you can say direct in positive politeness. But your relationship should be such that the opposite side does not feel wrong. A thank you thank you is good, drew my attention.

There are some techniques of politeness. Like lying. If you refuse on the face, it will look wrong. Even the petitioner knows that these gentlemen are lying, but if he does not say it on his face, he will be fooled. To appear polite, keep the word good. A slaughter house is called a meat packing house. Calling a child born out of wedlock a love child instead of a bastard is called politeness. Sandas has now become a washroom. Urine becomes watery. Now onward. There are some cushions. 'Come on, I will wash the dishes today'. 'You sing well, hon'. If the husband is at fault, the husband should ask for forgiveness and if the wife is at fault, the wife should forgive the husband, that is politeness. And finally the retirement speech. Let all praise the retirees. No one will say that this was a complete lie. Because we are a people full of politeness.

In short, be humble. Where is Amathi's capacity to bully? Often the name of compulsion is Lakhanvi Tahjib. Do yourself first, but be careful not to overturn the car.

Suffix :

'Be gentle to all, even to those who treat you rudely. Not because they are good but because you are good.'

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