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Question: I am a 9 year old woman and I got married 18 months ago. I have found out that my husband is HIV positive. Is positive. My husband told me that the disease was in its early stages, but the truth was that after returning from the honeymoon, his health started deteriorating. In the meantime, if I was tested for HIV, it turned out to be negative. Now doctors say they may be infected with HIV. This is due to vaccination with contaminated needles. My husband is taking medication and his condition has also improved a little bit. I would like to know if there is any medicine or cure that can cure this disease completely.

To what extent is it appropriate to have sex with my husband without a condom in such circumstances? My husband uses a condom forever, but sometimes he has sex without a condom. Is it okay to do that and can I be the mother of their child? I am very worried. Please advise me.

A woman (Ahmedabad)

Answer: What happened to you is very bad. When and how did your husband become infected with HIV? No doctor can say anything definite about suffering, but now you should not have sex without a condom. It is a miracle that you are not yet HIV positive, but if you continue to have sexual relations with your husband in this way, you too will become HIV positive. Even after becoming HIV-positive, HIV can continue for the first three months. Can't get caught Be careful during sex and be sure to use a condom.

It is not possible to be the mother of their child. You will have a strong chance of being HIV positive in the first place and if this happens the virus can be passed on to the baby by you.

Yes, as far as the treatment of the husband is concerned, it is a bitter truth that no drug has yet been developed that can eradicate the human deficiency virus. Such efforts are ongoing in laboratories around the world and some special virus detection drugs have been developed, but with the help of this the AIDS patient's breathing can be continued for a little longer. It cannot save lives. Some physicians require a claim, but no one has a drug that can cure the disease.

As the disease progresses and the body's immune system weakens. As the body becomes surrounded by diseases. It loses weight. Problems with diarrhea and fever arise. There may be coughing, lumps on the body, herpes sores on the skin, and blisters in the mouth and throat. Frequent pneumonia affects.

Question: I am a 9 year old medical college student. During college I had a physical relationship with a student, but did not experience orgasm. Since then I have suffered from inferiority complex.

A young woman (Mumbai)

Answer: This is a strange game of nature. In cohabitation sports, a man always ejaculates in a few minutes, while a woman takes time to achieve orgasm. Even if there is mental pressure, the man ejaculates most of the time, while the woman cannot achieve orgasm. No wonder what happened to you. This does not indicate a defect in your sexual ability.

You are a minor, you can decide your own good, but my advice is that instead of doing this kind of sexual experiment, you should wait for the time until you are bound in marriage.