Sahiyar Review - Nayana

I am 18 years old. I am in love with a Christian youth. But I can't tell him my mind and we both live in the same area so we know each other's family. Also during the exam I get very nervous. This also affects my result. Give proper guidance.

- A young woman (Mumbai)

First of all you need to pay attention to the study and bring good result. Secondly you need to express your feelings to the young man you are in love with. For this you can take the help of a common friend or you can muster the courage to express your feelings to him. However, considering your age, you should pay more attention to education and build a friendly relationship with that young man and do not call this friendship love right now. There is no denying the possibility that you are still young and that the young man does not love you. If a hasty decision is made at this age, it is time to repent in the future.

I am married for 3 years. My husband doesn't listen to me when our 12-year-old son turns a deaf ear to me, and he doesn't talk to me for days if I take a hard line.

A woman (Ahmedabad)

What is the reason for inciting your son against you? Have you hidden the reason that then your husband's nature is to come. When it comes to discipline, you have to control your son. If you adopt a mild attitude, you will suffer the consequences for the rest of your life. Discuss this behavior with your husband as well. You cannot solve your problem without talking to them.

I am a 6 year old unmarried college girl. I am troubled by the problem of hair growing on the genitals. Talk about rubbing salt in my wounds - d'oh! But because of this I am very upset. Request to show a remedy for hair removal.

- A young woman (Kutch-Bhuj)

You can use a hair removal lotion or a ladies razor to remove unwanted hair.

I am 21 years old. It's been a year since I got engaged. My fiance and I love each other very much. We did not have sex. We know about sex. We've had sex once or twice. Is it possible to get pregnant? My fianc doesn't know if she's reached that climax. Our marriage is still a year and a half old. We don't have to have sex before marriage. Give proper guidance.

- A young man

Having sex while dressed reduces the chances of getting pregnant. But there is a possibility of building a body relationship without controlling the mind. So do what you do with understanding and thinking. You need to discuss your preferences. Do the things that excite her. At some point, she will realize that she doesn't need anything more than that. This is the climax, the climax. Happiness and contentment are experienced in the mind.

I am 18 years old. I have a sore throat. For this I take painkillers. But as soon as the effect of the medicine subsides, the pain starts. The doctor's medicine did not help either. Request appropriate advice.

- One Student (Surat)

Your legs are more likely to be sore due to weakness. This can be due to a deficiency of calcium, vitamins and iron. Eat a balanced diet. Increase the amount of green vegetables in the diet. Also drink plenty of milk and yogurt. Get a blood test done with the advice of a doctor and take medicine with their advice.

I am a married woman of 20 years. I have two children. I feel tired before menstruation and my mind is different. And mental stress is experienced. This leads to unintentional anger at the husband and children. Request appropriate guidance.

- A Woman (Mumbai)

This problem is called 'premenstrual syndrome' in medical language. This problem is common. Exercise can be helpful in avoiding this. Keep walking in the fresh air. Eat a nutritious diet every day. Include sprouted beans, fresh fruits, vegetables, soybeans in the diet. Drink plenty of water, reduce the amount of tea-coffee. Listen to music. Meditation will also be useful to you.