There is no harm in saying good words, yet why does man not say good words?

* There is no harm in speaking good words, yet why does man not speak good words?

* Questioner: Jyotsna Gulab Hindocha, Ranavadwala, Ta. Ranavav, Harshad Chowk, Dist. Porbandar

Speech works to convey our message to others and to convey our message to others. The word is the great power so the word has been compared to Brahman. Its good use kills man and misuse burns man. The word can also set fire and the rain extinguisher can also make the word friend and also enemy. The word can make a man angry and even revenge. The word can also be a blessing and an opinion. The word can also mean divorce and divorce. That is why one should be careful and restrained while using words.

The word 'war' can also cause and 'Buddha' can also create. The word samarth can make Valmiki, Vyas or Kalidasa and the irrational word can make Duryodhana fight. If the word is not understood and used carefully, the word can be misinterpreted. Pure words originate from the heart, express emotionally and create miracles.

There are three types of speech. Adjectives, Symptoms and Consonants. The most common current meaning of the word, which is easily understood, is the use of the term man in colloquial speech or common practice. The second type of speech is the symptom, the speech that teaches the meaning. The third type of speech is consonantal, the power of teaching or understanding satire. When speech was not invented. The man was dumb. He used to do it like other animals in picture-strange prices and grunts.

He used to convey his message to others in a clear and vague way with the help of pictures. Imitating sounds. More than that, Mahaparane Vacha means speech was born. According to the information received from 'Prasannika Kosh', in the process of speech or speech, in the time of half a moment, 6 muscles are rhythmic. The sound is produced louder or slower as the lower air is pushed. The frequency of the vibrations of the independent determines the intensity of the sound. Some sounds are produced by the action of the lips and tongue.

Animals other than man have speech, but not as well developed as man. For them, words are a sign of fear. Some fish and reptiles produce sound from the struggle of legs, wings, etc. Frogs and crows can produce a wide variety of sounds. The scriptures describe four types of speech. They are Para, Pashyanti, Madhyama and Vaikhari. Its special discussion is time consuming so let's just get information about Vaikhari speech here. Boni, Ven, Vachan, Bolvu, its name is Vacha, clear pronunciation, voice or tongue. The machine of speech is the mouth. The air hits the throat, palate, teeth, mucus i.e. the entire upper part of the oral cavity, etc. in the mouth, so the so-called varna is produced.

This voice is the voice of Vaikhari. According to the scriptures, if there was no speech, there would be no knowledge of Dharma or Adharma. Also, man does not know the truth, the untruth, the monk or the evil sage or the ignorant, who and what. Speech alone makes all these things known. Sweet speech is beneficial and bitterness is destructive. As Vyasji says in the Mahabharata, it is better to remain silent than to speak in vain or gossip. This is the first feature of speech. Speaking the truth is another characteristic of speech. Favorite speaking is the third characteristic of speech. And righteous speaking is the fourth characteristic of speech.

On the basis of speech, man can be divided into three sections namely Mithabola, Kadvabola and Wankabola. Man should also speak in a loving and loving way. The wounds of a sword can heal, but the wounds of an insulting, bitter voice can consume sorrow and shake a man. The words of the upper mother were an excuse to do penance to the pole. Narasimha Mehta also left home because of his bitter promise. Speaking is also an art. The wise and prudent speak words with understanding, while the ignorant and foolish and wicked speak instead.

Good means sweet, dear, pacifier, guiding and benevolent words kill a man. By speaking sweet or beloved speech all animals i.e. human beings become satisfied and happy, then what is the stinginess in speaking good words? In a famous verse of Bhatruhari, the sacramental speech is described as the greatest adornment. Accordingly: Assuming a side closure does not make a man adorned. Even a rosy necklace does not look elegant. Not even adorned with baths, wrap or flowers or trimmed hair. But man is adorned only by the word spoken in a sacramental way because all the ornaments outside are perishable while the adornment of speech is the only lasting one.

Why does a person not say good words even though he knows that good words do not harm him? There are several reasons for this: such as:

1. Evil nature

. Ego

. Jealousy-hatred

. Intolerance

. Anger, greed

. Lack of restraint

. Dissociation

. The attitude of being happy hurting others

. The joy of crooked speech

10. Attitude to show one's power or influence

11. Selfishness and discord

13. Khewna of fame

An example of a man who cannot give up his natural evil even though he understands is Duryodhana who frankly admits that I know what religion is but in the way of religion

Can't be activated Knowing what unrighteousness is, one cannot leave that path.

In practice, the mouth that feeds the leaf also feeds the shoe by speaking crooked mouth. The sweet tongue bites the elephant and the bitter tongue cuts off the head. That is why Kabir says that 'Aisi bani boliye, man ki aapa (ego, humpad) khoy, aur na kosital kare aaphu sital hoy' is the abode of God in Ghat-Ghat, then what work do you do to torment others? That is why a man should think twice before speaking once. Man must understand that bitter or hardened brick is the answer to which must be met in the form of stone.

Man should have the discretion of when to speak, not to speak where there is a need to remain silent and not to be timid where there is a need to speak. Being a Vakshura is not bravery but cowardice. A voice spoken in moderation is a ladder to conquer the world. Speech is a God-given tool to spread fragrance, not to be used to spread odors. Fools and egoists do not understand this.