Confusion.

- I am getting married soon. I want to know what kind of hygiene should be maintained before and after intercourse so that our love lasts?

Question: I am a 50 year old unmarried man. I haven't had sex yet. I started masturbating at the age of 18 and continued till the year 9. Although my testicles have shrunk in recent times. Could this be due to a deficiency or defect or an illness? Will this result in any effect on my sex life after marriage?

One Male (Rajkot)

A: If you can masturbate to the climax and get enough semen, your body's overall testosterone balance is normal. Also, there will be no problems in your marriage. However, if you still have doubts, consult a urologist.

Question: I am a married man of 3 years. I had an HIV test in November 2009 and the result was negative. Then I had sex with a prostitute. And in March 2009, he was tested again for HIV using the Western Blot method. The result was again negative. Although my wife and children are in good health, I am depressed and have not had sex with anyone for the past six months. Do I need another HIV test? I believe that if children are HIV positive from birth they can only live for six years. Is this true? Is it possible for my wife and my children to get HIV? What are the symptoms associated with HIV?

A man (surat)

Answer: No, you do not need to get another HIV test. Second, whether HIV-infected children will live to be six years old depends on whether the problem is congenital or acquired. Your spouse and children are unlikely to be infected with HIV. Third, the symptoms associated with HIV include weight loss, unexplained bouts of recurrent infections, and so on.

Question: I am getting married soon. I want to know what kind of hygiene should be maintained before and after intercourse so that our love lasts?

A young woman, (Mumbai)

A: This applies to both husband and wife so I will focus on both. Kissing often becomes unbearable for a partner if a person has bad breath. This means cleaning the mouth thoroughly before starting mating. Brush well if you have a strong odor like onion, garlic or asafoetida in your meal. Often alcohol and cigarettes can increase odors.

Body sweat often stinks a lot and may spoil your partner's sexual mood. This means bathing with warm water and deodorant soap before intercourse. So that the freshness in the body is increased and the odor is removed. Always wear cotton underwear so that sweat is absorbed properly and fungal infections do not result. After mating, both men and women should urinate if possible, so that the insects moving from the bottom to the top are eliminated automatically. It is imperative to cut the hair around the senses, as this will prevent the accumulation of sweat and result in the possibility of fungal infections.

Question: I am 6 years old. I have been married for seven years. My problem is that I feel like having sex a lot, but when I go to have sex, I ejaculate immediately. Please show me any Ayurvedic medicine for this? Second, my wife is not interested in sex at all. The uterine sac is removed at the time of its delivery. If I ejaculate in the vagina during intercourse, is there any possibility of any disease or damage?

One husband (Mumbai)

A: You do not need to use a condom or any other contraceptive if your wife has had her uterus removed. You can ejaculate in the vagina by having intercourse happily. It does not harm you or your spouse. You have written about Ayurvedic medicine for premature ejaculation, but all the medicines used in Ayurveda to eliminate premature ejaculation contain a small amount of opium, which can harm the body in the long run and get used to it in the future. This means that taking Peroxitin or AVBG 20 mg tablets four to six hours before intercourse turns a person's ejaculation into delayed ejaculation.

-Anita