Confusion.

- It's been 15 years since my marriage. We are both sexually promiscuous. Her excessive sexuality often makes me doubt her character.

Also read :Confusion.

My husband has intense sex. Despite my denial, they have oral sex before intercourse. Sometimes they are satisfied with it, but I am not satisfied. Then I have to be satisfied with masturbation. I'm worried that oral sex will have a bad effect on both of our health, right? Should I report this to my husband?

- A woman (Chandkheda)

It is not a bad thing to have occasional oral sex before intercourse, but it is not right to say that it has become a habit. Both spouses have a right to sexual pleasure. So you need to talk to the husband on this topic. Be aware that it needs your satisfaction.

Also read :Confusion.

I am a 21 year old girl, I love my cousin, I kept this in my mind for a long time due to family quarrels and disputes. He did not let this be known. I did not respond even when he proposed to me, but one day he made a lot of arguments and called me right. He also proposed marriage to me, but I did not want to discredit the sacred relationship of the siblings so I refused. It's been a year since he's been annoyed and stays away from me. He comes to our house, but I stay in a hostel so there are no visits. Now she is getting married somewhere else. I was shocked to hear this. I still love it. So I decided to stay single for the rest of my life. Please guide me on whether my decision is right or wrong.

- A young woman (Vadodara)

* You have not lost your conscience yet that is why you turned down the marriage proposal of your uncle's son. If her second marriage is going to happen, let it happen.

You also try to forget. When your sexual arousal subsides over time, you will laugh at yourself. It's really your misunderstanding that you can't get along with anyone else.

Also read :Confusion.

I am an 8 year old soldier. I have been married for 12 years. We are both sexually promiscuous. The wife has been masturbating since the age of 18. I often doubt his character because of his excessive sexuality, but he believes that it is better to die than to think about a man.

Show me a way to reduce my sexuality. I can only come home for a few days a year because I am in the army.

- A Soldier (Ahmedabad)

* Sexual instinct depends more or less on the person. If you yourself believe that you have a strong tendency to have sex, then why do you adopt such a double standard that the spirit of sex in a wife is high, so her character will not be good. Marriage is based on mutual trust. So don't let doubts arise in it, otherwise there will be no rift in the marital life at all. Like you, your wife rarely gets physical pleasure so she calms her insatiable sexual desire through masturbation. As far as reducing sexual desire is concerned, keep yourself busy as much as possible.

Also read :Confusion.

I am a 6 year old student studying in MM, some time ago I was asked by a married man and a father of two children that his business is good. Everyone except my sister approved of this relationship. In fact his wife ran away with a neighbor six months ago. Today he lives in his pier. Maga is also coming from my other place, but what to do if that merchant pushes for marriage?

- A young woman (Banaskantha)

* Your sister's opposition is justified. You should not marry a married person who is not formally divorced. Because as long as the first wife is alive, your marriage will not be legal.

- Anita