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- I am 17 years old. I am in love with a boy studying with me. He loves me too. But his behavior has changed a lot in the last few days. He ignores me. Don't even look in front of me.

I am 17 years old. I am in love with a boy studying with me. He loves me too. But over the last few days his behavior has changed a lot. He neglects me. Don't even look in front of me. Because of this I don't feel like studying. My sisters tell me to forget it. But for me this is not possible. Give proper guidance.

A young woman (Ahmedabad)

Your problem is normal. Many such cases have been answered many times even in the 'Sahiyar Samiksha'. Was there a quarrel between you? In this situation, you have to accept the fact that he has lost interest in you. Forcing it back is not right for you. This age is very foolish. So it is futile to hope for a lasting relationship at this age. Therefore, to understand the reality, forget the young man and concentrate on the study. If this boy didn't love you enough to love you with all his heart, he wouldn't do it. You will find a better life partner in the future.

My special sister is in my class. We both love each other a lot. We can't do without each other. The main reason we fight is because we are so passive to each other. She can't see me talking to anyone else. I also get angry when I see him talking to others. We are 18 years old. Please suggest a solution to our problem.

A young lady (Nadiad)

The solution to your problem lies in your question. You admit that you are both very passive towards each other. If you love each other with all your heart, your happiness should be contained in the happiness of the other. It is possible that you do not trust each other and that you feel insecure. This kind of friendship is likely to suffocate. A true friend never demands anything. You have the solution to this problem. Give each other space. Eliminate the feeling of invisibility.

I am 6 years old. My children are studying in college. And the husband does the job. I have been restless for the last few months and my temper has also become irritable. Little ones make me cry for hours. Please tell me what to do.

A woman (Valsad)

You are suffering from depression. A 'midlife crisis' is likely to occur between the ages of 30 and 40. The causes of menopause may also be responsible for this. Consult a good doctor. Counseling will benefit you more than medications.

My husband is 3 years old. Our physical relationship has not been normal for the last two years. They do not experience arousal during intercourse. This makes us both very worried. They are not ready to go to the doctor. This is also affecting our family life. Request appropriate guidance.

A woman (Surat)

After a few years of marriage, the couple loses interest in each other. And there comes a gap in their relationship. Both physical and mental causes can be responsible for the lack of satisfaction in a physical relationship. You need to understand each other's feelings. Try to win each other’s trust through conversation instead of worrying. Discuss a domestic problem. Also meet with a counselor if possible. Spend more time with each other. Go for a walk Come on in, take a look and enjoy yourself!

My husband used to love me a lot. But lately they are ignoring me. Opposes all my talk. They push me if I go to love them. I'm very worried. Please tell me what to do.

A young woman (Mumbai)

First of all try to find out why their behavior has changed. It is possible that they are suffering from anxiety or inferiority complex. It is also possible that some of their expectations have not been met. Is there a good rapport between you? This is likely to happen even if both husband and wife talk to each other. There is no need to worry when it comes to marriage. Do what your husband likes and try to create the same atmosphere as before. Also, discuss with them openly. Gradually everything will be fine.

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