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- I am 16 years old. I'm interested in a boy three years older than me. But I am not clear about his feelings towards me. Please explain what I do.

I am 17 years old. I have a friendship with a boy my age. We study in the same college. But now I want to get rid of it. Our relationship started only five months ago. But I didn't go out with her. He claims to love me a lot and tells me to commit suicide if I leave him. I haven’t told him yet that I don’t want to continue the relationship with him. It's very boring. I also know that he will not leave me easily. Request appropriate guidance.

A young woman (Mumbai)

* You must have encouraged that boy. It is possible that your ego is nourished because of his interest in you. How can he be your friend if you don't encourage him to move on? Well, calmly explain to him that you are fed up with the excesses of his love and now you have no interest in furthering this relationship. This needs to be made clear to him. He will be a little shocked at first. But later everything will be fine. Even so, owning one is still beyond the reach of the average person.

I am a 9 year old unmarried girl. I have a Rakhi brother. We both get better. I love this brother of mine very much. Many of which are unseen. But his behavior has changed a lot over the last few months. He ignores me and takes more interest in the other. I know I've become overwhelmed with it. But I can’t stop myself. I don't want to lose my brother. Please tell me what to do.

Ek Yuvati (Surat)

* I think you yourself are not clear in your feelings. Is there no other boy in your life? Your over-indulgence in it is likely to take it away from you. The exaggeration of the fact that everything is beautiful is not good. The sibling relationship is no exception. He also has his own life. He also needs some personal time for himself. You need to find a partner for yourself and live your life.

I am 18 years old. I'm interested in a boy three years older than me. We are not friends. But once he spoke to me. He then greeted me on the day of my birthday. Sometimes he laughs at me, sometimes he ignores me. I am not clear about his feelings towards me. Please explain what I do.

A young woman (Mehsana)

* In fact, you should have known a little bit about the boy's behavior and his feelings. You should try to talk to him more. You will be introduced more. Then you will know the feelings. Get to know him through a common friend. Don't be discouraged if he is not interested in you. You have had it all your life and this is not the only man in the world.

I am 6 years old. Our family is modern. My older sister's family is also modern. I talk to my brother-in-law very openly. I just got married. My husband is a bit old-fashioned. He doesn't like me talking to my brother-in-law freely. A few days ago when we were eating my brother-in-law hit his leg with my leg and asked an ‘adult’ jack to take care of my husband. My husband did not like this he advised me to keep distance from my brother-in-law. I'm afraid my brother-in-law's feelings will run out. Please tell, whats the story of them big puppys .....

A young woman (Mumbai)

* After marriage you need to maintain some limits. Humorous relationship between brother-in-law and sister-in-law is accepted in our society. But it is only right that this relationship remain within limits. It didn't matter until you were single but now you have to think about your in-laws especially your husband. Your behavior with your brother-in-law will now be seen differently. And you care about your brother-in-law's feelings but you don't care about your husband's feelings. The way your brother-in-law treats you does not reflect modernity and your husband's opposition does not consume him in antiquity. Now you need to keep some distance with your brother-in-law.

- Nayana