Why doubt a spouse without a reason?

- Vedana-Samvedana- Mrigesh Vaishnav

- Childhood friend, college lover and Nisha, who has been married to Nilay for seven years, knows that there has never been a girl in Nilaya's life. However, he often suspects that Nilay is having an affair with a girl, isn't it? Read the interesting story of Nishani's skeptical journey.

- Many young men and women are victims of relationship OCD. Can come out of this. This needs to be accepted as a disease, not a nature

What's the problem with "over-thinking"? She often thinks that her husband Nilay is having an affair with a girl, isn't he?

Nisha was sure that her husband Nilay was completely loyal to her. Because Nisha and Nilay's friendship was from childhood. In college it turned into a love affair. After seven years of premarital romance, they have been married for seven years and have a five-year-old son. Nisha also knows that Nilay has never talked to any girl other than her, so where does the talk of friendship or relationship come from?

Yet Nisha often had the idea that the ventricle stays out of the house most of the day. Who knows how many people will meet. What would he be doing there? Wouldn't it be nice to hang out with someone outside the ventricle?

When Nilay came home at night to settle her suspicions, Nisha would check her pockets, check her mobile phone, incoming outgoing calls, WhatsApp messages, Facebook, Insta Likes, comments, emails. Nisha had all the passwords of Nilay. The eagle could watch every movement of the ventricle. After examining everything in the ventricle, Nisha's anxiety and suspicion disappear when she finds no evidence. She is convinced that Nilay is not dizzy with anyone, so 'My..Baby, my baby ... I .. Love-You. You're mine only ... 'said Chonti

Falls.

But the signs of Nilay's loyalty to him do not last long. Again his suspicion starts that Nilay is not having an affair with anyone, right?

When the husband and wife are going out together, if Nilay's gaze falls on a beautiful woman, Nisha immediately asks, 'Do you already know each other? Where have you both met before? ' The ventricle does not rub, so Nisha immediately asks, "Then why are you all so happy to see it?"

If Nilay goes to the office or fieldwork on the day he is well dressed and ready, Nisha suspects that he is definitely trying to impress a girl. After the bus, Patyu would repeatedly call Nilay during the day and ask, "Where are you?" What are you doing? Let me know by video calling who is with whom. '' Nilay shows the details of video calling location, who is with whom etc. Then Nisha needs some relief for a while but then again the question of a hundred manas comes up that "Nilayan must be having an affair with some girl somewhere, isn't it?"

Who knows why Nisha feels that Nilay gives her less time. In fact the ventricle arrives at six o'clock in the evening and is only with Sat-Sun. Nilay is the sales manager of the company so he also has to do village touring outside. Yet the ventricle gives the mark enough time. Even Nisha has a complaint. If both of them are sitting in the drawing room and someone's phone or message comes, then Nisha will feel as if Nilay is having an affair with someone outside in her presence. After the bus, he checks Nilay's phone and a fight starts between the two. Sometimes the whole day of the holiday is spent fighting.

Nature explains the mark by keeping it calm until it becomes ventricular. Also resolves his every doubt. Nilay's words are also considered intoxicating. He also says that he suspects Nahak. He does not know why this is happening.

Gradually the ventricle gets tired of the sign movements. He is ready to tear his chest if possible and show that he has intoxication and only intoxication in his heart. He doesn't mind giving any kind of fire test. But there must be some limit to this. How long will he give the fire test?

When Nisha's troubled ventricle brings her for therapy, listening to both of them clearly explains to them that Nisha is not crazy. He has full faith in Nehal. Even though Nisha has suspicious thoughts on Nehal, it is a reason for over-thinking. Symptoms "Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder" is caused by a defect in a chemical in the brain called a neurotransmitter, which gives rise to suspicion even when one is sure of one's partner's loyalty. Such thoughts can be overcome with some medications and supportive psychotherapy.

There are many other causes of suspicion of one's spouse, including 'paranoid gels', 'paranoid personality disorder', depression or paranoia or paranoid schizophrenia.

ROCD in the craze of relationships. This means that many young men and women are victims of relationship OCD. Can come out of this. This needs to be accepted as a disease, not a nature.

Nisha and Nilay live like Maid for Each Other today.

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Trust is the breath of relationships.