Husband pissed between mother and wife

Marriage is a sweet bond, but with this sweet bond there are many rights, duties, tastes, preferences, connected. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. One has to give up one's desires. Satisfaction and happiness have to be given to every member of the household, but most of the time you get the title of irresponsible despite doing everything according to everyone's wishes.

The purpose of the mother-in-law is to make mistakes in the work of the daughter-in-law step by step, to make excuses, to claim that she is more experienced, to show the wife to be ignorant in everything. He supports his son to strengthen this.

This happens almost every day with Radhika. Radhika's mother-in-law used to beat her in the conversation saying that she did not care about herself and Rajesh at all. Telling his daughter-in-law about the son, he used to eat everything. Now you don't even give him a proper meal. Before, his room, his clothes were all clean, but now Joan is ruined. You don't even care about it. Why did you make this vegetable? Rajesh doesn't even eat it.

Radhika was almost used to hearing all this. From morning till evening she was busy with her housework. Yet her mother-in-law's complaints did not go unnoticed.

Radhika couldn't understand why she didn't take care of Rajesh's need in the end. Rajesh is her husband, is the enemy a little?

Rajesh had no complaints from Radhika that she was not taking care of him, but he did not know why his mother-in-law was pampering Rajesh unnecessarily and excessively. If Radhika was following her mother-in-law's instructions, Rajesh would get angry that I would take whatever I liked. I am not a suckling baby. In this way, the mother-in-law showed bitter love for her son and created bitterness in the relationship between Rajesh and Radhika.

Why does mother love her son so much after marriage? After marriage, when all the responsibilities become the responsibility of the bride, the mother-in-law makes a mistake in her work and it becomes very easy for her to be irresponsible.

If the mother is irresponsible towards her son's work before marriage, no one pays attention or considers it important, but after marriage, she has no obligation towards her son's work, so she showers more love on her son. Sometimes this pampering is so much that sometimes the son-in-law becomes the cause of a big quarrel.

How appropriate the accusation

No mother-in-law thinks about how much she cares for her husband. Meanwhile, the needs of all the members of the household have to be taken care of alone. So how can the accusation of not paying attention to the son on the bride be considered justified? The mother-in-law shows superficial love for her son and the bride who really loves her husband i.e. mother-in-law's son. His every happiness takes care of sorrow. So it is easy to decide whether a son is a pamper or a wife.

Every mother-in-law should think that the relationship between husband and wife should not interfere after the marriage of the son. Husbands and wives love each other. The son now has more rights than his own. She is his son's happy partner. That is why she loves her husband more. Taking care of each other remains a responsibility. Don't interfere. There should be no objection or opposition if the husband serves the wife during his wife's illness.

When Mehul made tea because his wife Madhavi was not feeling well, Madhavi's mother-in-law got angry that my son spends all day in your care. In fact, you should take care of it.

Hearing these words of mother-in-law, Madhavi kept kneeling inside. What's wrong with a wife taking care of her husband, family, home all day long when she gets sick and the husband takes care of her?

Obstacle to mutual love

The mother of the son does not want to miss an opportunity when she cannot show her affection for the son and make the wife irresponsible and careless towards the husband. By doing so, the mother cannot create such a place in her son's haiya, but it remains an obstacle between the son's love. And creates bitterness in their sweet relationship. Learning to consider her mother-in-law as her mother, Vahu sets foot in her father-in-law's house.

Seeing the useless pampering towards the mother-in-law's son, his mind is filled with bitterness towards the mother-in-law. That is why after the marriage of a son, any mother should give the bride ample opportunity to express her love by giving her the freedom to fulfill her responsibilities towards her husband.

However, even after marriage, the only reason behind this pampering quarrel is that after marriage, the mother cannot bear to see how the son she has raised for so many years can suddenly become someone else after such a long time. Such mothers should remember their past days when she too became someone's wife, how much she loved her husband and how much the mother-in-law loved and pampered her son.

So after marriage let your own darling grow up. Let her feel that she is no longer just a son but a husband. Make him self-reliant and give him a chance to grow under his wife's love.

- Nayana