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- I'm 19 years old. I like a young man. He likes me too. We meet each other. We have to get married. This young man is good in nature and moving. And belongs to our caste. Request appropriate guidance.

I am 18 years old. I am studying in college. I am a daughter of one of my parents. My parents are good. But my mom is a little strict. I like a young man. He likes me too. We meet each other. We have to get married. This young man is good in nature and moving. And belongs to our caste. Request appropriate guidance.

A young woman (Ahmedabad)

Now pay attention to all this confusion put aside. This is the age to learn, not to love. Decisions made in ignorance at this age lead to future repentance. Just be friendly right now. Let this young man have a good career and stand on his own two feet. In this age of inflation, both husband and wife have to earn. So consider marriage only after both of you have made the right career. Then talk to your mom and dad if you think you are both right for each other. This young man belongs to your caste and will allow you to get married if your parents think the house and the groom are suitable.

I am 18 years old. So I am only interested in girls but I had sex with a male friend by pushing him. Going forward I started to like this relationship. Now that I'm in love with him, he's gone away from me. Now I don't like it without it. Request appropriate advice.

A young man (Rajkot)

If you have said that you are only interested in girls then forget about this friend and his relationship and take interest in girls. You are still very young. So don't forget this nightmare. Avoid building such relationships in the future. Don't be ashamed to seek the advice of a good psychiatrist or sexologist if this friend cannot be forgotten and interest in homosexuality arises despite your best efforts. They will be able to solve your problem.

I am a 9 year old girl. It's been nine months since I got married. My husband used a condom as I was menstruating on the first day of the wedding. After a month and four days I took a menstrual pill and after four or five days I started menstruating. The doctor has asked my husband for a blood test but he is not ready. We want children soon. Can having sex every day be a problem? I get watery after intercourse and also secrete white fluid during the day. Is this likely to cause any serious problem? Give proper guidance.

A young woman (Mumbai)

If you use a jelly or greasy substance during intercourse, the sperm is likely to slow down or become immobile. Even so, having sex during menstruation does not make it possible for the fetus to conceive. A good time is when the egg comes out of the ovary. Now with the help of sonography it is possible to know the time when the egg was released. For this you need the help of a good gynecologist. Normally, it is time for the egg to hatch a week after menstruation. That is, a woman stays in the same position for half an hour, bringing her knees close to her chest after having intercourse alternately in the second and third weeks, except one week after menstruation.

It is normal for a lot of semen to come out of the vagina after intercourse so there is no need to be afraid of water coming out after intercourse. But consult a doctor about fluid leakage. Explain to your husband to take a blood test. There is no need to be ashamed. And if you want, no one will know this except you two. The fetus is not in our hands. We have to make efforts to leave the rest to God. Some people get pregnant many years after marriage. Don't panic when you consult a good gynecologist.

- Nayana

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