Women who shed crocodile tears lose respect


- Don't cry forever

- Most of the women we call 'Triyacharitra' are just playing the role of crying. This kind of dramatic crying also brings a lot of stigma to women. Often women make a mistake on their own and then when they see no way out, they start crying and want to put all the blame on others.

Jane Fonda is a famous Hollywood actress. He has won two Oscars for his live performances. Once Jane Fonda went to a restaurant. There he ordered a favorite dish. But that thing was missing at the time.

The waiter came and told her, "Edish is gone, you choose something else." Tears welled up in Jane's eyes. She burst into tears. The poor waiter panicked and ran to the manager. When the manager found out that a famous actress' favorite dish had run out and she was crying, he immediately ran to the cook. Urged him to make that dish immediately. Soon Jane Fonda had her favorite dish.

Jane Fonda said that crying was just a play. She also showed that when her wish was not fulfilled, she would start crying and would cry until the wish was fulfilled.

Many women, like Jane Fonda, use tears as a weapon to make their wishes come true. However, despite knowing that crying is a drama, people fall prey to their drama. Sometimes they laugh when they see this play, but sometimes such a play proves to be dangerous. When Bharat's mother Kaikeyi pretended to cry, Dasharatha agreed to persuade her. After receiving a promise from the king, Kaikeyi asked for two blessings, one of which was Rama's exile for fourteen years and the other was Bharat's accession to the throne, even if we consider it a myth. But how lethally women can experiment with their own tears. This is an exact example.

Crying is a natural process. Anger, fear, frustration, panic, sorrow, pain, disease or joy, tears come automatically. Tears are also a natural gift and a means of expressing joy and sorrow. Whether it is the occasion of daughter's departure or physical pain, tears come spontaneously on such an occasion. Not only women but also men cry on such occasions.

Most of the women in what we call 'Triacharitra' are just playing the role of crying. This kind of dramatic crying also brings a lot of stigma to women. Often women make a mistake on their own and then when they see no way out, they start crying and want to put all the blame on others. Sushmita did just that.

Sushmita was in love with Suresh but the family arranged her marriage to Naresh. Even after marriage, Sushmita used to meet Suresh. One day Suresh went to Sushmita's house to meet her. There was no one at Sushmita's house that day. The two stayed together for a very long time. During this time Naresh came there. Sushmita saw him coming from the balcony.

He sent Suresh out of the house as soon as possible, but Naresh saw him. Now seeing herself trapped, Sushmita started crying. When Suresh came to him, he cried and said, "Who knows why a thug broke into a house here and harassed me. It's good that you came. "

Naresh got very angry. Caught Suresh. Then there was a quarrel between the two. The talk escalated. Suresh hit Naresh in such a way that one of the bones of his leg was broken and his leg became useless forever.

Then Naresh also found out that there was a very old relationship between Sushmita and Suresh and that day Sushmita only did drama. He hated Sushmita in his mind, as he had to become disabled as a result of his drama.

Many women have a habit of shedding tears in small talk. She often cries in such a way that it is difficult to silence her. Even men get beaten up by their acting of crying.

Shakuntala is very stubborn and irritable. Her husband was always busy with his own work. And Shakuntala always complained to her husband that he was not taken anywhere. Not paying the slightest attention to it. One day when she was alone in the house with her husband, she started complaining against him. When her husband did not pay attention to her complaints, she started crying. That's when his sister's phone rang. Just then what? He wiped away his tears and started talking on the phone with his smiling sister. The conversation between them lasted about half an hour, but after putting down the receiver, he remembered that he immediately started crying again.

Her husband was watching her in amazement. When the endurance came to an end, he said angrily, "Stop this drama of crying in front of me and laughing in front of my sister. Do you have anything to do but fight? '' Shakuntala got angry and started crying louder.

There can be many reasons for women to cry. Educated or uneducated, working women or housewives, young and old alike are all the same when it comes to crying over small things and accepting their own words.

They think that their crying will arouse sympathy for them in the minds of the people, but they do not really arouse such sympathy. Crying is a sign of weakness. Even if one can persuade oneself by crying once or twice, it is not possible to complete the work by using it as a weapon. Therefore, it is more appropriate to persuade by explaining oneself instead of crying.

- Glacier

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