It is natural for the children of parents who are fighting for loyalty to fight over the same issue in their coexistence.

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- How can a person who has spent his childhood in the midst of parental discord calmly cope with the questions of his coexistence? How does that skill come into it? Will his response come a little without touching his own tragic past ?! Naturally he would overreact in these circumstances

I only drink occasionally or on weekends, I don't have a regular habit and if you do all this taifaveda it won't work, you tell me. ' The next evening, the couple were sitting in front of each other, arguing over alcohol.

Needless to say, your wife is also sitting with us and listening to everything you say. As I was about to say this, my wife addressed me and said, 'Sir, let me tell you that I have an eleven year old daughter in my house, I will not do any kind of misconduct against her. My daughter doesn't sleep through the night. ' Fear of quarreling or for some other reason not being able to say things to each other in person, often people say things through me or me!

'One minute; One minute, hello, who are you talking about? What misconduct ?! Who doesn't sleep ?! When did that happen? !! ' The husband asked, interrupting his wife. The eyes of both of them seemed to be threatening each other and then he turned to me and said:

Nothing like this has happened to my daughter and she is closer to me than that. ' The eyes of both were found again, the wife had tears in her eyes and the husband's eyes were dry with aggression! After half a minute of silence, the husband continued: 'Her father was addicted to alcohol. Drinks every night, fights in the house, everything happens and she doesn't sleep all night, ask her if I'm lying! He is the one who told me these things, how can I know the rest? Now you can find out what Anne wants to prove by fitting this life-story here. '

"It's true, my childhood and youth were spent on drunks." The wife let out a deep sigh.

'Have you heard the saying PA by blowing buttermilk ?!' I asked the husband. He nodded and I continued, 'Your wife's condition is the same. How can a person who has spent his childhood in alcohol and related questions cope with such situations calmly ?! How does he get that skill ?! Will his response come a little without touching his own tragic past ?! Naturally it will overreact. '

We were talking about two major reasons why most couples fail to find common solutions to coexistence issues. Somewhere there is no skill in various things required to solve personal questions, and somewhere there is no desire left! To a large extent, individuals learn the skills to solve personal life problems unknowingly from their parents or other close marriages.

Children deal with their marital problems in the same way that parents try to solve their own marital problems. Often the same questions arise in their lives! Surprisingly, the same attitude that parents hate as a child is adopted by individuals as adults.

The example of a well-known Bollywood lyricist seems to help in understanding this matter clearly. The lyricist left his mother and did not have a lifelong relationship with the lyricist's father who married another woman. But later in life he married his first wife to another woman! And then the son of his first wife has separated from his wife today and his relationship with another woman is also under discussion.

It is very common for a son who hates his father to see his wife being beaten by his father in the same way that he beats his wife in the same way. It is not a new thing for me to see the children of parents fighting over the same issue in their coexistence fighting the question of faith and loyalty. In short, the inability to resolve relationship issues is often inherited from parents or may be due to defects in upbringing.

Many comrades cannot express their hurt feelings to each other due to lack of trust or internal weakness and Manoman is constantly suffering. In such a mood, they are expected to have the ability to solve problems of coexistence.

This is a matter of incompetence of the things required to solve the problems of coexistence, but it does not stop there. It is a more serious and complicated matter than incompetence. Reluctance to think or do anything in relation to questions. Why don't couples want to solve their cohabitation issues ?! Talk to you soon and keep up the good content.

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