Modern Mom's Confusion

- Nowadays girls also study a lot and come forward in many activities. But we have to behave according to certain rules of our society, don't we? Many mothers will agree with the thoughts that run through my mind as a mother.

'Mommy, don't eat my head right now. This will be discussed later. Right now I'm going there with a friend of mine. Then going to meet a client from there. I'll land and talk to you at night. ' The hurricane seemed to leave my house. I was devastated. When will this girl get serious? When will he talk about things like marriage? Haste, hustle and bustle when you look. In my house we are Inmin and Teen. Shikha- my daughter - Sumit - my husband and I .. Surya, Sumit doesn't have time. Shikha is also in a race and I feel as if I am comfortable all over the world. Who says rich and happy people don't have worries or titles? Not proud but God has given us money with open arms. Husband's good position-Shikha does his own business by studying. Very beautiful in appearance. There is a harmony of both Mr. and Beauty. In our opinion, our pampered girl may seem to be making fun of others. Probably a factor as to why they're doing so poorly. All parents would probably think the same way.

So I am a modern mother. But I like a few antiquated ideas. Maybe the mother of a young daughter thinks the same way but to some extent I like it. Only the boy has the freedom and not the girl, the girl is not allowed to come and go at any time. I don't think so. That is why we have given Shikha so much freedom. Sumit also says nothing. The line that Shikha had to take. We have fulfilled all the hobbies and are very fond of interior decoration. So we provide all kinds of facilities to it. But on the other hand, we hope that the boy we choose will show a desire to meet once. Are we going to do something bad? But who knows, Shikha is convinced that the boy found by mom and dad will not be right. The same thing happens when you look. Someone shows us the boy and I start talking at home so Shikha starts arguing. 'Will that boy let me do the job? Will I adjust? Will her house maintain my self-esteem? I'm not used to being at home. I also want to get ahead in business. '

Now, you just tell me how to proceed with such conditions. I explain to her that daughter, gradually everything will get better. In the beginning, both sides have to compromise. It is no longer the case that the bride stays at home, cooks all day in the kitchen, takes care of the house, takes care of the elders and raises the children.

New in-laws of our age who are preparing to become or have passed away understand their son-in-law. If he is a businessman, he supports it. Gives all the concessions by keeping the mind big. But this does not mean that you have to enjoy all the freedom and miss the duty. Nowadays girls also study a lot and come forward in many activities. But according to some rules of our society, we have to act, don't we? Many mothers will agree with the thoughts that run through my mind as a mother. Boy or girl, we say that if you want to get married, do it. But first we must know. Someone outside says that if we saw your daughter with a boy, it would start to get ticklish. If I think like that, Sumit will be, and say, 'Anxious worries. One day, Shikha will die and his father-in-law will fly away. ' But when will that day come?

Leo, just a few days ago - the whole city had a New Year's party. Shikha had said this since morning. 'Mommy's going to a party tonight. The five star hotel has a dance party after dinner. ' When I got ready at night and left, I was so relaxed in my mind. Black mini dress blouse without sleeves and short skirt. I said, 'Beta scarf, the tie will look cool somewhere, or wear like a coat.' This is not to say that you should not wear this dress which shows limbs. How many instructions were given by me. Shikha got into a fight. 'Mommy, I'm not small, you worry so much. I know how to protect myself. '

Now why explain to her that you are not young then it is worrying. That doesn't mean I don't trust your daughter. But in the present times, nothing can be said or saved. Although I used to wear fashionable clothes when I was younger. How can I get rid of Shikha? Ever since I was a child, I have been wearing fashionable clothes and jewelry. I don't care if we go out wearing the current fashion clothes.

Sumit says, 'Come on, let's go to a party somewhere.' It didn't come from me right away. 'No, Baba, no.' We are not going. What if we get late early and don't get here on time?

In the end we stayed at home. Until Shikha came, I kept worrying from one room to another, from room to kitchen, from kitchen to bathroom, back to the room - watching TV. Let's go to the balcony in an hour. Standing on the balcony, there was an atmosphere of joy all around. Fireworks were exploding. Noise flowing from the lights-loudspeakers in the attic was playing English music. Sumit was fast asleep. Even slander is heavy on them. I woke up in bed screaming. When Shikha came at two o'clock in the night, my soul came alive.

At night, he was not even asked, so Shikha woke up in the morning and asked him, 'Who was at the party? Who came to drop you off Were you alone Were they all together? ' In response to all the questions, my daughter says with a smile, 'Mommy, nothing like what you expected happened. We all dined together friends. Danced all night. Then they all came in droves. You know all my friends. Those were the people. ' I was told, 'Didn't you find anyone like that? Which has settled in your mind. '

Back arguments - counter arguments .. arguments are the only arguments mom is old-fashioned - out-dated talk - I became dumbfounded by the title.

My mind is full of thoughts. Can someone tell me why there is always friction between elders and youth? This is called the generation gap that has entered our lives. Isn't this the kind of thing in our time? We didn't know if that would happen then. As God calls Kareen Sumit, our Shikha dies and goes to his father-in-law. I wish that the worries of the mothers who are growing up from all the youth will be resolved soon - Surya, now I have to find a suitable boy for Shikha.