When you don't find the man you want

- With constant effort, love, punctuality, cheerful cheerfulness and a little patience, it happens that the wife succeeds in freeing her husband.

Man is made of a mixture of virtues and vices, that is why he is called a 'man'. Otherwise he would not have been called 'god' or 'devil'? Reconciliation in marriage is possible only when it is accepted as it is. Blaming your husband for a misdemeanor, blaming him for small things, or condemning him for nothing, will only make the relationship worse.

Lata was going to meet her sister Manisha today. On the way, Lata thought that Manisha was beautiful. After marriage, her beauty will be nailed. How beautiful Manisha must have looked at the beginning of her marriage with her radiant face, new outfit and jewelry! Thus, the thinker reached Manisha's house. Manisha opened the door while ringing the doorbell, so what is this? Manisha's sad face, chaotic clothes .. Lata was shocked to see this.

While giving tea and breakfast to her older sister Lata, Manisha shed tears and expressed her grief. As Lata is her special sister, it didn't take long for her to understand Manisha's grief. Good clothes, flirting, having fun, such codes are in the mind of every young lady, but to fulfill that code you need a lot of money. Which not all have. Especially at the beginning of married life when a new home is to be established, not only .. The same happened to Manisha. Due to limited income and household responsibilities, Manisha's husband could not afford to wear clothes and move around. Thus, he was a wise, virtuous and kind-hearted husband, he loved Manisha very much, but still the incomprehensible Manisha could not appreciate it. She herself was sad and used to shout at her husband.

Rama was a very playful and naughty young lady. She had been joking all day, but her husband's attitude was just the opposite. Her eyes became weak after reading this philosophy lecture, so when she looked at Rama through the thick glass of her glasses, Rama's heart would break. "No, no, this man is not my shaman's prince ..." How can I live my whole life with such a man? He did not know where the laughter of Rama was lost in such thoughts every day, and life began to seem burdensome to him.

When Bella saw Jatin's photo, she liked Jatin's impressive personality. There were some meetings between the two. Bella liked it very much. Jatin seemed to fly the rupee with both hands. He even tipped the waiter once. Bella had decided to marry Jatin only after giving 100 rupees in the tip, but the next day after the marriage, Jatin had to go out of town for business, when Bella was shocked. Jatin's business was expanding on a large scale. Also, living in a joint family, he had to live within the limits. Jatin stayed away from Bella in the lure of earning more and more. As a result, Bella had an unfounded suspicion that Jatin was having an affair with another woman, so he stayed away from her.

Vinita's example is a little different. When she got married and came to her father-in-law, her husband Rajesh clarified his financial and family situation. He also expressed confidence that Vinita would help him with household chores and business as well. Hearing Rajesh's words, Vinita didn't like it at first, but then when she thought about it in solitude, she thought her husband's words were appropriate. The reason was that Rajesh often had to go abroad for business. So Vinita started focusing on business as well as home. Today, they are happily married.

It is important to remember that a young woman who is confronted with the truth after marriage often falls into the dust, but it is not true. As long as the shaman stays, it feels good. When it turns into reality, they seem tough to face. As a result, life becomes dull. True discernment is when there is a proper balance between right and wrong. As happened in Vinita's case, Manisha made her own life miserable due to her ignorance. Jewelry and apparel hobbies should be limited. Don't make it a goal in life. This is because the happiness that comes from it does not last long, while true love lasts a lifetime. The happiness that comes from this is unlimited. The true happiness of life can only be accompanied by a discreet husband.

Rama needed to understand that an ideal man like a prince of shamans never meets a young woman. It wasn't that Rama's husband didn't like to laugh. In fact, the subject he was teaching was dull. Yet if Rama had peeked into her distance, she would have realized how much her husband loved her. How happy he was to get the game. His weakness was that he did not know how to express his love, but with a little patience, understanding and discretion he could have explained it to him and life would have been flooded with happiness instead of sadness.

Bella needed to decide before marriage what she wanted from her husband. It is clear that a business husband cannot devote much time to his wife. Life doesn't get what you want, so you have to make compromises somewhere. Decisions made without understanding in emotion and haste are often not right. It was also not appropriate to doubt the character of the husband without any kind of evidence. Rajes had no immoral relationship with any woman, it was a matter of course, but if he had gone this way, frustrated or bored with his wife's dryness, who would have been more guilty? Spouse? Naturally, only the wife was found guilty.

This was like deliberately hitting an ax on one's own foot. It is normal for a man to have a good sense of humor, for a husband to be committed to his wife, for his wife to be prudent.

Man is made of a mixture of virtues and vices, that is why he is called a 'man'. Otherwise he would not have been called 'god' or 'devil'? Reconciliation in marriage is possible only when it is accepted as it is. Blaming your husband for a misdemeanor, blaming him for small things, or condemning him for nothing, will only make the relationship worse.

With constant effort, love, punctuality, a cheerful demeanor, and a little patience, the husband and wife will be able to break free.

Nowadays the joint family practice is declining, yet where this practice exists, the conflict has increased. Today's young generation has no parents in mind, so what to talk about in-laws? If the young women live well in the in-laws with love, then they will not live without getting the same response from the opposite party. The most important thing is communication with each other. What does it mean to keep hopes and expectations in mind without saying anything? The husband is not introverted enough to understand his wife's mind. Husbands and wives should trust each other. Only when they are convinced that they will not misinterpret each other's words will they be able to share their thoughts with each other.

Ideological differences are natural, but to fight for them is called stupidity. Assuming that not all have the same hobbies and ideas, sometimes the wife should obey her husband, sometimes she should obey herself. Appreciate each other's feelings. If you have all these qualities, you will never have to say, "What kind of dreams did I have before marriage?" None of these dreams came true .. The reality turned out differently than I thought .. I did not find the master of my mind .. "