Confusion: I ejaculate within one to one and a half minutes

- Every once in a while when I enjoy sex with my wife, I ejaculate within an average of one to one and a half minutes.

Question: I am 6 years old and my wife is 6 years old. We have been married for one year. Our problem is that we don't want a child for two years, but the elders are in a hurry for the child. He says that if a woman becomes pregnant after 20 years, there is a possibility of many problems. Is this true? Is it true that even in a man, after the age of 30, the number of sperms decreases?

One husband (Vadodara)

Answer: Your marriage has just taken place. Enjoy one or two more years. If you don't feel the need for a baby, there is no need to hurry. The decision for the baby should be made by you, not your family, and the decision should be made by both the husband and the wife together.

It is just a myth, not a fact, that after 30 years there is no child or problems arise during pregnancy. Yes, one rule is true, the sooner the better. The sooner you plan to have a baby the easier the pregnancy will be, but no one has clarified how soon.

People would not use birth control pills or condoms if they were not to have children after the age of 20. A woman can remain pregnant as long as she is menstruating (up to about 6 years of age). Just listen to the stories that the fetus does not stay at an older age or there are problems in pregnancy. That is not a 100 percent accomplished thing. Ultimately, whether you are pregnant or not depends on God's will.

It is also believed that the number of sperms in a man starts decreasing after 20 years, but this is not true. You don’t have to worry about sperm. You can have a child even at the age of 100.

Question: I am 20 years old. My wife is 6 years old. I want to have sex two or three times a week. My penis does not stimulate automatically. Stimulate by masturbating. My wife has no desire for sex. What should be done to stimulate the wife? What should be done to delay ejaculation?

A man (Vadtal)

Ans: After youth, a person often loses or stops the arousal that comes from thinking. He has to resort to touch or thought with touch. This is a normal process and does not require any treatment.

It is important to know your partner's inclinations to stimulate them. Then doing what he likes will significantly increase the excitement. Sexual arousal has nothing to do with advancing age. A little more time has to be given to the foreplay action. It is also a normal process. Often unreasonable anxiety can also interfere with arousal.

Taking medicine for premature ejaculation under the advice of your doctor five hours before intercourse will turn premature ejaculation into delayed ejaculation. Your wife's work stimulation may also be a cause of premature ejaculation. He may not be satisfied with your premature ejaculation.

Question: Every once in a while when I enjoy sex with my wife, I ejaculate within an average of one to one and a half minutes. I underwent circumcision three months ago. Do I need to know if circumcision has caused me to have premature ejaculation?

A young man (Bharuch)

Ans: When the skin of the penis is not covered, the upper part of the penis becomes slightly more sensitive. So the arousal increases and the ejaculation happens sooner.

If you look at it this way, even in people who have not had a circumcision operation, the problem of ejaculation occurs quickly, so it is wrong to assume that circumcision causes the problem of premature ejaculation. In a couple of weeks your problem will go away automatically. Your problem can be called premature ejaculation or premature ejaculation. For this, the treatment remains the same whether circumcised or not. Exercise or ointment, ointment or medicine can easily get rid of this problem. If your problem does not go away in a short time, a good sexologist should be consulted.

-Anita