Make daughters specialize in housework and cooking

- Little girls can't cook the whole house alone. So in the beginning it is used for drying clothes, washing dishes, peeling potatoes or fixing other vegetables. Then, as he grows up, he is allowed to clean the house, decorate the house, and so on.

My neighbor Smithaben came there with a sigh of relief. Since we were new to the society just a few days ago, I had no experience in the neighborhood. Just got a little close with Smithaben. I sat Smithaben on the sofa and asked what happened? He said that his Kakaji has passed away in Ahmedabad and the days when he is going to Ahmedabad are the only exams for his daughter Nidhi. Nidhi Smita's only seventeen year old daughter who is studying in 12th standard I said that Nidhi has grown up now. Don't take care of his studies he will handle. I was shocked to hear what Smithaben said. He said Nidhi is smart in teaching so he doesn't need anyone. But Nidhi doesn't know how to cook in the same way. He never even made a cup of tea. I was shocked to hear this. It is unbelievable. A seventeen year old girl doesn't even know how to make a cup of tea. However I reassured Smitaben and told her not to worry about the fund. I am responsible for his food and drink. It will stay there for me.

But you don't think this is a fundraiser. How many such funds are around us. A few days ago I went to meet one of our relatives and stood on the threshold watching the scene of his house. My cousin suddenly felt dizzy so she slept on the bed. His fifteen-year-old daughter was talking to friends around her. And the cooking utensils in the kitchen, the cooking utensils, the improved vegetables were all scattered.

My relatives stood up as soon as they saw me. He told me he was dizzy from cooking so he turned off the gas and went to sleep.

Many mothers are afraid to send their daughters to the kitchen. They argue that something hot will fall on them and they will burn their mouths and hands and feet? How to marry them? When some mothers say that doing dirty clothes will make their hands rough and even then they have to go to their father-in-law and do everything, then let them have fun now.

For some educated mothers, their daughter's book study is important, not counting. They constantly say that housework should not be done until the girl is studying. This is what you have to do after studying. And this is how girls get over it. Even if there is a guest in the house to cook more, instead of helping the mother, they sit with the book lying horizontally in their hands.

Nowadays, it has become a fashion for teenagers not to work at home or in the kitchen. And he is proud to say that he has no interest in housework. He thinks that fashion, clothes, party, picture, picnic, hanging out with friends, playing cards, reading etc. are more important than housework and sometimes his reputation in front of his friends will be lessened.

If they are asked to do housework, they will argue that my nails will break or the nail polish I just applied will come off. Alas, many girls don't even show enough humanity to make excuses. He says arrogantly, "Mommy, I told you I don't like doing housework, so why do you keep asking?"

However now such scenes are mostly created. Just a few days ago my aunt came to me. At that time my daughter was Sonia Bhakri Navati. Then they flared up at me. 'Aren't you ashamed?

Although this has been a bitter experience for my aunt, her daughter Nimi poured oil on herself while she was frying. By the grace of God, his mouth has been saved. His abdomen and thighs were burnt. Since then they don’t let the girls go to the kitchen.

But they forget that such events are rare. And it can happen to anyone in the kitchen. So don’t skip cooking for it but need to be a little more careful.

Little girls, however, cannot cook the whole house alone. So in the beginning it is used for drying clothes, washing dishes, peeling potatoes or fixing other vegetables. Then, as he grows up, he is allowed to clean the house, decorate the house, and so on. We should not forget that the daughter is called Paki Deposit. He will not be kept at home by any father. He must be prepared to be sent home by the park because no matter how modern the times may be, everyone expects something from the bride as well. And if the father-in-law doesn't know anything about going, the in-laws will only listen to our daughter. Along with household chores, teach the daughter various activities like embroidery, flower making, decoration. In the beginning of learning all this, other members of the family and the daughter may not like herself but the mother must learn it by hardening her mind and attitude. Because this is a question of a bright future for the daughter.

In our Indian society (whatever the religion) when the girl's parents are looking for a son-in-law, the boy's parents must ask questions about the girl's education, skills and art. And this is the question of the lives of two people, so there is no question of lying.

When the daughter turns 18, her mother thinks that in a few days I will teach her how to cook and do other household chores. Because cooking and housework are not so easy that it can be considered as a question and answer. It takes years of experience to become an expert.

And if the marriage of such a daughter is decided quickly and he does not have time to learn anything, then he goes to his father-in-law without learning anything. And what happens to the daughter when the in-laws find out the fact? And in the end all the blame falls on the mother.

You are as beautiful, educated and clever as you like, but if you don't know how to do housework and cook well, all your skills are in vain.

Suppose your marriage takes place in a middle class family. In today's world of inflation, it is difficult to reconcile the two ends of a middle-class family where one cannot even dream of luxury. Even a full day's work cannot be afforded in this house. Alas, often even the retail workers cannot afford it. Imagine for a second you were transposed into the karmic driven world of Earl.

Many young people stay away from home for work. Tired of eating hotel and tiffin boxes every day and thirsty for home meals. What happens if a girl who doesn't know how to cook gets married to such a young man?

I have a wife whose husband loves to eat and feed while my friend is tired of cooking. She was born into a wealthy family and grew up in Ladkod and never went to the kitchen before marriage. He spent most of his time reading books at parties, clubs, picnics.

Her marriage is to an Army officer. The cook she hired also left in eight days. Eventually she had to order cooking from the hotel, but every morning or evening the hotel runs a bit so she finally learned to cook by staying in her peer month day. Cooking is an art. If you know this art, the presence or absence of a chef does not have much effect. In-laws can also be made happy by making new dishes. After all, every girl should remember the saying - the way to reach any man's heart goes through his stomach. Apart from this, it does not matter to a young woman who is proficient in housework if sometimes a servant does not come to the house or the servant leaves and this remains an additional quality of her in-laws.