Radical Forgiveness Clinics in America

- Your present is forever tainted with bitter memories of the past. Whether you forgive the offender or not, forgiving him will free you from that painful past forever. '

Close your eyes and remember the person who bothered you the most. This person's crime will be small or big. But it has left a deep impression on your mind.

This person may be someone close to you. Maybe your parents did you injustice.

Maybe your husband betrayed you. Maybe your children are leaving you.

Maybe your siblings have Ebola with you. You may even feel angry at yourself.

Bring all this anger that has fallen inside you to the surface. Your heart rate will increase, your face will turn red.

How would you feel if a miracle happened and this inner anger melted away in an instant? How do you become lighthearted?

An American author named Colin Tipping has written a book called 'Radical Forgiveness'. Hundreds of 'Radical Forgiveness' clinics have opened in the United States based on this book.

These clinics run a six-week course of Radical Forgiveness. Participants in this course learn to live in the present, free from all the burdens of the past.

Proponents of the Radical Forgiveness Theory say, 'By not forgiving your offender, you remain a prisoner of your past. These old complaints of yours become an obstacle in moving your life forward.

When you do not forgive someone, your self-control falls into the hands of the person who committed the crime.

The feeling of being like that, punishing the culprit and exposing him constantly grows in your heart and you become a slave to this feeling.

Your present is forever haunted by these bitter memories of the past. Whether you forgive the offender or not, forgiving him will free you from that painful past forever. '

Well-known thinker Norman Cousins ​​has said that it takes a great deal of courage to forgive someone. We know this accurately from the life of Lord Mahavira.

It takes more courage to forgive someone than to punish them for attacking us to take our lives.

When we get angry at someone and store that anger in our mind, we are in fact punishing not that person but ourselves.

Our anger does not hurt that person, but it hurts us day and night.

This anger also hurts our mind and body.

As much as psychopathy is seen today, it is rooted in resentment. The moment we are free from this anger we heal ourselves.

Because of this there is a kind of sanjivani of forgiveness, the touch of which heals us.

Enmity with any person is good for us. As long as we have hatred towards that person in our mind, we are subdued in this imprisonment.

The moment we forgive that person, the moment we are released from prison. In this way forgiveness has creative power.

We are constantly plagued by the fear of retaliation from the person who committed the crime. Because of this we are constantly suffering from unknown fears.

There is a history of such vengeance behind the diseases that cause depression nowadays.

The only cure for getting rid of this anger and fear is forgiveness. Asking forgiveness for what we have done makes us fearless.

Forgiving the one who has offended us frees us from resentment.

Forgiveness has been made extremely intuitive in Jainism. Because of this, the young and the old do not hesitate to apologize and forgive.

Forgiveness requires tremendous self-confidence. Who have faith in themselves. Only they can apologize and forgive.

Jainism is the only religion in the world that celebrates the Feast of Forgiveness.

In Jainism, 'Michcha Mi Dukkad' is considered to be the great mantra.

No people in the world can forgive as intuitively as true Jains can forgive.

Forgiveness not only leads to salvation, but it also leads to pure and clean intellect.