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- I'm 20 years old. Recently, a married family friend of ours, who is 70 years old, proposed to me. We also have a physical relationship.

I am 21 years old. I have a habit of masturbating. I want a girlfriend. But no one is interested in me. I feel very lonely and depressed. Please help me.

A young man (Anand)

It is surprising to know that you do not have a girlfriend at this age. Is there any fear behind this? Or is your nature shy? It is important to know the reason behind keeping yourself away from women first. I can understand your loneliness as well as depression. But you need to take an interest in life. Engage in activities such as sports, drama group. Keep up the good content. Because of this the mind will turn to other thoughts and remain active. Also, if there are women in this group, your hesitation will gradually go away. And you will also be able to make female friends. If there is any feeling of inferiority in the mind, remove it.

I am 17 years old. I have nightmares. I have had this problem for the last one year. I used to masturbate. But for the last two years I have stopped this. What should be done to get rid of the problem of nightmares?

A young man (Mahemdabad)

Nightmares are not a disease. You did not have nightmares while masturbating. Now stopping masturbation causes you to ejaculate in your sleep. There is no cure for this.

I am 20 years old. Recently a married family friend of ours, who is in his 60s, proposed to me. We meet each other and we also have a physical relationship. After much thought I decided to break up this relationship. But they are not ready to let me go because I have a problem at home and in the office. Even in these circumstances the relationship is bound when we meet. Advise me what to do. How long will this last?

A young woman (Gujarat)

Your friend will be very good, but the fact is that they are married and have their own world. He is also very old. They are only interested in using you. This relationship has no future. They are using you and playing with your emotions to make their life a little more colorful as well as to nurture the ego of being able to attract a girl half their age yet. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. Leave this man and start making friends with young people your age. It's still not too late. Correct the misunderstanding of the morning since space.

I am 17 years old. I am in love with my special friend's 14 year old sister. My friend doesn't know this. I am afraid of losing his friendship if I tell him about our love. I am hesitant to choose between love and friendship. Request appropriate guidance.

A young man (Valsad)

You are free to choose one of the two options. You are too young to take love seriously. You still have a lot to gain before you get married. Consider making a good career first. Only if you earn well can you support your family. At this age, it can be a mistake to think of the attractions of Mugdha as love, so focus on learning instead of getting stuck in this dilemma right now and name your relationship as friendship without naming it love. Time will tell.

I am 6 years old. I was married to my niece three years ago. My sister-in-law treats my mom very badly. And coming into the pier makes a false complaint about my pier. My mother-in-law also harassed me to avenge this. Not only that, but my husband threatens me that if his sister gets into trouble he will not let me live with Chen. All my efforts to keep the peace of the two families have failed. Don't understand what to do.

A young woman (Surat)

First you need to talk to your sister-in-law and explain to her. Explain to them that you both have the same situation in your in-laws. Would you like me to treat my parents like you do? If this happens then the peace of both the houses will be destroyed. And it will affect their marriage. The in-laws' relationship is very delicate. It doesn't take long for a little carelessness to become a mountain of mustard. You maintain a good relationship with your mother-in-law. And try to win your husband's trust. Explain to them that their sister is not being mistreated and that the applause falls with both hands. Also, sit down with the two families and discuss and clear up the misunderstanding.

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