Husband and wife must take care of each other's likes and dislikes


- The wife should irrigate the good hobbies cultivated by the husband with love

- A good wife should always appreciate her husband's hobbies and should not hate him even by mistake, otherwise life will become poison and Ronak will fly away from it before the household starts.

Mayur's engagement to Sonam was decided. Seeing the photo of Rupali Sonam, Mayur was flying in the air. Eventually, the auspicious time came when Mayur went to Sonam's house to see her for the first time with her parents and sister.

Peacock was stunned by the form of Sonam sitting in front in the dim light. Now she was seen in the photo. She looked even more beautiful. When it came to Sonam's qualities and hobbies, Mayur was happy to know that Sonam also had a passion for music. Mayur had a crazy hobby of listening to songs and music, so the idea that he would get better with his fiance Sonam made him zoom. Mayur and Sonam got married with much fanfare. Then came the priceless time of the honeymoon, but when Mayur presented a set of compact discs of selected ghazals and songs on the honeymoon, Sonam was shocked. The words came out of his mouth, "What is this?"

"This is the melodious gift of our confluence," said Mayur in a frantic tone.

"You call such useless records of ragda tension a gift? Would the gift of honeymoon have come? I thought you would give me a gold bracelet or a necklace, ”Sonam said sternly.

"But Sonam, you love music. It happened to me, you will like my gift very much. '' Mayur's words showed frustration.

"So let me make it clear to you today that I hate the rags and noises of such a..a..ee .. It was because of your crazy hobby for music that my brother said that I also have a hobby of music. Now please keep your hobby away from home, ”Sonam said in a very harsh and contemptuous tone.

Listening to Sonam's thoughts, all the excitement of Mayur's honeymoon subsided. He felt as if he had fallen from the sky to the ground. He immediately got out of the bedroom, came to the balcony and stood up, and began to suffocate. He did not understand how his life would go with Aurangzeb's sister Sonam.

Paresh was very fond of football. From school to college, he was considered the best player in football. Even after getting the job, he did not stop playing football. The company was proud of its game. From the company he had the convenience of going to play in a regular club. The company offered him paid leave to play in interstate matches.

Stunned by Paresh's impressive personality, Shweta's parents made him their son-in-law, but Shweta did not like Paresh playing football after marriage. In the early days of romance and love, football caused a rift between Shweta and Paresh.

Shweta wanted Paresh, like her normal husband, to leave the office at five o'clock and go straight home, while Paresh would go to the club for three hours and play football. Paresh often had to go out of town for several days to participate in outdoor matches, but Shweta did not like this at all. In the early days of romance and love, football caused a rift between Shweta and Paresh. Sometimes Paresh would go out of town and immediately Sweta would run to Pierre to express her protest and return home only after much persuasion.

Bored by Shweta's behavior, Paresh was in a dilemma. His life splintered in such a way that one path led to Shweta and the other to the green football field. One can easily imagine Paresh's mood in such a situation.

Here the question arises that, when a man has different hobbies according to his different nature and as a wife his whole life is bound to fall in love with that hobby, then why such quarrels?

Whether the society is patriarchal or not, the husband has a prominent place in the home, because in the end he is the head of the family. If he has a good hobby, what is wrong with it? If the wife does not take her husband's hobbies as grief, then all the troubles will come to an end.

The husband dedicates his body, mind and money to his wife, children and all the members of the family. In such a situation, even if the husband has a crazy hobby of something, his wife has the wisdom to accept it with a smile. Except in exceptional cases, everyone has a hobby and having a hobby is not a crime, so if the wife has a positive attitude towards her husband's hobby, no problem will arise.

The wife should respect her spouse's hobbies from the heart. Praise him and if possible try to adopt the hobby yourself. In the first example shown above, if you could listen to a song-ghazal to honor Sonam Mayur, then what was wrong with it? It may be that after a while the magic of music begins to affect him as well.

In the same way, if Shweta had shown even a little interest in Paresh's football match, what would have been the loss? Paresh's heart would be happy from above. While everyone was proud of Paresh's game, Shweta should be more proud of the opposite, because he was her husband. It should be kept in mind how many actresses, affluent class girls are marrying sportsmen.

A good wife should always appreciate her husband's hobbies and not hate him by mistake, otherwise life will become poison and Ronak will fly away from it before the household starts.

The best way is for the wife to try her best to embrace her husband's hobbies and to support him in his hobbies as much as possible. If the husband's hobbies are alive, then the family will be happy and prosperous.

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