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- I am 33 years old. I am in love with a married man of 32 years. We both have one child. He is not happy with his wife and I am dissatisfied with my passive husband.

I am 17 years old. My mom pampers my little brother a lot. But deprives me of his love. However my father loves me and tries to overcome the lack of motherly pampering. But they can't even tell my mom anything. Please guide me on what to do.

A young woman (Amalsad)

* This situation is found in many Indian homes. Daughters are ignored and sons are beheaded. First of all talk to your father about your fears and sorrows and find out why your mom is doing it. You also tell her that you are thirsty for her love and that this behavior of hers does not please you and makes her sad. How much you love him Let him know too. It's okay if he understands his mistake and if he doesn't understand, take your father's support and increase your confidence.

I am 6 years old. I am in love with an 8 year old married man. We both have one child. He is not happy with his wife and I am dissatisfied with my passive husband. What should be done to get out of this situation?

One sister (Gujarat)

* You should live in a society where there are no morals or rules. There is only selfishness in what you think and do. And this is detrimental. You have created your own grief and you have complicated your own life. You have betrayed your husband. Your lover has also betrayed his wife. You are both risking the future of your family and children. Therefore, before it is too late, break this relationship and live in your home world and make every decision thinking about the future of your children.

I am 6 years old. I have two daughters. My hands have been shaking for the last few days. As well as sweating in the palm. Request appropriate advice.

One sister (Mumbai)

* It is possible that you have a thyroid problem. This problem is seen in women between the ages of 30 and 40. The patient suffers from sweating, insomnia, loss of appetite and weight loss. So you need to consult your doctor without wasting time. Who will diagnose and treat you through some tests. A doctor's advice is essential in this matter and I cannot advise you.

I am 20 years old. I have been married for seven years. I have had three miscarriages so far. What could be the reason for this? I'm very worried. Request appropriate advice.

One sister (Nadiad)

* There is wisdom in letting the doctor do his work in this matter. You need to consult a good gynecologist. Hormonal imbalances may be responsible for this. A patient with ovarian polycystic ovary syndrome also has this problem. So my advice is to consult a doctor to solve your problem. The doctor will remove your problem with the right test and the right treatment so that you will have the good fortune to become a mother.

My daughter has been married for eight years. He lives in a joint family. He also has two children. They live happily ever after. But for some time now I have seen sadness on my daughter's face. I don't see the happiness on his face like before. I'm very worried. Give the right advice.

One sister (Ahmedabad)

* It is possible that many factors such as the burden of the household, the upbringing of children, the harmony in the joint family, the anxiety of the husband's work may play a part behind his sadness. As well as fatigue as well as anemia can also work behind this. Talk to your daughter before making any decisions. Parents often have such doubts because of their love for their daughter. So this is not your suspicion. Be clear about that. Let him live his way and find a way out of the problem on his own.

-Nayana