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- I am married for 32 years and have two children. I have an affair with a 19-year-old girl who lives in my house as a tenant.

Question: I have a B.Com. Have studied till, but do not want to study further. I am interested in becoming a policeman or a telephone operator. No information about it. What do I do?

A young woman (Ahmedabad)

Ans: Nowadays after graduation various vocational one year diploma course or six month certificate course can be done from different colleges. For this you can get detailed information by contacting Vocational Guidance Center, Navrangpura, Ahmedabad. To be recruited in the police department, keep an eye on the advertisements in the newspapers from time to time and apply for a place that suits you.

Question: I am 6 years old. I didn't like the young man I was engaged to a while ago, but I got engaged under pressure from my parents. I went for a walk with her, but I broke up with her because I didn't like her nature and behavior. I don't want to marry anyone else anymore, because I'm ashamed. It just feels like people look at me with suspicion. What do I do?

A young woman (Vadodara)

Ans: Do not be discouraged by breaking up or breaking up an engagement for any reason. Forced marriages can cause conflict in a marriage. You didn't like that young man, there must be a certain reason for that too. There is no need to worry. In this society, as many words as there are mouths. There is no need to be afraid. When you find the right character in the future, get married and start a happy marriage.

Question: I am married for 3 years and father of two children. I have an affair with a 19-year-old girl who lives in my house as a tenant. She is in love with another man and is going to marry him in a year or so. What will happen to me if I get married? My relationship with her has led to quarrels with my wife. What do I do?

One father (Mumbai)

Answer: You have divorced that young lady and live happily in your household. If you know that he will leave you after he gets married, then why not stay away already? Moreover, such immoral relationships do not last long.

Question: I am 20 years old B.Com. I am a student of I am the eldest of my siblings at home. No one has ever said two words of praise to me despite being superior to them in every way, but when any work goes wrong, I am held accountable even though it is not my fault. To this day I do not understand the reason for such a neglected attitude of my family members.

My other problem is that I love a young man who is 21 years old. I also like his family. They don't mind if we both get married, but my family doesn't like my boyfriend at all. They are looking for a high class boy for me. I don't have the courage to oppose my family, nor do I want to hurt my lover. Give proper guidance?

A young lady (Bharuch)

Answer: Talking about your first problem, you have created this problem by hand. No parent can have prejudice against their own children. Even if they do not praise you for your good work, they will be happy in their minds.

You have to listen to reprimands for something bad going on, because they expect good work from you forever. He has no prejudice or malice in this matter.

Now in your second problem you have not stated why your lover does not like your family members. You also write that you can't oppose the family members, then try to marry the young man they have chosen. Get rid of the idea that it will hurt the heart of the lover, because whatever decision you make will hurt the mind of one of the parties.

-Nayana