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- I am 21 years old. I have been in love for the last 10 months with a 5 year old man working in Ahmedabad but he is not ready for marriage

I am 6 years old. For the last few months I have been in pain and often bleeding during sex. Please show me a solution to this problem.

One month (Vapi)

Hormone levels also decrease with age. This causes discomfort during sex. And women complain of bleeding. Certain types of creams or ointments are useful in this. You need to consult your gynecologist for detailed information about this as well as to solve the problem.

I am 21 years old. I have been in love for the last 10 months with a 6 year old man working in Ahmedabad. We keep in touch with each other by phone. He also comes to see me when the opportunity arises. But he is not ready for marriage believing that we need to be more serious in this relationship. Because of this I am in a lot of tension. I don't know what to do. Request appropriate guidance.

A young woman (Mumbai)

You are lucky to have such a sensible lover. Which is showing you the right way instead of taking advantage of you. In a way, this young man is right. The decision of marriage is very serious and its decision should be taken with heart and not mind. Even so, you are still 21 years old. So you can wait a year or two. And yet your relationship hasn't even been a year. And marriage will not be decided so soon. So let go of the tension and let your relationship get stronger and wait for the right time for this.

I am 21 years old. I want to study but my parents are in a hurry for my marriage. I am afraid that my studies will stop after marriage. My parents don't understand how to explain. Give proper guidance.

A young woman (Surat)

The importance of learning has increased a lot today. Everyone, whether male or female, needs to get on their feet. My advice is to get married only after completing your studies. At the same time marriage is necessary. You tell your mom and dad to wait a year or two for the wedding. Explain the importance of teaching them.

If they do not believe even after this, make it a condition to marry a young man who will allow you to continue your studies after marriage. Even when you meet a candidate for marriage, put your condition before him. And marry the young man and his family who don't mind you continuing to study. This will protect the wishes of both you and your parents.

I am 6 years old. My parents wanted me to marry a non-resident Indian, but I was horrified to hear that marrying such young men ruined the lives of girls. I don't know what to do.

A young woman (Valsad)

Your suspicion is not wrong. Cases of young women who have gone abroad after marrying a non-resident Indian have been heard from time to time. But not all young people are necessarily like that. Such an experience cannot be built on some such cases. But it is just as important to build a bridge before the water. Therefore, after getting sufficient information about the young man and his family from a trusted person, take the next decision.

I am newlywed. My problem is that my wife is not interested in sex. He avoids making excuses if I try. Please advise me what to do.

A young man (Navsari)

First of all you need to have a peaceful conversation with your wife and find out the reason behind her behavior. Sometimes some illusions about sex cause a kind of fear in the mind. So try to know his mind through conversation. Husbands and wives need to know each other's likes and dislikes. Try to win his trust by using persuasion. No need to worry. Over time, that is likely to change.

- Nayana