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- I'm 19 years old. I am in love with a young man of twenty four years. We have also had a physical relationship for the last one year. Now my parents have warned me to stay away from that young man.

I am 6 years old. I had a court marriage. After the initial protests, our family members also accepted our marriage proposal. But once I raised my hand in anger at my wife because of a family quarrel. She has been going to Pierre since then. I tried to convince her but she would not believe. I am afraid that her family will arrange her marriage in another place. Is it possible to get a divorce if I do not divorce? I love my wife very much. Request appropriate guidance.

One brother (Ahmedabad)

* If your marriage is registered in court, your wife will not be able to remarry without divorce. Also, without a divorce, you will not be able to remarry. But if you are separated from your wife for more than a year, it can lead to divorce. Raising a hand on a wife can also lead to divorce. If you admit your mistake, you can sue your spouse in accordance with the law.

I am 6 years old. I work for a reputable firm. Being an only child, my family feeds on my income. I also have a sister of marriageable age. I am also responsible for her marriage. For the last year and a half I have been in love with a young lady. Our caste is the same. Her family is happy for our wedding. But my family is against it. I've been in a relationship with my mom for six months now. But we both can't live without each other. Right now he has to take a special kind of medical treatment. I blame myself for this. My mom still doesn't want to give up. Please advise me what to do.

Ramesh Shah (Mumbai)

* This is very simple. You have to choose between your mom and your darling. You can't go against your family so this situation is difficult for me. And looking at your nature, I don't think you can choose one of these two, especially your sweetheart. So the answer to the question does not arise. The answer is quite clear. Your girlfriend will get better quickly and find another suitable life partner for herself. Maybe you don't want to hand it over to someone else. You are free to face family opposition to adopt a girlfriend.

My older brother is in love with a college girl. He wants to marry her. But the girl's reputation in college is not good. I explained a lot to my brother. But he does not believe. I do not understand what to do. Request appropriate guidance.

A young woman (Mumbai)

* Both are adults. They can understand their own good-naturedness. So there is nothing you can do about it. You persuaded your brother a lot not to jump into this fire but he doesn't believe. Gradually the girl will come to her senses when she is introduced to him. On the other hand, if the girl loves your brother sincerely, she can give up her habit and be loyal to your brother and start a new life. Maybe you too can be too passive for your brother. Even so, no sister seems to find any girl suitable for her brother. This is a mental problem. Given the current situation, you should keep yourself aloof from their relationship.

I am 19 years old. I am in love with a young man of twenty four years. We have also had a physical relationship for the last one year. Now my parents have warned me to stay away from that young man. I'm afraid I'm pregnant. Because I have nausea and weight gain. So what should i do Request appropriate advice.

A young woman (Vadodara)

* If you enjoy sexual pleasure without the use of contraceptives, what happens if the fetus does not survive? There is no reason to assume that the fetus is due to nausea or weight gain alone. Fetus is also associated with menstruation. Understand that the fetus is still there if the period has stopped. Try to solve this problem by trusting your parents without wasting too much time for this. It is safe to have an abortion during the first trimester of pregnancy. You took the step without thinking. This news is enough to shock your family. Your lover should also accept full responsibility. Your mom and dad might even decide to marry you. Is your boyfriend self-sufficient?

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