Change of clothes can not be so easily changed partner

In today's modern couples, love is often the first sight. Beautiful looks, cheerful dispositions and the way they communicate attract each other. When Maria and Ronnie DeSilva met four years ago at Christmas, Maria loved Ronnie's looks and work ethic. His cheerful nature made him a foreign ship engineer from a Hajj cadet. Maria married Ronnie because he was happy with the money, but today Maria is shocked by Ronnie's gorgeous appearance. He kept thinking that Ronnie was having an affair with another woman. The look on which she was fed. Today the same appearance has become his enemy. Whenever Ronnie returns home from the ship, Maria greets him with harsh questions instead of loving words. His only complaint is that Ronnie doesn't change at all.

Now he should be as serious as a married man, right? Rima and Sunil were married last year. Rima has been working in a high position in a multinational company for the last six years and she met Sunil at a business meeting. Even though they are married, Rima, who is good at office, is not good at managing the house. She has to go to the office from time to time. Today Sunil and Rima are constantly fighting. Sunil wants to marry Rima if he had a fight with his traditional parents then Rima should make some compromises to save him. But Rima understands that Sunil wants to make her a housewife by doing this. Arguments continue to grow and the loving relationship is filled with bitterness.

In fact, when a man and a woman get married, their field of work changes immediately. Boys hanging out at night, hanging out in hotels, joking around, is not her true form as a husband. This has been imprinted on our minds since childhood. Boys can change themselves very little. Mostly women are the ones who are learning to make changes in their lives. Men also have to save their families. If he does not do so, the society will not accept him. There are very few men who can say to their family members, 'Take it. This is my wife, she will be like this. If you want to accept it, accept it or break up with us. '

According to a psychiatrist, in childhood 'every child thinks about a partner in his imagination. The inspiration for this person's imagination comes from the environment around him. Her subconscious mind has a picture of her life partner. But when he grows up, his subconscious mind revolts when his life is connected with a person of a different nature than the picture. Because of this he constantly looks at his spouse's shortcomings, teases him, or tries to change him. So that it can be devised according to one's own imagination. Well known poet and lyricist Javed Akhtar says that in every relationship there is a race to gain power in the minds of the opponents. Everyone is trying to make an impact or to make their point. It's like being your own partner and it's very difficult to come and have full faith in her. ' Whether it is Indian men or some other men, everyone wants to overcome the thing that scares them. That is why he tries to mold others in his own way.

Men are not the only ones who teach women to live their own way. Today, even women have such a desire. If a woman wants to change her husband, she will unite the heavens and the earth. Sharmila is a well-educated and well-educated girl working in a senior position in a government bank. She is married to a beautiful but hardworking man. Before marriage, Sharmila did not care about appearance. She was not bothered by her husband's poor reading. Because he loved her so much. But after the marriage, Sharmila constantly teases her husband that if you increase your reading and improve your English speaking, I feel inferior to my friends. Sharmila teases her husband so much that today he is suffering from Alzheimer's disease.

The person who is influential in a marriage relationship beats the person opposite. In today's society, women are becoming more and more strong. And the competition is on for who gets ahead.

In fact, every spouse should learn to understand the desires of the Sami person. If the person you choose is very cheerful, it means that he has a habit of telling jokes in conversation, then learn to accept such a person as he is and do not try to take him down or change him. As far as possible, everyone should stop clinging to the preconceived notion of what a mate should be like. The more a husband and wife communicate with each other, the stronger their relationship will be. Relationships need relaxation. Husbands and wives also want to live their own way and spend some time together. Learn to respect their wishes. One can definitely get rid of the false stress of marriage.

- Unity