Discretion of speech.

By the grace of God, every human being in the world has been given an invaluable human body by the grace of God alone. At the same time everyone is given a tongue. It is through the tongue that a human being can embellish his life and even burn it. Many people speak in such a way that people are more inclined to listen to his voice. While some people are saying that, when people hear his voice, they break down to kill him.

Why does this happen?

The rise and fall of man is all based on the tongue, so we should think a lot before speaking. We should never say that someone's heart is hurt. That is why Tulsidasji, while giving a great sermon, said,

Tulsi Mithe Bachan Se,

Happiness yields four

Yehi basi karan mantra hai,

Taji Bachan is harsh.

If you want to be happy in this world, you should speak with humility and discretion. So as not to offend anyone. If you want to make all the people in this world happy, you should not always make harsh promises to anyone.

Sometimes it's the same thing, but in presenting it, it makes a big difference.

On a public road in Mumbai city, a blind man was sitting on the road asking for help. Many people were passing by this road. It was hoped that the blind man would get more help. He placed an empty vessel next to a simple mattress. So that people can put money in the pot for help. For help, he wrote a board and put it aside. He wrote on the board, 'I am blind. Help me

It has been sitting since morning, evening has fallen. But only a small amount was collected in the container he kept.

A man came there and read the board. He said to the blind man, "I don't think the text you have written on the board is correct. If you say yes, I will correct it." The blind man said yes. So the service-minded man changed the text of the board and put the board back in its place and left with a small amount in the vessel.

This service-minded man came back a few minutes later to see what effect his writing had. And I saw that within two hours the whole vessel was full. The amount received in two hours was five times more than the amount received from morning to evening.

So he said to the blind man, "Look, a lot of money has been collected, you will have to work."

The blind man asked the service-minded man, "What did you write that people helped me so much in two hours?"

The service-minded man said, "Brother, I have told the truth. What you wrote on the board. I wrote the same thing. I just changed my words. I wrote, "Today is a wonderful day, but I can't see it like you do. All in all, this little piece of writing has changed the effects of you and my writing."

Of course, the thing is the same, but if the way it is presented, the way it is said, the meaning also changes and changing the effect also changes the result a lot.

Therefore, experts say that successful people in the world do not do any different work, but they do it differently, so they succeed.

How should Shri Swaminarayan Bhagavan speak in verse 201 and 201 in Sarvajiv Hitavah Shikshapatri? Teaching his conscience, he said, "Never speak harsh words that hurt anyone's heart and never utter insults or swear words."

Kaga kaku let hai,

Koyal kinku det,

Sweet words

Lessons learned.

The crow does not take anything from anyone and the cuckoo does not give anything to anyone. But the cuckoo hurries the other's mind by its sweet voice. That is why we should always speak words that bring happiness and peace to the heart of others.

- Sadhu Premvatsaldasji Kumkum