Sahiyar review.

- I am 33 years old. My marriage was a happy one, but one of my acquaintances once cast doubt on my wife, saying that she had bad omens.

* I am 20 years old. They have been married for 11 years and have three children. Although I was a beautiful and well-educated young woman from the upper middle class, my husband could not impress me. Although he has a beautiful and talented personality, his temperament is so fierce that even children are afraid of him. He considers himself the best. Even in the presence of children I do not hesitate to reprimand or hit. Even children are scared. Is it possible to change their nature?

A young woman (Vadodara)

* Whatever the reason behind your husband's authoritarian nature, you have to reconcile with him. Marriage is a compromise. If both of you are stubborn, fighting for each other's ego then daily quarrels will have a worse effect on the children. They will become dull and timid.

As far as changing the nature of the husband is concerned, there will be a slight change in him with the passage of time. All you have to do right now is not to let your husband get angry or cause a situation to arise.

* I am 6 years old. My marriage was a happy one, but one of my acquaintances once cast doubt on my wife, saying that she had bad omens. He said that my wife would soon become a widow because of the scar on her body. Only an accomplished man has the remedy for this. I know this is just superstition but I can't get it out of my mind. A closer look at my wife's body revealed white lines on her thighs and shoulders. I consider it a symbol of the serpent and I am forever afraid. I have also started hating Manoman's wife. He doesn't even have sex with her. Show me a way to get rid of this superstition?

One husband (Rajkot)

* Even though we claim to be well-educated and progressive, our society still has age-old customs and superstitions. We do not oppose it for fear that it will harm us and this has created hatred towards your wife in your mind.

Get rid of this superstition in your mind. The lines you see on your wife's body are usually due to fat accumulation. It is more common, especially after childbirth. So don't consider it inauspicious.

Besides, if something bad was going to happen to you, you would have gotten some clues during all these years of your marriage. Be the same as before you become relaxed. Only when the superstition is removed from your mind will you be able to behave in this way, otherwise not only because of the so-called ominous signs of the wife, but also because of frustration and stress you will inevitably suffer mental and physical difficulties.

* I am married for 3 years. Due to poor financial situation of the family, I got married to a divorced seed. After three months of marriage, I returned to Pierre with my husband. My husband used to beat me with alcohol and beat my parents. Now my husband has stopped drinking and wants to apologize to the society and call me back, but neither I nor my parents trust him. He does not even divorce her. I do not understand what to do.

One Parineeta (Jamnagar)

* You belong to a poor family, to what extent is it reasonable to leave your husband's home and become a burden on your parents? Your parents are not going to live to save you for the rest of their lives. If your husband has given up alcohol, you should keep going. You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. Get rid of the idea of ​​divorce as it is not easy to get a divorce and it is not the solution to your problem.

- Nayana