Tahalte fir rahe hai sare ghar mein... Teri empty space ko bhar rahe hai!

- Spectrometer-Jay Vasavada

- For someone to be patient and stand with you instead of walking away after all the head-butts, is the gentlest and most delicate form of love.

Vikram Samvat was coming to an end and a news came. Robbie Coltrane, the British actor who played Rubeus Hagrid, the bearded lovable shadow 'giant' in all the Harry Potter films, has died! It seems as if a family member has been separated! That's the fun of art. How many people feel a stranger like a family member! Even the character of Hagrid seems to be loved. Robbie has done many films. A well-known name in the British and American film industry. Earnings are special.

Robbie, who passed away at the age of 72, was overweight for a long time. But in his youth he looked very handsome with a height of 6 feet. An ardent lover of Sura and Sundari. From morning to evening, starting with beer and drinking whiskey. His affairs with many actresses and models. But in 1988, that teenage student met Rona and settled down. Had two children, one son, one daughter. But got divorced in 2003. Then Robbie was cut off from social life as he slowly slipped into a cochetta (cocoon). Harry Potter movies got immense popularity and Lakshmi. Her co-stars praised her sense of humor with her child actors. But after that series, he also reduced the work. Interviews are rarely given. It is rare to see him outside the parties!

Robbie died in Scotland, where he had been living for years. There is a village with some stately old bungalows among rolling fields and hills. He hired one of them. Her landlord and member of the British Royal Family, Andrew Edmondson, is also her neighbour. They said that Robi used to stay in the house as if he was under house arrest. Never attend any meeting or function of the colony. Don't accept any request for charity even if you have money! In the previous years, as per the contract, Vintage did not even do the annual maintenance and cleaning of the house. Lived almost alone in a huge house. Certain workers come at certain times. Mostly at night he used to order food from the nearby village. Orders were delivered regularly to maintain a steady customer base in every sense. But no one could open the door for that. Leaving out!

This was going on for several years. Once out for a function of the Harry Potter films. The look was like that of a withered old man due to the blurriness beyond his age. In a wheelchair. As if he has not bathed for days. Then he also told reporters that he has a steady girlfriend. Everyone struggled a lot to know that. But it turned out that he has not only thrown himself out of life, but this may have been a thorn in the side. The rest of the traffic spying reports or the neighbors did not see! His landlord himself said that he had no business dealings with anyone! He used to live alone in the house. Despite having more than one expensive car, he does not go anywhere. Earlier he used to talk but later years he didn't even talk on the phone! As if he had cut himself off from the outside life. But it is not the same for the asceticism of any art or philosophical practice! Well, maybe he doesn't like to see his thin and thick body or show it to others, that's one reason!

In 2018, Steve Ditko, the co-creator of several Marvel characters including Spider-Man, passed away in solitude at the age of 90 in an area like Manhattan, New York. Along with Stan Lee, he also created characters that rock the world today. The story is true, along with the drawing. We still see the shapes he gave on the screen! But Stan Lee connected with everyone till the end. It appears in movies. So the new generation got to know. Steve totally detached. Until his last breath, he would make a new drawing. But not published anywhere. In the last four to five years, except for the guard of the building, hardly five people used to visit him. He looked healthy. But if called by Marvel, he would never go to their party! Since 1970, he has left public life. No interviews, no social networks. They didn't get married at all. All the property was transferred to the nephew.

Understand, this is not a story of breaking your heart and getting depressed after a break up. It is not a matter of going into anonymity due to a serious illness. This is the talk of people who are bored of living and do not have the courage or charity to commit suicide. Who lost interest in life. Colors have become black and white. Not liking to meet or talk to someone is a matter of state. Like the famous lines of Avtarsinh Sandhu 'Paash': Sab se mendara hota hai, hamare sapno ka mar jana!

This is called self-accepted prison! Such incidents are also around us. Many a times a person whose fame, influence, and influence have been seen suddenly slips into obscurity before death. Even around and nationally, globally. As if the finger came out of the water and the space is over! If there is no growing age, many stars disappear from the stage to lead a domestic life. If there is support, then run away from fame. Not because you have found any fun you like, not because you are traveling for some cool quest, but just as if you are tired of life! Which is called 'Ekalsuda' in Kathiawadi.

Some are broken by life itself. Humans change in two ways. Either their eyes open with a push or their heart breaks with a push! They somehow lose interest in life. Years ago, going to college used to get up and down in ST bus. Then you have to go to Rajkot ST bus stand to get and read regular magazines. All those standing there become friends. In it, a madman, Jaif Adami, walking around wearing mixed clothes, was introduced. The dress may look like a beggar, but the speech is that of an artist. An exciting treasure trove of Shayari and literature, the Tarve of the tongue. Our age was not to understand all the worldly affairs, but to be interested in their talk. Dominance in Gujarati and Hindi is amazing.

It was learned in the talks that he was an assistant director in Hindi films. Also wrote some songs. Looking at the situation in front of you, you may be speechless, but no matter how you look, knowledge cannot remain hidden. A collision. And we did not want to get anything from them. Gulzar wrote that he had already lived it: Chod aye hum wo galiyaan! But why? He said 'Barkhudar, it will be understood because it will be experienced. There comes a stage in life when everything you have loved and achieved seems in vain. Everything around seems plastic (fake). Humans are allergic to those things. Life does not cling to feelings. Deliberately people take up an addiction or downfall for self-destruction. Like Ghalib, Maris, Manto, Van Gogh...' Gatagam did not fall much then. But Jogi was not a spiritual follower. He just had to deliberately erase her life. There must have been a crime that the women could not bear the burden of and would have to face life imprisonment in the court of that guilt every day? Or that some angel who described Husna would have cut his wings and flown away?.... One day he stopped looking like a wandering bird, and all those things became dim in the flow of life!

In the title of the article, Baayun Saheb has not understood the statement of loneliness that has arisen, but what a mistake he has made! Some person, some thing, some dream, some gift, some joy, some skill... just something is missing from life.

And suddenly vomits and does not feel like eating, the taste goes away, then breathing. The past grows like a cloud, and the sun of the future is covered by it. Then there is space in the mind for what is not there, a single person just throws bricks in the house to fill the void. To cover the stage in the language of the drama, he keeps the house full by thinking ifs and buts, thinking that he joins on behalf of others or not! This edge often creates something that protrudes across the liver instead of a scaly vela creation. The pain that no one understands, silence comes after that realization. It gets locked on the heart. Fahmi Badayuni has such a killer share:

Main wahi shor writing rahta hoon, Jisne khamosh kar dia muz ko!

So why such gloomy things in the first article of the new year? If so, explain it. To live is not to have oxygen in the lungs and hemoglobin in the pulse. To live is to live. Sugarcane or oranges are very fun. But as long as there is fresh interest in it. If dried, the taste changes, the aroma changes and the chhotra moves. There is parole in a world-made prison. It is not available in a self-accepted prison. Many people do not see anything except death. Time is running out for them. Something is not recovered after it is broken, and what is left behind is not recovered. So people live in their own property as a prison.

If you want to prevent this, you have to look for new gold. For that, you have to whip yourself and keep running. Where there is daily cleaning, there are no mites. They have to create a thrill ride of new challenges by themselves. It is not a matter of getting bogged down by some monstrous ambition. But to live, you have to create new puzzles, new dreams. Just like making a game with the help of cards or pawns or mobiles - it can be stopped in a flash. But it's like we play for fun.

If you want to do not only Happy New Year, but also New Day, just keep this up. Learning to find and sustain life is not difficult. is easy. But if it is not, you will become a burden on someone and life on you. For Learn to Live. Small Fun. Creative Challenge. Open heart. The Curious Mind. If someone breaks the trust, it is the man's fault, not the fault of our trust. There are no classes anywhere to learn how to become a magic doll that can fall down and sit up again. Just relax and let go. There is no compromise in some matters. such as love. Everything else is very mediocre. Not this. It should be such that one feels like coming home and the mind rests every day. But until that happens, divert the energy.

As long as there is interest, the cheeks will be pink. If you lose it, you will be a drunkard. Nowadays suddenly people die of heart attack while playing. But no cardiologist will say that intense memories are also a heart disease. So you have to be active to forget the memories. We have to give ourselves new challenges. One has to rest at home and get fresh and go out, whose clothes can be taken off again at home. A great quote was Sarah Zuragi's 'The gentlest and most fragile form of love is when someone is patient with you and stands by you after all the head-butting.'

Yes, appreciate such a relationship. So you can't win in the storms that will be brought by changing the calendar, but there will be someone involved in losing! Happy new year.

Fast forward

There are two or four special things that are in short supply.

Everything else here in the world is unaccountable.

Nature knows it, what does the bulbul know,

What will be tomorrow, that is a rose today.

(sick)