Collaborative review.

- I am 22 years old. My elder sister is in love with a young man. I consider him my brother. But once he got a chance he rushed me to my house and kissed me.

I am 29 years old. I have been married for six years. Our love is marriage. I am in love with my husband but I am also attracted to another man. He loves me a lot. Our relationship didn't go beyond kisses and hugs. I am not interested in getting physical with him. Is it not right to love two men?

A Sister (Mumbai)

* It is right to love your husband and you can have other friends too. But it is not necessary to cross the line with friends. Are you sure your relationship will be limited to kisses and hugs? This is not possible. One day feelings and libido will lead you to a physical relationship. Premarital love cools down a bit as responsibilities increase after marriage, but it doesn't mean that love fades away. And you have to find another companion. My advice is to stay away from this man. You are the owner of your will. Also think about what will happen next if your husband finds out about your hugs and kisses.

I am 22 years old. My elder sister is in love with a young man. I consider him my brother. But once he got a chance he rushed me to my house and kissed me. My mom and sister trust him. When I told him this, he scolded me. And this is not ready to believe. Now my sister is going to have sex with him. Please advise what should I do.

A Girl (Mumbai)

* Why didn't you oppose his move. If you had screamed at that time, she would have been caught immediately. Well, what was meant to be was done. Now beware of it. If you want to save your sister from trouble and wrong partner, discuss this with her. Try to get this down his throat. It is ok if he believes otherwise leave him to his fate. There is nothing he can do except explain it.

I am 27 years old. I am in love with my brother's sister-in-law. But I don't know if he loves me or not. I want to marry him. However my parents are dowry greedy. They want dowry. I am against this. Please tell me what to do.

A Brother (Surat)

* You talk to that girl openly and clarify your feelings. Your siblings can also be trusted. It is good that you are against dowry. There is no need to despair if you stand on your own feet and are able to handle the responsibilities that come after marriage. Your family may need some explaining. But they will understand. Be patient. First of all, know the mind of that girl. Think further only if she loves you.

I am 18 years old. For the past few months I was not able to concentrate on my studies. I think it will affect my result. I love a young man who studies with me. He is rich while I am middle class. Sometimes he also force me to smoke cigarettes. How do I know he really loves me?

A Girl (Gujarat)

* You are too young for love. Your parents are paying so much attention to your studies. You should appreciate their spirit. And at this age one should not spoil the career by falling in love. Besides, the character of this young man is not good for me. It is not fair that he smokes at this age and forces you to do the same. And the chances of that boy being seriously in love with you are very low. You need to break up with her immediately and focus on your bright career.

- Naina