confusion

- When my fiance kisses me or moves his hands over my body, there is no sexual stimulation. Is it called sexual dullness?

Question: I am a 23 year old girl. I am getting married next month. When my fiance kisses me or moves his hands over my body, there is no sexual stimulation. He doesn't say anything, but his expression seems annoyed. I fear that he may break off the engagement or leave me if this continues after marriage. Is it called sexual dullness? Show me the solution.

A Girl (Vadodara)

Answer: There could be many other reasons for your lack of excitement.

Not liking the other person, getting engaged, not realizing how excited you are, not caring about your likes and dislikes, feeling depressed (sleepless at night, waking up early in the morning) , lack of appetite, depression, desire not awakened), before marriage you are not ready for such an action or periods are not regular, sexual arousal is affected. Detailed guidance on this can be obtained from the appropriate physician.

Question: I am a twenty five year old married man. I have been married for three years. We have a one year old child. We have not wanted another child for three years now. If I want my wife to take contraceptive pill so that she does not get pregnant, please show me how to take it.

A young man (Kalol)

Answer: There are low potency birth control pills available in the market which you can give to your wife as per the advice of a good gynaecologist. Start giving the pill to your wife when she is menstruating and give it continuously for twenty one days. Then after eight days the month will come again. At that time, the pill should be started from the first day. One thing to be aware of is that when you first start your wife on the pill, you must use abstinence for two weeks while having sex. No need to use restraint in the second cycle.

Question: I am a fifty-five year old male. I have been having discharge problem for a long time. Even before marriage, but due to good sex life, nothing was noticed. At night when I eat chillies or onions for dinner I feel very hot below while lying down and do not sleep until discharged. Now due to some reasons we are not able to enjoy intercourse. Show me the proper remedy for this.

A man (Bharuch)

Answer: Onions and chillies are hot and may increase bile. Due to this, you feel warmth in the red part of the front of the penis. There are two options for this. Either enjoy masturbating or enjoy intercourse.

Another option is to take a katishnan (bath below the waist) with cold water or pour room temperature or lukewarm water on the indriya, you will also feel relief.

Question: I am a twenty two year old unmarried youth. I started masturbating around the age of twelve. Now my penis length and thickness is very less. What should be the normal length and width of the penis to perform successfully? Does the penis fully enter the vagina during intercourse? Is masturbating from a young age not causing the natural development of the penis? guide me

A young man (Godhra)

Answer: Masturbation is a form of intercourse. It can benefit, not harm. The action that the senses perform in the vagina during intercourse is the same action performed in the fist during masturbation. According to Prakhar Vaidraj Bapalal Vaid, masturbation is a good habit, not a disease. If you ask me, I would go a step further and say that this is a safe habit in the age of AIDS.

There is no possibility that the sense of masturbation will diminish. Hands-ears-feet-sense are all lineage traditional things. Vaginal length is anatomically four inches and sexual length is six inches

- Anita