A small hope against great depression!: Vidatha also rains on the wall!

- Anavrita-Jaya Vasavada

- Every happy ending is the middle of a tragedy.

- The real meaning or purpose of life is joy. Not alone, but mutual joy.

The year 2022 was just bid adieu and when the clouds of Corona's re-entry were gathering, a piece of news flashed like silver lightning in the black aura. Birth of a miracle baby!

It is said that a couple in Britain. James Jefferson Loveday and his wife Bethany. Both lovers young. They became a romantic couple with dreams of tomorrow in their eyes. Suddenly a bomb exploded on their sweet marriage! James developed a cancer known as Hodgkin's lymphoma. Cancer occurs due to the uncontrollable increase of white cells which are considered life-saving and fight against cancer or other diseases. Soon James's chemotherapy started. James is relatively healthy, there should be a child before something untoward happens to the couple. Who knows what will happen later?

So Bethany became pregnant with a cancer-stricken husband. After a few months, his health started failing. It occurred to her that the problem might be due to pregnancy. But while doing the test, it came to know that the same Hodgkin's lymphoma cancer that happened to her husband has now happened to her! Husband wife's jeans are not the same. So such a case can be considered rare. Phadak also told Bethany that in the efforts for the child, the cancer somehow got inside James' body, so the unborn child could be sick or dead right after birth! And will it be healthy enough to give birth? Cancer drugs do not have side effects on the fetus!

The experienced doctor Salim Shafiq, who treated James, now started treating Bethany. Until recently, Sangini, who was taking care of her cancer-stricken husband by becoming a shadow, was now a cancer patient herself! Husband fights against cancer. Now the situation has come to take care of each other and while both of them are going through the pain of chemo, the worry is like a child's colic in the distance!

But it has been said that if Rama keeps it, who will taste it? After a month, Bethany gave birth to a healthy baby girl! There was no sign of any disease in the child! If it was a rare event for husband and wife to get the same cancer in a short period of time, then it can be considered the rarest of rare events for them to have a normal baby. Dr. Shafiq said that in his 25 years of practice, he has never seen or heard of such a case! The turning point in the tragedy was that the cancer treatment of both the husband and wife was completed at the time of the baby girl's birth, which was successful and now both of them are disease-free to raise the little doll in the eyes of medical science!

That's why the name Heidi has been given, the child is called 'Miracle Baby'! A small sweet package of miracles! It is as if the little fairy brought not only her own, but also mom and dad's life from the higher up for her upbringing! Normal and healthy Haidi's Kumkum Vangi parents are also fit! Suddenly, on top of the desperation, the fabric of the old hope returned. The little girl who is looking at her mother, mother and father does not know yet that she has brought such happiness in her life!

Well, so can the new year or any new beginning. Suddenly the wind turns and the current reverses. Unexpected something bad happens and also unexpected something good happens! In a way, every happy ending is the middle of a tragedy. Death is certain, so even in all happy stories, the characters who are said to have eaten, drank and reigned are going to grow old and pass away in the end. So all stories are eventually always having a tragic end!

But magic is to be done in it, that we leave some of our years or legacy before the final turn comes, that we create and give good memories, live and live something good. Even if we are not the world, then let's do something to make our relatives happy for us! Miracle Baby proves once again, that when everything seems to be falling apart, without much fanfare, taqdeer can gently turn to favor. Just, to face with a strong morale and to be a Karma Yogi and keep striving in the right direction!

After every death there is a life. After every sunset there is a sunrise. After every passing year there is a coming year. You never know, Pant Hemkhem can come out of the car completely burnt down. Angels do not descend from heaven with wings. An unknown roadways driver can save a life in an emergency by taking a bath in front of the Jamdoot.

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Its star star Pele retired from international football after Brazil crashed out of the FIFA World Cup in 1966, having previously been champions. But continued to play football at local level. In November 1969, he achieved an unprecedented and monumental feat while playing a match at the Maracana Stadium. Scored one thousandth goal. On that day, National Flag Day of Brazil. The game was stopped for 20 minutes to celebrate. All ready, the player who has proven to be world famous and has won two World Cups for Brazil will now announce his retirement. That's enough. The end.

But Pele kept saying 'Jane Kitni Udan Baqi Hai, Iss Parinde Mein Ab Bhi Jaan Baqi Hai' if it's played so well then a world cup or signature and withdrew the sannyasin! In the 1970 World Cup, Brazil's team, which today is considered the best in the history of FIFA, won the world cup by playing all the matches and scored a wonderful record of three World Cups. Today even after his death the same list is made. That's it. Sometimes the light illuminates more at dusk.

Like, Lionel Messi. A few years after birth, his family found out that the child had growth hormone deficiency. In which the physical growth of man stops prematurely after a stage. But Messi's grandmother supported his confidence and encouraged him to play better football in exchange for treatment and a better club. The energy that would have been wasted in fudging the limits given by nature, now began to be used in the desire to advance on the field and rise in career.

Name, price, love and immortal love in history got everything from it. Messi knew at a young age which direction to fight. Fighting stubbornly against things you cannot change will only lead to frustration. But instead, if you fight in things that can be changed, you can learn something special and get so high that people will forget your lowness. Skill alone is not enough to have courage. Knowing what to be brave about is a real skill.

So even though nothing has happened till the last year, I like it. There is only one way for us to forget it and for the world to forget it. Start brainstorming to make something new and memorable. The previous flop film may not be a hit with the new blockbuster, but it needs to be covered!

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Before writing this article on 31st December 2022, I watched a flopped but fantastic film 'Head Fool of Honey' on Indian Netflix which had its last day. The original was a German film of the same name in 2014, and the remake was directed by the same director. In today's modern times, parents are no longer furniture, instead of having people to keep them happy in the final stages of life, instead of taking some time out of their busy schedule, they should spend time with them in the things they like in an entertaining way.

In the film, after the death of his old wife, the grandfather, who starts to forget everything due to Alzheimer's condition and is depressed about himself, is brought along by his son-in-law, but he is tired of taking care of himself due to his career. But grandfather is very dear to the little granddaughter and she goes on a journey alone with grandfather, it is a warm and sweet story like the warm sun of a winter morning.

In it, a good doctor explains to the grandfather's mad granddaughter that, after a certain age, a person needs a purpose to live, an important purpose, which keeps him interested. So the memory and mood are also preserved. And adds: 'Thus there is no medicine for aging. But there is a cure. Joey. joy If a person is in a happy state of mind, he is often cured even without medicine. Today's weakness can be avoided tomorrow. Nothing else can be done against some disease or death. But if the time is spent in fun for us and our relatives, then the health changes and if not, then the regret is reduced, farewell.

'One day I forget everything my son, then write this and remember that you are my dearest princess!' Grandfather writing to his granddaughter with love, instead of thinking of him as a sick man, the granddaughter kept him in his heart and mom and dad also understood the daughter teaching life lessons in the film (Nick Nolte who played the role of grandfather is the ten-year-old real life daughter!) Every year comes to an end and a new one begins. We have to understand when to start.

The original purpose of life is not salvation, it may be the purpose of death. The real meaning or purpose of life is joy. Not alone, but mutual joy. That means joy that has no place for cruelty or immorality. Exploitation, cheating, hateless. When everything seems difficult, cherish the present.

Do a jalsa, do a jalsa and don't go around with a narrow mind by irritating someone who is doing a jalsa!

Happy 2023.

Xing Thing

The desire for the 'zero' peak is the end of Purushartha

Therefore, it is better to enjoy the game.

(Nil Palanpuri)