Collaborative review.

- I have enjoyed physical pleasure with a girl with her full consent. Can we prove that we had sex?

I am 20 years old. I am in love with a young man. Our parents are also willing to marry us. But I don't get our horoscopes due to Mars. Hence our family is not ready to marry us. We are having physical relationship for last two years. So will my future husband know about this relationship?

- A girl

* It is not necessary for every woman to bleed on the first night of marriage. Often the vagina breaks during sports or using a tampon, and many women are born without a hymen. Unless you tell your husband, there is little chance he will find out.

I am 43 years old. I have a seven and a half year old son. Due to financial problems, my husband lives alone and I live alone with my son. My mother tortures us. Even though we give them Rs.2 thousand every month, their behavior is not good. All the responsibility of the house is on me. We are very sad. Our married life is happy and we spend the holidays with my husband and mother. Please solve my problem.

- A sister (Ahmedabad)

* Every month you get Rs. If you give two thousand to your mother then why don't you live with your husband. Choose a husband's room from Pierre's bungalow. Such a condition is likely to occur due to prolonged stay in the pier. If you are educated, get a job. And even if you are not educated, many industries can be done sitting at home. You can generate income by serving people at home or delivering tiffin to people or sewing. In this way you can help your husband and live together by generating income in some way. You have to find a way, not the elders. Sit down with your husband and discuss this matter and create a means of income generation and settle your world even in a small room.

I am studying in 12th standard. For the last three years I am in the habit of masturbation. I tried to break this habit of mine. But I didn't get success. This is why I lost weight. Also my gender has changed. Give proper guidance.

- A young man (Vadodara)

* Your problem has nothing to do with masturbation. There is no problem in sex life because the penis is slightly left or right. This is normal. Also remove the illusion that you have lost weight due to masturbation.

I am 27 years old. I have a two and a half year old daughter. Now I want a son in my child. Does intercourse on odd number days after four days of menses lead to babo? Apart from this, if you take movement-breathing in the right nostril, does Babo come? Please give proper guidance.

- A sister (Mumbai)

* The birth of a son or a daughter is not in our hands. This matter is subject to God alone. There are many misconceptions about the birth of a son. Your illusions are also included in this. Many people have the illusion that intercourse during the first 14 days of a woman's 28-day menstrual cycle will result in a son. Also, some believe that eating sour fruits will lead to a son. But this is not a hundred percent sure thing. These are all delusional beliefs. Don't trust that. Whether it is a son or a daughter is left up to God.

I have enjoyed carnal pleasure with a girl with her full consent. Can it be proven that we had sex?

- a young man (Umareth)

* It cannot be proved that you have enjoyed intercourse. It has no symptoms or evidence. This cannot be proven unless you tell someone yourself. Your girlfriend is still a teenager. Legally you cannot get married now. Apart from this, there is also a significant difference between the two of you. Stay away from this girl now if possible. Explain to him that his age is nadan now. At this age heterosexual attraction is common. This is not love. But there is physical attraction. And don't think of committing suicide over such a trivial matter. Wait until it matures. Meanwhile, if you do not fall in love, take the decision of marriage after the consent of the elders. Sometimes rash decisions lead to regrets in the future. So both of you take the decision carefully.

- Naina