Why avoid being attacked by a rapist?

It is useless to say anything to the bus crowd. No one else is satisfied or not in the ever-increasing crowd, but for those who crave for tactile pleasure, it is simply an ocean of happiness.

One day I boarded a bus to reach home from office, when I saw that Talbhar seat was not empty. Even though the body was standing close to each other, it was not without touching the body of others. Along with the minds, everyone's faces also looked tired and worn out.

Just then, the sound of laughter was heard, and I was greatly surprised. Turning his face, there were five Lafanga boys of the same age group along with two beautiful girls between the ages of sixteen and eighteen.

They must have been watching a movie, as they were loudly discussing the obscene scenes of the movie and were having ambiguous conversations.

Intermittently the girls looked as if they did not like it all... The distaste for the invitation seemed more prominent in their protesting thoughts. I wondered how these girls could make such a tasteless joke.

At first thought that they have no other option without suffering this? Manoman made me very angry. I reprimanded the boys properly with the intention of raising my voice against the harassment of the girls, but to my surprise the girls took care of me, "Since this is our personal matter, you have no right to interfere..." I was very surprised to hear this. just gone I could not understand what psychology would be responsible for such an attitude of the younger generation! Yes, it was so clearly noticed that the courage of the boys was visibly increased by this. Then I got down from the bus when it reached my stop.

About two-and-a-half months after the above incident, when I took my Jethani to a well-known psychiatrist in the city for treatment, I suddenly saw one of the two girls there. At that time she was with her mother.

She was sitting with a completely emaciated body and a wrinkled face, so I could not easily recognize her. In a state of disarray, she looked absolutely insane. Often she muttered words like "Save... leave me, please...". When I made general enquiries, her mother said that she had been raped by three boys about a fortnight ago, since then she has been in this condition. Otherwise it was very lively and bright.

The eyes of all the people who were present there had a feeling of sympathy for the girl, but I was feeling hesitant, thinking that the girl really deserved sympathy? After seeing his behavior that day, his own complicity in this crime is not counted? Whether these rapist boys were with him or someone else, I had no idea, but one thing was certain, whether innocently or unwittingly, he had instigated the boys to commit the crime.

Thus, woman has progressed in every field, but her body structure is in such a way that despite being the most beautiful structure of nature, she has to face the situation arising from immoral physical relationship.

Rape is one of the main crimes committed against women. As a result of this crime he has to bear not only physical but also mental pain.

Thus, now the form of publicizing the incident of rape has changed, earlier the names of the rapists were kept secret, but now the social consciousness has started to wake up to punish such criminals. Earlier, a girl who had been raped had to walk with her head down even in her own family. While in today's Parivesh, such incidents have started to be mentioned against the society.

Maintain moderation

Physical intercourse is a natural motivation, but our social structure is such that extramarital affairs are not allowed. If a woman steps forward and beckons another man, she does not hesitate at all to break all bounds of limitation.

The blame is all on the woman, yet after the rape incident, all the sympathy is directed towards the woman and all the anger is directed at the man. Thus, although some sympathy is gained, the pain of rape does not diminish at all.

Don't do this

A woman who seriously wants to save herself from being a victim of rape, can save herself from her acquaintances, because she gets the sense of it. It is said that most women can tell the value of a man's eyes.

In every case the woman is to blame for the rape, not even that. However, in many cases, vigilance can prevent rape.

It often happens that women are not able to evaluate the behavior and gestures they display themselves. Few men appreciate this gesture and even express a desire to talk and spend time with such women, as this satisfies their sexual urges. On the other hand, in such circumstances, women believe that doing all this increases their importance. Let's look at an example.

Salma always kept her lips attractive by using a lot of cosmetics. When talking to men, she would press her lips under her teeth in a way that even a straightforward man would take as an open invitation.

In such circumstances, his opinion is that all men are bad, running like flies wherever they see a round. So how true to believe? Many times the men may have even manipulated her, sometimes putting unfair demands on her. There is no need to be too surprised at this, as he was used to talking to men by touching them.

Women's clothing that exposes more body parts can be considered an invitation to attract any man. Hence modesty in dress is also necessary.

A woman's body is not at all attractive to any man, so it is more important for women to keep their body a secret from men other than their husbands, lest a man who sees bare legs, a bare stomach up to the waist, or a figure peeking through a blouse can reach any extent. inspires.

Talking to any man, at a dinner party, on a trip or anywhere else, without any hesitation and with a smile can create illusions. Although laughing and talking is not bad, it is imperative to set a limit around yourself.

decent behavior

It is the duty of every sensible wife to maintain proper respect for her husband's friends, but never let anyone misunderstand that you like her husband even in his absence. When a friend comes in the absence of the husband, you can clearly tell him, "He is not at home now and will not be back for some time."

Even so, when he insists on sitting and waiting, you should be absorbed in your own work. After a while it can be avoided by presenting a reasonable excuse to go to the bank, go to the children's school, pay the electric or phone bill and if nothing else, to visit a relative.

Too much flashy makeup can also cause someone to commit a sexual crime. It is not at all inappropriate to be beautiful or to desire to be beautiful despite not being beautiful and to strive for it. The only condition is that the effort should be neat and artistic. Do not try to arouse Jugupsa.

When women insist on walking shoulder-to-shoulder with men, why the appearance of being shy? If someone talks a little bit too much, shake him off. Being silent will encourage him to move forward, then he will take a step further, but it would be better to stop him in the first place.

Sobriety is also essential at your workplace. There is no need to be too backward, nor to become totally archaic. Be civil with male colleagues.

If a male co-worker is overly interested in you, constantly complimenting you, inviting you to go out alone with him, be careful and let him know that your father, brother or husband, as well as yourself, are doing this. Doesn't look good.

It only means that women should not be considered innocent in all cases of rape. In such cases, knowingly or unknowingly, when she has induced a man to commit such a crime, the woman also has to be considered as a party to the crime.

A woman is completely innocent when the man himself commits rape under some degree of physical and some degree of mental pressure, assuming a wild form. Many a time it is known or heard that a little girl has been raped or a lone woman has been gang-raped by a few miscreants on the road... In such cases, the punishment given to the rapist is minimal.

Also beware of acquaintances

A survey found that most rapists are acquaintances and relatives. It can be brother's friend, cousin, cousin, husband's friend, etc. Rape opportunities are easily available to such acquaintances. If the woman acts with restraint in this situation, there is every possibility that the rapist will lose his courage.

However, if the danger is from someone in the household, such as dear, jeth nandoi, father-in-law, the best way is to inform the husband and stay away from him. In the meantime, do not take any interest in the work of persons who appear to be dangerous or even give reasons for separation. Thus one can defend oneself against any other reasons.

Keep personal things secret

Many men also consider the attempt to gain sympathy by singing their sorrows to others as a sign, that is, they come back to their original form by showing sympathy.

Same thing happened with Gauri. She was tired of expressing her displeasure and displeasure towards her husband. Even in the office she used to do the same in front of everyone, so the young man sitting next to her showed sympathy towards her and created an impression of her being willing. He took Gauri into full confidence, took the opportunity and raped her.

Even Gauri cannot be considered completely innocent in this incident. How did he give such a right to a man that he can consider himself as more privileged than his family?