Cohabitation is not the basis of a happy marriage

The happy future between husband and wife comes not from a horoscope, but from mutual love, coordination and trust.

Radhika's father had one daughter. Radhika, the only sister of the four sons of Mukeshbhai, a resident of Vadodara, was born after performing several types of worship. Mukeshbhai relied heavily on fate. When Radhika's age was getting married, Mukeshbhai entrusted the task of finding a bride for her.

These famous pundits used to get Radhika and young man's birthday before and after marriage. Thus, Radhika's marriage to Jaydeep living in Surat was decided. These two marriages, which were the birth anniversary of the couple, were born of three qualities. Pundits claimed that Radhika's marriage would be a happy one.

After a year of marriage, Radhika and Jaydeep have a son. He was handicapped. The baby had a congenital defect. That is, the urine was not in the bag. He was constantly urinating. It started to cost a lot to doctors. Radhika was busy with child grooming. When Jaydeep entered into a relationship with another woman.

When Radhika realized this, she protested. Jaydeep subsequently accused Radhika of being unfriendly and issued a divorce notice. Careful marriages broke in one go.

There is something similar about the lawyer Rakesh by profession. Rakesh and Rita got married after getting a horoscope. Two months later, Rakesh found out that Rita was pregnant. He pushed Rita but Rita didn't say anything. One evening Pierre was gone.

Rita was a teacher at a school. When Rakesh investigated there, people began to hear his voice.

Rita accused Rakesh of harassing her for dowry. And a notice sent by the court. In it, he sought divorce from Rakesh and compensation for Rs 5 lakh in damages. As a lawyer, Rakesh escaped legal maneuvering. But his family life was ruined.

Rakesh went to the pundit who got his horoscope. After hearing the whole thing, Pandit looked at the horoscope again and said, "Rita's horoscope was wrong. Because of that, she was getting along with your horoscope. "

Now the question arises as to why the pundit did not tell at the time the marriage was decided.

Increasing family controversy

Still most of the time marriage is decided by getting a horoscope. Nevertheless, the number of husband and wife fights is increasing. Courts, family courts and family counseling centers have been set up to address this.

If the birth of a kundali would make the couple happy, then there would probably be no family quarrel in our country. The basis of happiness in marriage is based on inner understanding, trust and understanding.

Asita and Azad were also married by getting a horoscope. Azad worked in a private company and Asita was a graduate. Azad wanted to take advantage of Asita's beauty for her own promotion, which was not allowed by Asita. As a result of a dispute between the two, Asita tried to commit suicide by taking a sleeping pill, but she survived. He was brought to Ahmedabad. For five to six years, Asita was in shock.

The same thing is true of Ruby. She lived in Bharuch and got married there. Her husband Rohit was employed in the central government. After having a daughter, the husband's heart was reunited with another young woman. The broken Ruby divorced from Rohit's quarrel. When they got married, the study was abandoned.

After getting divorced, Ruby resumed studying. Gradually joined the theater as well. Meanwhile, Jaish, who lives in Vadodara, fell in love. Jayesh was also divorced. The two got married. However, Jayesh's age was getting a little older. Although both are happy.

The idea of ​​getting a birth chart and connecting it to a happy future is a sensible move. Because making a horoscope makes money. The fee varies from Rs 1 to Rs.

People have had faith in the horoscope even though the times have changed. Now the business of making a horoscope is done with a computer. Which is also cheaper overall.

Looking at all our mythological texts, even the pundits got married, but God did not find happiness. They, too, became miserable. If the birth anniversary match could guarantee happiness, then our Godfather's family would have enjoyed happiness.

The basis of the future is faith, not kundal

Of the cases filed by the Uttar Pradesh State Women's Commission during the last six months, there were two dowry cases and two cases of harassment. If getting a horoscope was a pleasure then these fights would not have happened.

In this case, the question arises as to how can a husband and wife have a happy future? The women involved in this area show some solutions.

"The same types of illnesses that are inherited in young women can be detrimental to the future of the unborn child." Therefore, if a medical test is done before marriage, the unborn child can be saved at risk. This will allow the husband to not worry about the wife and lead a happy life. ”According to a gynecologist, diseases like HIV and schizophrenia can disrupt the husband's relationship. Caution can be taken if this disease has been reported in advance. The causes of these diseases are bad hemoglobin. It is reported when performing HB chromatography tests. If this is an illness, then caution is necessary. "

"The happy future between husband and wife is not born of horoscope, but of mutual love, coordination and trust."

Amrita's husband Sandeep Trikha is an officer in a private company. Amrita says, "We were not married to Kundali. Our marriage is going to be a happy one. I'm Hyderabad. I didn't like making Punjabi dishes. When my husband liked to eat Punjabi. So I learned to make rajma and rice. Now I can cook Punjabi recipes well. Marriage can only lead to a happy marriage by the husband and wife.

Famous Kathak dancer Kumkum married Mahendra Chauhan. There was no getting kundal in their marriage. Mahendra is an officer in the bank and Kumkum is an artist. The marriage of the couple is going through a happy life despite the different fields.

Kumkum says, "Getting a horoscope does not guarantee a happy life. A happy life requires that both husband and wife value each other's work.

Both ideas are similar. Living together in spite of independent ideas, such as mutual love, trust, and dedication can make a marriage a happy one. If there were a birth anniversary and a happy future, then there would not be many pending cases of divorce in the court. "

"Usually the educated class has the impression that they do not fall into the abyss. But getting a horoscope and a horoscope, this class is not far behind. "

"Some people make excuses for denying marriage, not even getting a horoscope," Shalini said.

In addition, the atmosphere that the media has created on horoscopes and horoscopes also promotes superstition. Some TVs The stream is being created by the same name. Some advertisements are also promoting that getting kundali can improve the future.

- Snowy