Confusion - Anita.

I've been married for 7 years. 4 years have passed to their marriage. On this side, my husband has been very irritable for 3 months.

Question: I am married for 5 years. I am married to a divorced seedlord because the family is not financially sound. After being married for only three months, I returned to Pierre. My husband used to beat me with alcohol and abuse my parents. Now my husband has quit drinking and wants to apologize to the society for telling me back, but neither I nor my parents can trust him. He does not insist on divorce. What I do, makes no sense.

A woman (Surat)

Answer: You are from a poor household, to what extent is it reasonable for you to leave your husband's house and become a burden to your parents? Your parents will not live to save you the rest of your life. If your husband has quit drinking alcohol, you should keep going. You should stay with him and take care of him, if he doesn't get drunk again. Discard the idea of ​​divorce, as divorce is not easy to solve and is not the solution to your problem.

Question: I am a 3 year old widow. Just two months ago, my wife died of a heart attack. I have three children ages 6, 6 and 6. They can take care of themselves and their house, but when I declare a desire to remarry, all three oppose it. Being in a responsible position in the office does not lead to irregularities. So I can't even pay attention to the house. What to do, makes no sense.

A brother (Ahmedabad)

Answer: With the responsibility of the children, they will become self-reliant and in 3-5 years all three understandings will be done, so your life will be stopped, but you will have to guide them a few times. If you marry another, you will get a wife, but your children will not accept the new. Children are not illiterate, so the house will be shaky. Your peace of mind will take over. So the good is that you leave the idea of ​​remarriage and focus on the upbringing of the children.

Question: I am married for 5 years. 4 years have passed to their marriage. So far, my marriage has been a happy and satisfying life, but for the past six months, my husband's nature has suddenly become very irritable. He fights in conversation. One of the reasons for the quarrel is that they have started drinking. Our ongoing struggles also have a profound effect on our children. What can I do?

A woman (Mumbai)

Answer: Try to find out the reason for the sudden change in your husband's nature. There is no problem with the office or business behind it, is it? Don't take the rarity of their nature too much. If alcohol is a bit of a hit, release them out of love rather than rubbing them. The more you work, the more you start to drink more.

Question: I live in a village in Maharashtra. I am 8 years old. I am a virgin My brother is in a big post in Raigarh. Having lived in the city with a brother since his childhood, MA Finished studying till After her brother's marriage, it became difficult to live with her, so Bhopal stayed with her older sister for a few days, but eventually returned to the village.

Now the problem has arisen that my parents want to marry me to a rural youth who in no way deserves me. I just don't want to be tied up in a household. Want to do a job, which is not available, what do I do? If I am too ignorant, show me the way.

A young woman (Vadodara)

Answer: Your siblings live in the city. Brother has provided you with a good education with you this year, so he has not forgotten his responsibilities at all. You can ask your mother or other siblings to find a good youth for you. Your sister can also help find a boy for you.

You too have some control over your big ambitions. Studying does not mean that you do not want to feel obligated to take on family responsibilities. A woman's first responsibility is to her family and children. If needed, the job can provide financial support to the husband, but it is not necessary to work as a job, so leave the idea of ​​an ideal dreamer as husband, otherwise it will be too late to find the prince of dreams.