If you want your development ... don't criticize anyone for their mistakes

There is no point in criticizing one if it is to develop personality and to have peace of mind because it does not improve the way it tries to justify its function by taking on a resistant form.

At the root of human nature is one thing that no one is willing to admit that they have made a mistake

Yes ... you tell any criminal that you did such an act. That's his fault. If they have the same argument, they will never accept your words, but there are numerous arguments that justify themselves. The wrongdoer will overtake you from Ringside, even after the accident, causing you to crash. Not only that, but you do not know how to drive, you will make numerous arguments that you do not know the traffic rules.

Hey, let's just go this general thing. When you go to Sabarmati jail and tell a disgruntled criminal that you have the same argument, he will not accept your statement. On the contrary, it is intended to explain to you how innocent it is !!

An officer who retired after long service in Sabarmati Jail told me that even those who were caught in ordinary burglary, murder, murder or mass murder, rioting or burning of a living were considered innocent, not even after doing such an act. They had a compelling reason and insisted that they had to do so only because of the other's misconduct.

They considered themselves victims of circumstance. Arguing for his own theft, robbery, he argued that he was helpless, arguing that circumstances were the only way out. Some consider their act an act of social justice and say they have been wrongly imprisoned.

The words of the gangster killed in a police encounter are worth reading carefully.

I have spent my whole life serving poor and hungry people. Even if a pill is to be inserted into the stomach of a rich person. But the poor's stomach was not empty. Do you know what I've got in return? Duration, profanity, and the life of an ugly man like a fugitive, even my existence, which is something one must look for.

In fact I have acted as the savior of society, people have misjudged me and my actions.

The notorious bootlegger, who was charged with numerous robberies, thefts and murders, did not repent of his wrongdoing even after he was executed, and he did not believe he had committed any such crime.

These cases teach us a shocking lesson that even those who have been sentenced to prison sentences, very frustrated, and sentenced to death as prisoners of hard work or even sentenced to death, are not willing to admit that they have done anything wrong, Will the men around us ever accept the fact that they made a mistake?

There is one thing that seems obvious when thinking about relationships with a man. To make a person aware of his 'mistake', to rebuke or criticize him is like tearing up the hive.

The reason is that at the root of human nature there is one thing that no man is willing to admit that he has made a mistake; from Soma, no man is ever ready to admit his mistake, and every time he says that he has done nothing wrong, even if he has made the mountain. What a big mistake !!

The happiness of one's own happiness is important for personality development and the best way to achieve and maintain peace of mind is that sooner or later we understand the truth that nobody criticizes. Because this person never improves. Even so, by listening to his criticism, a man becomes immune and often strives to make his work worthwhile and necessary.

Listening to criticism hurts a person's precious self-esteem. Hence the importance of this is lost. As a result, he is resistant to both criticism and criticism.

The deadly murderous Crawley, who was able to escape all the brutal and brutal murders that have taken place in New York's history, shot people so easily.

Capturing Crowley became a challenge for New York police. Once the public was kissing his beloved on the road, when the traffic police wanted to see his license, he removed the revolver from the police and fired two extra bullets. Upon receiving the news that a number of murderer Crawley was about to meet his girlfriend in an apartment, the apartment was set up to hold Crawley, leaving hundreds of detectives and police surrounded by dark tear gas.

Crawley was arrested after tens of thousands of rounds of ammunition were fired between thousands of men.

Crowley went to trial and defended himself when he was hanged in an electric chair, saying: 'I get this sentence to save me, where is this justice? Don't you think, but in my heart is the feeling of love. I am a very sensitive man. I never believed in hurting anyone. Yeah .. If I have to say anything or challenge if I shoot him to protect me, what's wrong with that? Is autonomy not a constitutional right of the individual? '

The only thing I have to explain here is that whatever wrongdoer even blames everyone but himself for that act, you will understand this truth when you are critical of criticizing or advising anyone. The tendency to criticize the cause is always boomerang. Your words are thrown back to you sooner or later.

If you overthrow the pages of history, you will find numerous examples that prove this truth. This will make it clear that there is no point in criticizing anyone and that criticism cannot improve a thing.

The German army had a rule that no soldier could complain about it immediately after being made a casualty, nor could anyone comment on it. For this, he has to spend a night and calm his mind. If he complains immediately after the incident, he will be punished.

Such a law should be in relation to the family and social life of the individual. The constant criticism of offspring should apply to anyone, to parents who are constantly shouting, to wives ... and to anyone who has no business other than to discover the faults of the people!

If you want to develop healthy relationships and want to develop personality by keeping your mind calm and healthy, remember that you are not ready to admit that the mistakes you seek to criticize or teach are wrong. He will try to justify his work. As you criticize him, he will criticize you and the criticism will take away your mental peace.

Sooner or later we realize the truth that no one has any reason to criticize. Because this person never improves. Even so, by listening to his criticism, a man takes on the symbolic form and often tries to make his work worthwhile and necessary.

* 3% of people are not willing to admit that they have made a mistake.

* All the criminals convicted in Sabharmati Tihal jail will not only think themselves innocent but will also assert that they have done so because of the evil of others.

* Gangsters also consider themselves the savior of society.